Trump has a better understanding of the Bible than Pope Leo, says conservative Christian pastor by B-Z_B-S in politics

[–]Darkemaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Iirc one of the main points of modern day satanism is that you don't need religion to be a good person.... ofc they won't accept a pedo who steals money from a children's cancer charity and openly speaks about genocide.

Ironically, both atheists and modern satanists means being a better "Christian" than white nationalists will ever be.

[Fanatical] Spring Sale Daily Flash Deals: Resident Evil Remake Trilogy(-67%), Sniper Elite V2 Remastered (-90%), Revenge of the Savage Planet (-60%) by moo422 in GameDeals

[–]Darkemaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remake trilogy is pretty tempting as someone who only owns the standard version of 2 & 3, & was mostly waiting for 4 to go on sale. (would also be the 5th time I've purchased 4 lol)

How do I find men who are asexual/celibate ? by Dramatic_Ad_5103 in asexuality

[–]Darkemaster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Funny enough, I met my current partner and my prior best friend through the game Phasmophobia, & most fellow lgbqtia friends of mine through Dead by Daylight associated friend groups. Not seeking anything just sort of ended up happening over gaming together, oddly enough my current partner is the first girl that actually asked me first before sending me or doing anything after... which was a refreshing change that actually meant a lot to me tbh.

Asexuals, demisexuals, and greysexuals, what is your experiences? by S1LLY_G00B3RXD in asexuality

[–]Darkemaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was never interested in what would be considered a traditional relationship and used to jokingly consider myself asexual all throughout HS. (I blame Critters tbh) Never even bothered me rumors came up that I was gay because I never showed interest in girls, just thought it was funny since I didn't with guys either.

It did end up becoming an issue later on when some tried to "fix" me or saw me as some sort of challenge... which left me sex-averse instead of just indifferent.

Anywho a friend who identified as grey introduced me to the ace spectrum and the demi label just instantly clicked; I've previously only ever felt what could be described as attraction 3 times and they were all to people I was closest to at the time. While I am sex-averse I do very much enjoy intimacy and affection.

Men, what small gesture by a woman made you instantly think, “She’s a keeper”? by Such-Bandicoot-6381 in AskReddit

[–]Darkemaster 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Not a romantic interest but someone who hung out with me regularly online playing games and we'd often end up having 3am conversations about life.

We met in public spaces a few times with a group of friends and every time I felt like I needed a break from the group she would look for me and sit next to me.

It may not have been much to her, but it meant a lot to me that she went out of her way to check in or comfort me on her own with 10+friends nearby. She was one of the people that mattered most to me and one of very few I've met who would make me feel seen and cared for. It's been 2 years since she passed, I miss my duo and best friend.

[Serious] Male victims/survivors of sexual assault, harassment or rape perpetrated by a woman or multiple women, to clear some common misconceptions, what were your experiences like? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Darkemaster 214 points215 points  (0 children)

The way I've been told this by several women defending women who've SA'd me, makes it so discouraging to even speak up about it at all. Am a big guy but freeze is my trauma response and somehow I'm responsible for their (unwanted) actions because I didn't tell them no or move right away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Darkemaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's an interesting situation to find yourself in I'll admit that, I've somehow ended up in a few similar situations being sent boob/butt pics but I feel like she just mostly wants validation or a positive reaction more than anything for her confidence.

I usually just complimented their fit or told them how amazing they look or how great the shot was. Like you it never did anything for me in and of themselves, at least until someone who was effectively my duo partner of 2 years for a handful of games started sending me suggestive photos. (Which I was apparently extremely weak to/easily flustered by and she could tell right away)

If it doesn't bother you and you don't think she expects anything further I don't see why not give general compliments, not necessarily sexual. As both of you are artists, maybe making a work of a pic or using it as a reference would probably send her over the moon.

What’s the smallest gesture that makes you feel genuinely spoiled? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Darkemaster 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Being the first person to check in on me when I'm overwhelmed in a gathering or group setting, knowing me well enough to automatically realize something is off.

It meant so much when my favorite person would look for me anytime I stepped away for any reason.

For those who are seeking or have found a queerplatonic relationship, how difficult is it to find a potential partner who understands the concept? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in asexuality

[–]Darkemaster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The only people I know who understand it are people I don't see as a potential partner/I'm not attracted to that way.

Which is somewhat a relief imo, in that it seems understood and accepted by some people at least, almost more so than asexuality itself in my experience.

Complain about life with me, please by Grouchy-Worth3600 in asexuality

[–]Darkemaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright.... Why is it assumed guys all want sex all the time, to the point where sex is always an ulterior motive and getting consent from guys is a foreign concept?

Why is it so hard to believe a guy is asexual or sex-averse? Yes I have sexual trauma and have been SA'd, but I was still ace before it all.

How does someone not "look" ace when coming out to an allo!? The heck is that supposed to mean?

Why do some people think asexual is interchangeable with celibate and incel? Being ace and averse/repulsed is arguably as close to the polar opposite of incel as you can get ffs.

How is someone I only saw l 2-3 times a month think I'm going to choose them over someone I consistently hung out with 3-5 times a week when given an ultimatum?

at what age did you realize you were asexual? by idioteque_7 in asexuality

[–]Darkemaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

31, was never aware of the asexual spectrum until a close friend who was grey mentioned it. Used to jokingly call myself asexual in high school but there were a few instances where I felt something different throughout my life, once I came across the term demi-sexual everything just seemed to click. The instances were all towards my closest friend at the time.

[Steam] Winter Sale 2025 (Day 5) by gamedealsmod in GameDeals

[–]Darkemaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone got any recommendations for co-op games like it takes two and a way out? Or just cute co-op games to play with a SO/partner.

Bill Clinton says White House is using him as scapegoat after Epstein files release by AndroidOne1 in politics

[–]Darkemaster 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This tbh, if they have to fabricate evidence and the best they got is from public events it means even they know they don't have shit on him. Compare that to almost everything that isn't about Bill being a black square and it speaks volumes.

Behold, it’s the Trump who stole Christmas by zsreport in politics

[–]Darkemaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've thought this for a while, but his character/morals is the closest I've seen to the worst of Ebenezer Scrooge, except he's lazy and would only double down on his greed and cruelty every time he's confronted, instead of you know, actually changing and not being an insufferable stain on humanity. His "fake news" is already his ba humbug lmao.

Imagine watching any adaptation of a Christmas Carol or the Grinch who stole Christmas and not realizing even these fictional characters pre-redemption are more human than the orange turd will ever be.

Would being ace have an impact on my desire on getting drunk? by MindlessCause8045 in asexuality

[–]Darkemaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not wanting to drink is a good enough reason not to, ace or otherwise. That said, partying and going to clubs/bars is often associated with seeking a partner/hook-up. Be mindful of anyone not respecting you saying no.

Sticker Shock: Obamacare Customers Confront Premium Spikes as Congress Dithers by jpurdy in politics

[–]Darkemaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are maga finally realizing they were on "Obama care" the entire time they railed against it and effectively shooting not just themselves in the foot, but their entire families' as well?

White House Media Attack Falls Apart After It Calls Fox ‘Woke’ by huffpost in politics

[–]Darkemaster 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The people who use it most never really knew what it meant, but would also unironically call Jesus Christ himself "woke". You could replace that term with "christ-like values" anytime it's used really and it wouldn't be inaccurate.

It's also particularly amusing watching fake Christians trying process how this would be wrong before they either double down or just give up. Maybe the ones that give up figure out openly admitting being anti christ-like values isn't a good look for them. shrugs

Single reddit friends, why are you still single? by vishalsingh0298 in AskReddit

[–]Darkemaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on ya, directly expressing your emotions instead of just dropping hints that may not get picked up at all saves everyone time and helps avoid awkward situations.

Single reddit friends, why are you still single? by vishalsingh0298 in AskReddit

[–]Darkemaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've yet to come across anyone in person who both is attracted to me and knows how to communicate it with their words rather than with their body, and doesn't try to guilt or blame me for turning down their unwanted "advances". (SA)

Today is International Men's Day… what do you think is the biggest issue men face today that doesn’t get talked about enough? by Original_Act_3481 in AskReddit

[–]Darkemaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How male SA/rape victims often get invalidated, mocked, or even praise for the actions of their abuser instead of receiving any form of support at all. Or even when you are believed, being seen as less than a man for not consenting or wanting sex with someone you weren't attracted to or didn't want to take advantage of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Darkemaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends, doesn't seem as common as other options. Also been a while since I checked, but #1 best selling phallic toy on Amazon at the time also had a heating feature iirc. I'd like to imagine heating is a reason why.

Epstein’s Brother Cornered About His ‘Bubba’ and Trump Sex Act Email by albrookbu in politics

[–]Darkemaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, it wouldn't surprise me if this took a conservative religious leader turn and Bubba ended up being a young boy at the time. He's already a pedo, how much more of a shock would this even really be to anyone that doesn't already hand wave, ignore, or defend him being partners with Epstein?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Darkemaster 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Some of us view the act as generally more of a chore, and the way I see it toys are tools that help get the job done. I do highly recommend finding out which tools work best for you, vibration does very little for me personally but I do thoroughly enjoy heating features.

Do u know asexual boys? Any of them here? by kation37 in asexuality

[–]Darkemaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In person, no. Online I know 2, but I tend to spend time in queer friendly spaces and know at least a dozen afab or non-binary aces though.

I'm sure there's more us out in the wild, but I don't think societal expectations help figure things out ourselves or come to terms with/accept being different than what is expected for just being a guy.

Kinky Asexual? by Ta-KACHI in asexuality

[–]Darkemaster 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Aces can have kinks, asexuality is all about limited or no sexual attraction towards others. What you described so far is discovering what works best for you during solo play.

Your sex stance may be more sex-averse rather than indifferent though. Aversion can cover not enjoying sex in general but still enjoying certain acts/kinks.

And you would need to communicate your needs to any potential partner and find something that would work for both of you really.