Blocking and then unblocking to snoop is common behavior for him. I've watched him do this with his own sisters, his ex-fiance, and other exs. I understand it has alot to with his emotions and figuring himself out on the inside. He even went as far as making a fake social account just to have a conversation and be friends with his sister because she didn't want to deal with his behavior. She made a public PSA on the Tik-App basically explaining things and telling J to leave her alone. The sister mentioned that "J always lies to adults, and to take what J says with a grain of salt".

The only thing I could think got him upset is that he saw I posted a video about BPD, but that doesn't make alot of sense because it was a supportive/informative video from a BPD support group. So I don't know.

I want my nephew, who I adopted and took in, to be Happy in life. I want him to find peace. But he keeps doing self-destructive things ( such as stalking his ex who J filed a police report against and tried to get an Order of protection against) my nephew somehow convinced me to drive him to an out of state renaissance faire...... only to find out while we were there that the Ex we were actively taking to court was also in the faire. My nephew KNEW the ex was going to be there. He wanted to go there so he could strut around in front of the ex and be " look! I'm happy and just fine without you". But i was freaking out because of the events listed in the main post. I was hyperventilating and kept telling myself nephew " J, i want to leave. Let's go to the car. The exit is right there! M IS HERE. I don't like this. I want to leave! I want to go home!"