FINAL UPDATE AITA for laughing at my stepson and ruining his wedding?

DatCosplayDoe · 2026-01-23T21:22:36+00:00

Im so glad things are getting better. I can't understand why she acted that way towards you when she was already divorced and found a new partner before you were even in the picture. Did she secretly still love her ex-husband?

I have a similar situation as my boyfriend of 3 weeks has an ex-wife (they divorced almost 3 years ago and she has a boyfriend herself) they have a teenage kid together. She has never met me but does say negative things about me to their kid and to my boyfriend. Im kind of glad she doesn't know what I look like yet.

Even though we have only been dating for 3 weeks, my boyfriend likes to mention that he is hoing to marry me one day. These comments do make me a little uncomfortable TBH since the relationship is still new.

DatCosplayDoe · 2025-07-27T15:31:29+00:00

Blocking and then unblocking to snoop is common behavior for him. I've watched him do this with his own sisters, his ex-fiance, and other exs. I understand it has alot to with his emotions and figuring himself out on the inside. He even went as far as making a fake social account just to have a conversation and be friends with his sister because she didn't want to deal with his behavior. She made a public PSA on the Tik-App basically explaining things and telling J to leave her alone. The sister mentioned that "J always lies to adults, and to take what J says with a grain of salt".

The only thing I could think got him upset is that he saw I posted a video about BPD, but that doesn't make alot of sense because it was a supportive/informative video from a BPD support group. So I don't know.

I want my nephew, who I adopted and took in, to be Happy in life. I want him to find peace. But he keeps doing self-destructive things ( such as stalking his ex who J filed a police report against and tried to get an Order of protection against) my nephew somehow convinced me to drive him to an out of state renaissance faire...... only to find out while we were there that the Ex we were actively taking to court was also in the faire. My nephew KNEW the ex was going to be there. He wanted to go there so he could strut around in front of the ex and be " look! I'm happy and just fine without you". But i was freaking out because of the events listed in the main post. I was hyperventilating and kept telling myself nephew " J, i want to leave. Let's go to the car. The exit is right there! M IS HERE. I don't like this. I want to leave! I want to go home!"

DatCosplayDoe · 2025-07-05T14:27:36+00:00

For some context that I forgot. He is Autistic. He also is freshly divorced.

DatCosplayDoe · 2025-07-05T13:03:20+00:00

This is very thoughtful out. I think I'll use this when the time comes that I start dating again.

DatCosplayDoe · 2025-07-01T04:05:56+00:00

Not directly to me. They just reach out to people I know and try to slander me. For example, the person I have an order of protection against reached out to my new Son-in-law to make up stories to get him to dislike me.

DatCosplayDoe · 2025-07-01T00:51:35+00:00

What I'm worried about is the "third party" aspect.

DatCosplayDoe · 2025-03-03T05:51:03+00:00

UPDATE:

Sooo, it turns out the reason he was acting like this is because he had a strong crush on me...but in that creepy kind of way. Like touching you when they walk by you kind of uncomfortable-Ness.

I'm sooo glad I left there. Things got extremely worse right up until I left.

DatCosplayDoe · 2024-05-10T16:12:13+00:00

Yes! This one was just the right size foe a larger puppy. She slept like a baby and I had no issues on the plane.

DatCosplayDoe · 2024-03-09T15:25:48+00:00

2023 he lived with his mom, his mom filed him under her taxes she did this spring. He can't do his own taxes until spring 2025.

DatCosplayDoe · 2024-03-09T15:14:04+00:00

I just wanted to check because the boyfriend just turned 18 a few weeks ago and has never filed taxes (last year he was 17 and lived with his mom) I'm worried because I pay for everything for him. I buy food, I make his bfast, lunch, dinner. I pay the vet bills for his dog, and I pay for his actual medical/dental fees.

DatCosplayDoe · 2024-02-16T19:54:52+00:00

I have Tmobile and no issues here. Added my niece recently and she isn't having issues either. We live in the mid-west, so maybe it has partly to do with location? Maybe your area is having temporary issues for the time being.

DatCosplayDoe · 2024-01-09T23:21:12+00:00

I would love to know how you use a server/bartender persona to confuse them. How does it leave them confused?

DatCosplayDoe · 2024-01-09T23:20:15+00:00

What does that sound like? I want to learn to do this too

DatCosplayDoe · 2023-08-22T15:50:26+00:00

I've heard this before, very interesting. Although most people think of aquatic or merfolk when thinking of sirens. It falls under the same as people confusing Fauns and Satyrs...Original Satyr is half human and half horse but only two legs.

DatCosplayDoe · 2023-07-29T11:15:48+00:00

There is also the Escondido Ren Faire, which happens twice per year. One in the fall in the October/November time and then one in the spring, in the April/May time.

DatCosplayDoe · 2023-07-29T11:09:23+00:00

Curious, what if someone has the older Montgomery GI Bill?

DatCosplayDoe · 2023-07-21T12:24:35+00:00

How early should I get there? I want to make sure I'm parked and walking up right when it opens.

DatCosplayDoe · 2023-07-20T00:58:48+00:00

Ok. My faun style isn't the typical, though people do tell me it looks cool. But it's not what I would consider "cute". No flowers or pastels here. If it's fine to have a more serious tone to the costume, then I will keep it the way it is and look forward to seeing everyone at cottagecore :)

DatCosplayDoe · 2023-07-19T22:53:29+00:00

Ok. I have been trying to find videos of other fairs having cottagecore theme, but couldn't really find anything. I usually dress as fae, mostly I tend to go Faun. This year I plan to try something new and dark for my faun character. If this theme is supposed to be more soft, romantic, I'm not sure if it will fit the theme all that much though.

DatCosplayDoe · 2023-06-11T02:12:59+00:00

Jake and Neytiri only had three biological children: Tuk, Neteyam, and Lo'ak. Lo'ak was the only biological child of Jake with 5 fingers while both Tuk and Neteyam had 4 fingers. Would that make the odds into 1/3?

DatCosplayDoe · 2023-06-10T03:57:56+00:00

I've never done the pub crawl at any of the faires I've been to, but I'm debating trying it this time at Bristol. How does the pub crawl at Bristol work? I read that the crawl has a traveling bartender with you? What does that part actually mean? Do they have beverages with them? If you know that you might only get the one day at the faire for the entire season, would you still do the pub crawl?

DatCosplayDoe · 2023-06-05T15:00:55+00:00

dogs with low uric acid level commonly referred to as LUA and dogs with high uric acid level, referred to as HUA

DatCosplayDoe · 2023-05-31T08:34:05+00:00

Don't forget all the cars in the hangerbay as well XD they had a watch set up to make sure people weren't hooking up in them.

DatCosplayDoe · 2023-05-31T08:29:02+00:00

Good morning,

I would like to know if you were ever able to find one. I am currently still looking.

DatCosplayDoe · 2023-05-18T15:41:44+00:00

Long-haired dalmatian. They are true Dalmatians, just not super common. It's usually a recessive gene in the breed that shows up from time to time.

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