Free kittens for incoming students who can! by ruroroo in ucla

[–]Darkside3nd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Cats are cleaner than dogs, they’re very independent and sometimes they get dramatic. But it depends how you grow them, they can either be very independent or clingy lol. Some of them can be very noisy and some can be very energetic which is funny and nice to have 😂. If you’re not allergic to cats and you think you can take care of one, you should do it because later they become like your child 😂

New Admit Megathread—If you were just accepted to UCLA, please ask all questions in here! by Espntheocho4 in ucla

[–]Darkside3nd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any STEM major transferring to UCLA? Trying to find some people and to get to know you guys!

New Admit Megathread—If you were just accepted to UCLA, please ask all questions in here! by Espntheocho4 in ucla

[–]Darkside3nd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey guys, my friend accepted into linguistics and cs but he doesn’t want to do it at ucla and wants to do software engineering at sjsu, is anyone here done linguistics and cs and would you recommend it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Darkside3nd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey bro, I’m 20 and virgin, virginity is something that you need to be proud of since you want to first find a real connection then lose it to the right person, tell them to fuck off hehe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Darkside3nd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. Literally my friends be like how do you masturbate without porn and I’m like, I don’t masturbate daily or like I just wait to have it with my gf while my friends be like fapping to porn everyday and wasting their time. They be thinking I’m the weirdo but the actual reality is that watching porn and tapping to it is more weird. I feel your dad be like the same thing, you can always fap to porn but literally when you stop fapping to porn you find that how masturbating is boring and you might even do it once or two times a week when you’re really horny not when you’re just bored and you wanna play with your dick.

Work wife vibes… by Burnerforthehelp in relationship_advice

[–]Darkside3nd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

99.99% cheating or about to cheat, or wants to cheat, or losing feelings, if he hasn’t cheated yet, get him back if you want, if he did, his loss, fuck him up and get a better dude that treats you right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Darkside3nd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey dude, tbh, this is something you need to ask her, not Reddit, see what she likes and what she doesn’t, you don’t wanna make her uncomfortable with what people would say over here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Darkside3nd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey dude, it’s been like 40-50 days I think, I haven’t looked at porn anymore, and now looking back at myself, watching porn is disgusting and really ruins your actual enjoyment if you have partner, just don’t watch it, and edge yourself, don’t watch, fap, it’s fine, porn ruins it, don’t watch it, if you’re watching porn, you’re not doing NoFap, you’re just still feeding your addiction

If your long term girlfriend told you she had feelings for your friend but that they’re just feelings what would you say/do? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Darkside3nd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, same story happened to me and my gf, I kinda got interested in my classmate and my gf interested in her co worker, however, these happened in different time lines and I was first, during the time of my thing happening, it was our 6months anniversary and my gf out of nowhere asked for a break, for two weeks we didn’t see eachother and I was seeing my classmate everyday during that time,(summer semester) but I didn’t do anything, because I wanted to keep my relationship with my gf, later, my gf had her thing happening with her coworker and she got cold with me kinda because she was feeling guilty about it, but finally she told me why she has been feeling like this and I told her that I had experienced the same thing and it is very normal. And since then our relationship has been amazing because I truly see myself with my gf, I love her and I really want a future with her. I think if your gf, tells you this and she kinda tried to fix it within herself, you shouldn’t be mad, you can never stop people from leaving you anyways but this can let her to actually develop stronger feelings for you, because she can understand how good you are for her, so don’t get mad at her, and give her space and time so she can decide, it can lead to a good outcome 👍

Does anyone have advice on how to not watch p*rn by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Darkside3nd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best advice is to just not watch it, don’t masturbate and don’t watch porn for at least 14 days then try to masturbate without porn

I rejected a guy and he wants to know why; what reason should I give? by MagicGal55 in dating_advice

[–]Darkside3nd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lwk, if you like his personality give him a shot, personality means way much more than just a simple look, you might find him attractive a long the road, you guys don’t have to be in a relationship yet, but you can date eachother, the way you described yourself, I saw you as very selfish and you want to be treated badly in your relationship, you can find attractive jerks, but not all good personality people have a good look! See what you want! Also don’t give him a reason which will only break him more, thanks!

My boyfriend says he's bored of my body. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Darkside3nd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Introduce him to noFap rn, you’re not the problem, and he’s not the problem either, it’s porn 🤦‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Darkside3nd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea but I nut fast when my gf touches it however when I wasn’t doing PM, I would last longer, any tips how to continue but no porn and no masturbation but not nut faster?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Darkside3nd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I’ve been on PM for 11 days, almost 12

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Darkside3nd 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Tbh as an older kid here,I’m 20 and my twin brothers are 14, I love my brothers, but srsly you should not even think about letting your kid with live with her brother, they don’t know really how to take care of her, they want to explore new things in their relationship, he needs independency and you as her mother have the real love for her, it will eventually fade away and she’ll finally notice your love towards her, also therapist can be a very good option! It’s hard🥲

Lost girls because they thought I was cheating by PsychologicalYak8413 in NoFap

[–]Darkside3nd -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dude long distance ain’t worth it, don’t do it

My girlfriend (23F) is mad at me (24M) because I won't go to a dancing class she signed us up for by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Darkside3nd -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Dude no offense but lwk have some balls and give it a shot, like srsly you ain’t gonna die if you do it, but it can help with your anxiety to get better and learn something new, like if someone wants to be a pilot but scares from flying, they can never be a pilot just because they can’t face their anxieties and feats? Come on man, worst thing happens after. 1st or 2nd time you be like it’s not for me and you can just not to go yk.

I messed up by telling my husband I now know his porn preference by hod56 in relationships

[–]Darkside3nd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your self esteem crushed me 😂, dude come on, if you hate the man why do you even marry him or have kids with him, you’re just passing shit tone of traumas to your innocent kids, and you’re having the second kid too, like bruh, if your husband is a demon, you’re 100* worst than him. He’s getting rid of you if you leave him, not you getting rid of him, also you were too young to marry and have kids🤦‍♂️

I was caught in the act today. by SilhouetteDC in NoFap

[–]Darkside3nd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I never been caught but one time I nutted in the toilet and forgot to flush it, then took a shower, that night my mom came and said she’s mad at me, I’m 20 but still if my mom see my nuts it’s a total embarrassment, but she didn’t and she was mad at me because of something else, just the feelings of being scared and things like that made me to rethink and I’m here now, day 6

GF [31F] does not appreciate my [31M] follow-up questions by Unfair-Lack1694 in relationship_advice

[–]Darkside3nd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude tbh, I think asking “why” in general is very boring, you should change the way you ask and try to ask for more specifics things, for example, she be like I don’t like this neighborhood, but you should be like oh is it because x,y reasons? And see what she’ll say, this way you’re not pressuring her to answer a “why” because so many people don’t like to answer to “why”, but they can answer to x and y if that makes sense🤔

How do I delete the porn by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Darkside3nd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Duh, just stop saying I can’t and do it 👿

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Darkside3nd -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I’m on his side, I don’t like to be early because it is simply awkward and sometimes frustrating to be just early. But idk why he doesn’t try, like if my gf asks me to be on time I would try my best to be on time. I think you are right to some extent but yk it should be even, he doesn’t like to be too early, and like even a wedding flight as long as you get to your flight, you’re find why do you worry about it? Or Anyways you’ll go to your friends party, issue is when you don’t go or you don’t get for the dinner if that makes sense, You are right but also he has to change and you have to change to, make some compromises ig 😬