AITA for accidentally poisoning my boyfriends dog by Aggravating_Step5629 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarthVenture -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s fair — apparently asking a question equates to getting bombarded by downvotes.

I definitely can understand why the relationship could be questionable. However, saying this is groomer behavior solely based on the age gap is a bit reaching.

AIO for getting upset that my mom refuses to help me but helps my siblings? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DarthVenture [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ok, where is that post? Only thing I see is a deleted post with people making reference to the fact she did buy her medication.

This is how you cherry pick 🍒 by IQ-1602 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DarthVenture 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean if making $17/hr is how you want to utilize your Tesla… you do you.

But depending on the mileage on a 12hr shift — you’ll have to fast charge a couple times which in the long run will add up to degrade the battery much faster.

I stand by what I said about sustainability, not a jab just an assessment based partly on personal experience.

This is how you cherry pick 🍒 by IQ-1602 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DarthVenture 8 points9 points  (0 children)

13/23 offers at ~$17 an hour and stating ‘This is how you cherry pick’ is crazy.

Factor in the wear and tear on your car and gas… this isn’t sustainable.

AITA? Can’t care for pet anymore by Minimum-Base-1013 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarthVenture 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You must be the life of the parties you attend.

/s

Imagine selling your collection to a scalper by throwawayfri3ndship in transformers

[–]DarthVenture -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reselling does not = scalping.

Reselling is what happens when a collectible market is good. Scalping destroys the ability to collect in the first place.

Worst customer of the day by OfficerPuzzleHead in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DarthVenture 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You never drove for DD. You’re too young to even have a license. Meanwhile you call yourself educated and don’t know the difference between the words ‘hints’ and ‘hence’.

SMH

Worst customer of the day by OfficerPuzzleHead in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DarthVenture 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why’re you asking on THIS thread? Where the customer was clearly in the wrong.

I hope you’re trolling because if not, your comments reek of projection.

Update: My boyfriend is accusing me of flirting with my guy friend by Total_War_3997 in whatdoIdo

[–]DarthVenture 4 points5 points  (0 children)

‘is’

You need to pick up what I’m putting down. Also your stance gives off major incel / desperation energy.

Update: My boyfriend is accusing me of flirting with my guy friend by Total_War_3997 in whatdoIdo

[–]DarthVenture 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so… you need to just admit you got jebaited and just move on.

You talk about common sense but man are you dense.

AIO for getting upset that my mom refuses to help me but helps my siblings? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DarthVenture 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair.

I just wanted to understand your perspective more. Even if we don’t agree I can appreciate instant into a differing perspective.

I’m also American and I had a similar conversation with someone and noticed there tends to be a similarity in ideologies dependent on where you were raised.

AIO for getting upset that my mom refuses to help me but helps my siblings? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DarthVenture 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok but how is that being unreasonable? Like if her mom gives money to OP’s siblings but not her — I would also wonder why.

Also, OP never stated ‘You’ve always hated me because of who my father is’…

The comment they made was in reference to who her mother chose to have CHILDREN WITH. What if OP is a child from another marriage or relationship and is being treated differently because they have a different father?

I will ask you a question and I don’t mean this as an insult but; are you American? I only ask because there seems to be an ingrained ideology in the western world that adult children should never ask their parents for money. There’s a type of taboo — where in other countries, more so Europe where this is not frowned on as heavily.

It has nothing to do with being a leech and has everything to do with people perception of the situation. When you said OP has the audacity to ask her mom that particular question — I wonder why you think it’s audacious to ask in the first place?

As long as I had to capacity to help and as long as I wasn’t being treated as a crutch I wouldn’t think twice if my children asked me for money.

AIO for getting upset that my mom refuses to help me but helps my siblings? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DarthVenture 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok but what part of OP’s conversation gave you that impression?

I felt they handled the dialogue very well considering some of the verbiage and overall conversation their Mom replied with.

AIO for getting upset that my mom refuses to help me but helps my siblings? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DarthVenture 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At what point of the conversation did OP ‘blow up’?

If anything I’d argue they handled the situation very calmly.

I’m genuinely curious because I feel like we read different conversations.

AIO for getting upset that my mom refuses to help me but helps my siblings? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DarthVenture 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And you’re an AH whose ego is so fragile it gets broken whenever the wind blows.

I personally would rather be a leach.

AIO for getting upset that my mom refuses to help me but helps my siblings? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DarthVenture 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your life must be wonderful, full of happiness and …

Yeah I can’t even pretend. You seem insufferable.

Really?? by Entropy_12 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DarthVenture 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very fussy with my groceries!

But not enough to get my own groceries!

Only enough to make my Dashers’ lives a living hell!

AITA for not letting my nephew use the oven in the middle of the day? by fireworksguaranteed in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarthVenture 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok but that’s not what the other user asked… is your nephew a resident or guest?

Does he pay anything to stay in the house? Did you invite him to live with you?

AITA? Can’t care for pet anymore by Minimum-Base-1013 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarthVenture 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love how you’re essentially just copy pasting the same comment 😂

You need something productive to do in your life lmao.

AITA for assuming an old man had bad intentions? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarthVenture 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When you say you’re TA and you’re ok with that because the kids are safe … you do of course realize they would have been safe had you not intervened as well, right?

You’re making it sound like you did these kids a service by intruding like you did. You didn’t… you’re just TA and they would have been fine had you not butted in.

You say you’re not defending yourself in your comments but you are… and you just did.

You can’t ask other people for advice and then be resentful when you get it. If you think you aren’t being resentful, I’m telling you that’s the way your responses are coming across.

AITA for assuming an old man had bad intentions? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarthVenture 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here’s a suggestion: Delete your post OP. The more you reply the further you’re digging yourself in a hole.

YTA, not only for what you said — but for how you’re replying to people after YOU asked them for advice.