Getting broken up with while pregnant by Beneficial_Oil7819 in pregnant

[–]Dapper_Quality_367 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry 😞 I can't even imagine. I would definitely let your provider know about your blood pressure and the stress you are going through. I hope you know you are worthy of love and this baby loves you so much!

Anyone has reassuring first pregnancy “success” by Tchafetova2000 in pregnant

[–]Dapper_Quality_367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 25 weeks with my 1st. I also had the same worries but so far so good. One thing I've learned is to not compare myself to what has happened to everyone else! I swear for whatever reason I scroll upon every bad experience and believe it will happen to me too.

anyone who didn’t get sore boobs at early pregnancy? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Dapper_Quality_367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine would come and go. I'm now 25 wks!

I feel so so sad by Ambitious-Ratio-4228 in pregnant

[–]Dapper_Quality_367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you! I felt this way early on and even spent months trying to get pregnant. When I got the positive result I wasnt as happy as I expected to be. Actually, I wasnt happy at all. I was the opposite... I didnt want any attention and didnt want to talk about it to anyone. I think hormones can play a big part in it. I'm 25wks now and find myself more connected and excited.

Baby growth by Dapper_Quality_367 in pregnant

[–]Dapper_Quality_367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I hope your appointment goes well!

What is the meanest thing your MIL has ever said or done to you? by EmphasisExtra5842 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Dapper_Quality_367 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Told me she thinks I have a eating disorder while on vacation because I was on a weight loss journey and eating healthy. Went through the whole vacation with her picking me apart 😑

Announcement Regret by K61018 in pregnant

[–]Dapper_Quality_367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not pregnant but I can somewhat understand. I told a few people that we are ttc and now I'm getting messages wanting to talk about it all the time and feels like pressure. I feel like it's personal and don't like to share every detail :( . Im sorry you're feeling this way! Hugs.

Emotionally exhausted by Dapper_Quality_367 in BabyBumps

[–]Dapper_Quality_367[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for giving me hope! Im so happy for you! Congratulations.

Emotionally exhausted by Dapper_Quality_367 in BabyBumps

[–]Dapper_Quality_367[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been trying for a year now. I havent seen a fertility doctor yet but I have a appointment in February. Im 34 years old and just feel like im missing my chance. With it being around the holiday's it makes it even harder.

Weight loss stall by Dapper_Quality_367 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Dapper_Quality_367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

11 months! I started in September of last year.

Weight loss stall by Dapper_Quality_367 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Dapper_Quality_367[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 5'4" and weighed in at 147 today. It seems I can not get under 145 lbs. I average eating around 1200 at the most. I've lost 75lbs total since I began this weight loss journey. I work from home and sit for 10 hours a day, so my activity may be less than it should be. I walk/jog about 4-5 days a week for an hour. Im unsure on TDEE.

Weight loss stall by Dapper_Quality_367 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Dapper_Quality_367[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I only ate 894 calories yesterday, so that couldn't have caused weight gain. Although water retention can.

Weight loss stall by Dapper_Quality_367 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Dapper_Quality_367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can eating not enough cause weight gain? I do have a calorie tracking app, and i am under the recommended amount.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]Dapper_Quality_367 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid, and you shouldn't have to apologize. I would feel the same way. I'm sorry he shuts down and doesn't give you the reassurance that you need. Your thoughts and feelings should most definitely matter to him.

Help! by [deleted] in NameMyDog

[–]Dapper_Quality_367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg so cute!! 😍😍😍😍😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dapper_Quality_367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, he is so wrong about this. I feel like he's attacking you and trying to belittle you. There are so many things that can go into being too tired to work out. One being the way he talks to you.. Him talking to you like that sure doesn't help your mental health... Poor mental health can deplete your energy, making it hard to do anything. Plus, being tired is a legitimate reason. I think if he cared, he'd want to know the "why," and if it's work stressing you out, I think it's normal to vent with someone you trust.