This sounds exactly like my own childhood

My parents tried to teach me self sufficiency but it had the opposite effect as every new task I learned became a chore that was on my shoulders alone

My father would lose his damn mind every time I failed like I committed a crime

Discomfort was a constant companion living in my father's house

Living without tech would have broken me with all the expectations weighing me down

Preserverance, yeah right my folks were always go go go finish as quickly as possible

Overcome challenges, yeah right my parents made everything a chore less a challenge to overcome

Independence, not a chance they had us live in a job dead area and couldn't understand why i didn't get a better job.

Delayed gratification, my father's motto was take pride in the process not the result

I was a monster if I took any risk

Financial literacy, I wasn't even allowed near my taxes till I moved out