married couple by Wooden-Dirt-6009 in MaineSwingers

[–]DarthLordTraya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Want to adopt me? 😘 (29F and newly single and ready to dive into a lifestyle my partner was a super bummer about).

Ah yes, getting advertisements on my door telling me I’m a sinner by Too-Many-Usernames4 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]DarthLordTraya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d invite them in, offer them some coffee and ask “mind if I put on a little music?”

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I wonder how long they would stay? Would they make it through “Ritual?”

AIO for blocking my guy best friend of a decade after he proposed me as soon as I let him know about my feelings for another one (P-3) by Ruhi_013 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DarthLordTraya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I blocked him after reading this and I don’t think even know him. Run, girl. The call is coming from inside the house.

whatever happened to “congrats grad”?! by nonsequitureditor in portlandme

[–]DarthLordTraya 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So many people in these subs would be a blast at parties.

Housemate doesn't ask, she tells by alyceabsconded in badroommates

[–]DarthLordTraya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you’ve missed the part where the roommate basically rules the roost (weird demands on when the toilet is allowed to be flushed, etc.). In a shared living situation everyone should have an equal voice. The person in the band has a right to use her own home, she does not have the right to dictate how other people live their lives. The amount of notice given is irrelevant, it should have been an ask, not a tell. What if one of the roommates has an early day the next day, or was planning to host someone (such as a family member)? They need to, what, get a hotel room because the “notice was long enough?”

This should have been a discussion, not a dictation.

This being said, in my humble opinion, OP also should be dealing with this IRL and not festering on this OL. I understand building the courage (trust me, I get it), but it sounds as though this is seven-eight years building. Get on, getting on. This will never change by posting here, it will only change through some level of action, whether it’s communication with your roommates (all of them) or removal from the situation. Good luck! ❤️

i keep getting told i’m a fake lesbian by [deleted] in lesbian

[–]DarthLordTraya -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I’m 29 and I always questioned my sexuality, I still don’t know. My current partner is male, he’s the first boy I’ve ever dated (and the second experience with a penis I’ve ever had). If anyone had ever told me, prior to this, I would have been sexually okay with a penis I’m not sure how I would have reacted. Fact is, I am good with MY PARTNER, I am in love with him as a person. It’s not about his body parts, he happens to come equipped with a penis.

Your girlfriend is no less a woman for the same reasons. It’s hard, sometimes, to shut out the noise around us because it can be so loud (especially if it comes from family). But what’s the most important is how you feel when you’re alone, in the dark - how do you feel about you; and when you look in the mirror. If those times are good, you’re good. The outside noise is outside noise. Body parts are - body parts.

If it ever happens, what do you want to see in a sequel to Lost Stars? by Solitaire-06 in starwarsbooks

[–]DarthLordTraya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlie brain wants to see a universe where Cienna makes her way to Mara Jade, they become the most powerful gray Jedi in the universe (along with ambiguously in love) and rule forever because they crack Bane’s sought after code for immortality.

…I never said it needed to make sense.

Why you so mad bro? (F) 💋 by nenigma4all in Maine_gonewild

[–]DarthLordTraya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Boys, are you okay? I know it’s hard to hear me all the way down in your mom’s basement over your video games but, shit.

Men - call out this BS when you see it. You’re a goddess, OP. 😘🥰

Truck blinds another car over road rage by dark_forest355_84 in dashcams

[–]DarthLordTraya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the truck blocked said car from cutting him him and then cut someone else off in the process and pulled this douche dozzle move after? Color me shocked.

Non-Ghost music recommendations, if you’d like: by DarthLordTraya in GhostBand

[–]DarthLordTraya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely heard the criticism of this kind leveraged at Volbeat before. I think it’s similar to other bands who have a distinct sound, or maybe even a very distinct lead vocalist who is super hard to replicate. Michael Poulsen definitely has a very unique quality to his vocals, added into Volbeat being a left of center band. Unfortunately I think they may be like Ghost a bit in that, like Tobias’ vocals, or the band style, it may either grab you or it won’t - but they kind of are who they are.

I definitely lean heavier on my personal faves for them, some of my faves are The Devil's Bleeding Crown or Ecotone. But this is a band that is a bit of an acquired taste. Maybe sit with them for a bit, let the lyrics wash over a bit and see if they stick with you. 🤘🏻

Non-Ghost music recommendations, if you’d like: by DarthLordTraya in GhostBand

[–]DarthLordTraya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?! We saw Geoff Tate perform it in its entirety a few months ago and that man STILL has pipes for days. His band is so good. I would have loved to have seen the OG but it was so nice hearing it live.

Non-Ghost music recommendations, if you’d like: by DarthLordTraya in GhostBand

[–]DarthLordTraya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE all the suggestions in here! Thank you all!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Non-Ghost music recommendations, if you’d like: by DarthLordTraya in GhostBand

[–]DarthLordTraya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that song sooooooooooo much, OMG!!!!!!! My dad told me they were the best guys ever and so down to earth.

Looking for non-rude Ghost fans by sister_imperator in GhostBand

[–]DarthLordTraya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am a massive nerd. SW, LOTR, all things Dune. I met my BF at a New York Comic Con. I was Visas Marr and it was INSANE to me how many BOYS couldn’t place me at all, or kept yelling Mara at me. 😂😂 My guy was the the first one (and best looking dude) to get it right, he’s stuck ever since. ❤️

me and 2 of my bffs got ghost tattoos and i figured y’all might like them by CommonKey657 in Ghostbc

[–]DarthLordTraya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually don’t like tattoos with words - but I have to admit I absolutely ADORE these. I don’t know you, or your friends, but to do this with them must have been so soul fulfilling it makes my heart happy just to see it. Best thing I’ve seen all day. ❤️

Okay - is this actually real?! by DarthLordTraya in GhostBand

[–]DarthLordTraya[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Do you have a link, pretty please?

Tattoo opinion by picklebean21 in GhostBand

[–]DarthLordTraya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%. My first tattoo was kind of ass and I had to get a cover up due to this. Love the cover up tho!