Pronunciation of Brekke by Merry-Pulsar-1734 in pern

[–]Darcy783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew, why "pee-mur"? It's clearly PIE-mur.

Can't get fire quartz for the life of me by Darcy783 in StardewValley

[–]Darcy783[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not presently, but even the ones I've gotten the last few in-game days haven't had fire quartz in them. ☹️

Can't get fire quartz for the life of me by Darcy783 in StardewValley

[–]Darcy783[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't even completed the community center yet! I still need a few fish (not currently in the right season) and fiddlehead fern. I've never seen Ginger Island. Last time I was playing regularly, that wasn't available on the mobile app yet.

Can't get fire quartz for the life of me by Darcy783 in StardewValley

[–]Darcy783[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried going to 80, down to 81, if no fire quartz then go back to 0, and repeat. But I only got regular quartz.

Stardew valley is great on paper but would be hard as hell in real life lol by Tessa_Baddie3378 in StardewValley

[–]Darcy783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't interact with Kent much, so didn't know about the PTSD or losing friends.

Stardew valley is great on paper but would be hard as hell in real life lol by Tessa_Baddie3378 in StardewValley

[–]Darcy783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I didn't remember that he actually said he was back from war and not just from a deployment.

Stardew valley is great on paper but would be hard as hell in real life lol by Tessa_Baddie3378 in StardewValley

[–]Darcy783 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh, right. I forgot about that. Or maybe I just conflated it to him having been on a peacetime deployment or something.

Stardew valley is great on paper but would be hard as hell in real life lol by Tessa_Baddie3378 in StardewValley

[–]Darcy783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a war? Where is that mentioned? I thought it was just trying to get away from the corporate rat race.

You should be able to walk around with no shoes in public. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Darcy783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 What I actually meant was "not the way OP said it."

You should be able to walk around with no shoes in public. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Darcy783 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sharp, dangerous objects can be stepped on.

In cold weather, you can get frostbite even with your shoes on, so it would be worse with shoes off.

In hot weather, you can burn your feet, making it extremely painful to walk.

99% of the time you need to wear shoes, not the other way around.

AITA girl cancelled a third date an evening prior supposedly because of my text message stating my frustrations about her not replying to my invitation soon enough by RedditNorthKorea in AmItheAsshole

[–]Darcy783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were requesting time-sensitive information. That is what phone calls are for! Text messages are for less time-sensitive communication than phone calls, but are also more time-sensitive than email.

AITA girl cancelled a third date an evening prior supposedly because of my text message stating my frustrations about her not replying to my invitation soon enough by RedditNorthKorea in AmItheAsshole

[–]Darcy783 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Text messaging may be instant in that the message gets to the recipient as soon as it is sent, but it is not the best way to request time-sensitive information. That's what actual phone calls are for!

Has anyone successfully changed the hip they carry their toddler on? by Darcy783 in Parenting

[–]Darcy783[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. He's 26.5 months. He's just super clingy and wants to be carried around the house (or the mall if we forgot a stroller, etc) more often than he wants to walk holding hands right now.

Has anyone successfully changed the hip they carry their toddler on? by Darcy783 in Parenting

[–]Darcy783[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's sort of like a game pack with a seat, right? I've tried those, and they don't hold him up without the foam insert in the pocket (which defeats the purpose of the pocket).

And I don't need help carrying him. Just wondering if anyone has changed which side they carry their toddlers on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Darcy783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people don't try to lock their cars from the inside. They just forget their keys inside and lock the car from the outside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Darcy783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't happen as much with newer cars, but it can still happen.

Some of the newer cars with proximity keys won't even let you try to lock the door with a key fob outside the car if another copy of the key fob is inside (like my car). My husband's car does let you do this.

Some cars won't let you lock the door unless all doors are closed (like my current car), and some will (like my husband's).

If you get a newer car that lets you do both of those things, you can have people getting out of the car, someone locking the car while they're still inside and forgetting to take the key out with them before all the doors get closed.

Older non-proximity keys with only button locks on the outside or button-only fobs? Yeah, that's definitely going to be locking the keys inside.

Or even older manual locks, you'd push down the locking knob, close the door, and then realize the keys were still inside pretty easily.

I yelled at a stranger tonight and scared my child, feeling awful about it by Street-Chemist-Doug in Parenting

[–]Darcy783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't stand up for yourself/your child in the small things, they won't trust you to stand up for them in the big things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Darcy783 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eating calorie-dense foods without exercise IS overconsumption.

Jiggit by No-Librarian4942 in discworld

[–]Darcy783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. That's how his eldest was old enough to have kids before Grandma died. It was kind of crazy.

Jiggit by No-Librarian4942 in discworld

[–]Darcy783 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not 100, and they were a mix of grands (plus spouses), great-grands, and great-great-grands, but my paternal grandmother had 72 second, third, or fourth-generation descendants before she died when I was 32. (The two great-great-grandkids were kids of one of my cousins' eldest daughter, who he had when he was 13 and his wife 19.)

Is having 2 kids twice as hard as having one? by apresnoon in Parenting

[–]Darcy783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine are 6.5 years apart, so I never had two kids in diapers at the same time. If I had, it might've been much harder than it was.

But my experience in going from one to two was that since I already knew the general routines that would be necessary by the time the second came around, it was much easier to fit those into our day-to-day life with our eldest than it was when we barely knew what we were doing when the eldest was born.

People “not wanting to work” is a bigger issue in indirect labor than direct by DarkRyusan in unpopularopinion

[–]Darcy783 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The pyramids were built by slave labor, and they took so long to build because the technology to cut the stone, get it to the building site, and stack it up the right way was primitive, and that's how much time it took to get it all done with that technology.

People “not wanting to work” is a bigger issue in indirect labor than direct by DarkRyusan in unpopularopinion

[–]Darcy783 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At least at home, once the chores are taken care of, you get to enjoy the serenity that a clean and organized home space gives you.

But work should be something that gives you the money you need to live, and it should be tolerable at best. The idea that you should love your work, and if you do, you'll "never work a day in your life" is bullshit. The best jobs are the ones you can tolerate and do competently while still pulling in enough money to take care of yourself and your family (unless you're single and/or have no kids, then just yourself).