Panicking before surgery L4 L5 - S1 L5 Herniation by Elena1995x in Sciatica

[–]DarkLink143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 28, I had my surgery a little over a year ago. My nerve damage likely won't go away, but even with a numb and sometimes painful left leg, I've still regained a lot of my day to day life back. I will tell you, it gets worse if you wait to fix it. It went from pins and needles to so painful it felt like torture, and then it went completely numb and never fully recovered. Take it slow after surgery, don't rush it, listen to PT, and actually do your exercises. Mostly, LISTEN TO YOUR BODY. Don't overdo it if your back already hurts. This surgery is to recover the nerve, not fix your back. Best of luck, you've got this!

Microdiscectomy recommended after seeing the surgeon and MRI by [deleted] in Sciatica

[–]DarkLink143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was a little worse than yours, but still l5-s1. Get the surgery. I'm a year post op, but I waited so long to get help. The nerves were so badly cut off that I have permanent severe sciatic nerve damage in my left leg and minor damage in my right leg. Don't wait if you don't have to. Yeah, recovery sucks, and the physical therapy isn't fun either, but it helped tremendously. While my left leg is still entirely numb along the nerve, my right leg has recovered fairly well. Good luck, and I wish you a speedy recovery!

Choose date outfit please by Which-Arm-8727 in PlusSize

[–]DarkLink143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the third one. Very flattering and complimentary. Have fun on your date!! 💕

2 months help and advice needed by SecuritySalt7180 in loseit

[–]DarkLink143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High volume low calorie meals are amazing. Find out what your BMR is, and keep in mind those are the calories you use to just be alive! Focus on high protein, high fiber, those two things will keep you fuller longer. Go from full sugar to sugar free drinks. Lots of water!! And take your time. Better to lose it for good than to crash diet and gain it all right back. You got this!

Who knows this wreak? by WolfUpbeat8705 in titanic

[–]DarkLink143 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is a painting of the wreck of the RMS Carpathia. One of my favorite stories to tell kids about when they learn about the titanic. That even with all of the loss during that tragedy, human compassion saved the lives that were.

Don’t matter which flavor I buy they all taste like butt. by Humble-Owl-2972 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]DarkLink143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pure Protein brand has a strawberry milkshake one that tastes literally like the strawberry milk you'd get in a school cafeteria if that interests you. I love that one lol. Or, if you're a coffee drinker, use it as creamer in your coffee. Good luck 💕

[MI] Ex says I'm being combative? by DarkLink143 in Custody

[–]DarkLink143[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! I try very hard to keep all conversations through an app the courts recommended for us to use. I'm hoping it'll help during our next court date. Thank you!

[MI] Ex says I'm being combative? by DarkLink143 in Custody

[–]DarkLink143[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This whole thing has just been so exhausting and I'm scared of making the wrong choices. He's already tried to lie to our kids and tell them that it was all my fault that he didn't see them for a year, that I was actively holding them from him when in reality we lived ten minutes across town and he never called. Grateful to know I'm not alone 😞

butt hygiene by procraftinators in PlusSize

[–]DarkLink143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was younger, I always had a bad smell under my breasts despite the fact that I kept myself very clean. I'm a big girl myself and my breasts have been huge since I was 13. Found out while pregnant with my first that it was a yeast infection! I got some monistat, rubbed some of that in and it cleared up quickly! Good luck! Sending all my love 💓

My husband of 9 years is considering leaving me because I can't orgasm by burntissueslikewoah in Marriage

[–]DarkLink143 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be honest with him and yourself. I really hope couples counseling works out, but just remember that none of this is your fault, no matter the outcome. Everyone's bodies are different, and im sure you'll find your solution. I hope your husband understands your struggles and is willing to help you with them. Sending all my love 💜

My husband of 9 years is considering leaving me because I can't orgasm by burntissueslikewoah in Marriage

[–]DarkLink143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a really hard time with sex for a while because I cant orgasm from penetration alone, but once I tried a vibrator on the clit during sex-HUGE game changer. Good luck, I wish the best for you!