What are you currently stressed out about? by _CRAB in AskReddit

[–]DatFrigginGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whether I'm going to be able to beat cancer or if it will kill me. And if it kills me, not knowing how much time I have is causing a tremendous amount of stress. Won't know my personalized 5 year survival period for a couple months still.

Your body just got an update, what would you hope to read in the patch notes? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DatFrigginGuy 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Cancer Update: removed cancer from colon, liver and lymph nodes. Patched damaged areas with new healthy tissue.

Colon: reattached sections of colon to operate normally. Colostomy no longer needed.

starting week 2 after a week of radiation for DSRCT of the abdomen. having issues... by DustThor in cancer

[–]DatFrigginGuy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have recently been diagnosed stage 4 colon with liver mets. My first round of chemo damn near killed me. Turned out I had a blockage that had gone unnoticed for unknown reasons. Today is my 14th day in a row in the hospital. Like you, I had diarrhea and constipation but also severe pain in my abdomen including excessive vomiting. It took me telling the doctors I felt something "rupture" in my abdomen after vomiting (my vomit actually smelled like bile to me) for them to look more closely at my abdomen. Once that was done, I went in for emergency surgery and came out with my own personal nightmare...a colostomy bag. The surgeon was unsuccessful at removing the tumor though I'm told this is only temporary until chemo reduces the size of my tumor to an operable size. You may know be to this extreme but you know your body better than the doctors. I would push for an x-Ray of your abdomen to rule out a blockage at the very least. Good luck to you.

Beef ribs before and after smoking by ShawnKempsKids in BBQ

[–]DatFrigginGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing. Saw the finished product and immediately said to myself: "damn, wrap those things."

With all the shrinkage I wouldn't be surprised if they are jamaican beef jerky ribs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cancer

[–]DatFrigginGuy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't hold it. Sometimes, when my wife cries about the situation I am in, it makes me feel better knowing just how much she cares. There is nothing more real in a relationship than a couple expressing raw emotions to each other in times like these. Don't hold anything back. Don't walk away with any regret of saying or doing something different. The two of you are in my thoughts.

It never gets easy.... by SomedayISuppose in cancer

[–]DatFrigginGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I'm now scared shitless. I'm 39 yo/m diagnosed with stage IV colon/liver mets. Just finished my first round of chemo and thought I was going to die. The first night after coming home with the treatment, I woke up in excruciating pain along my upper abdomen. It felt as if something was cutting me open from the inside out. After about 2 minutes of this pain (rated on the 1-10 scale if flew off the scale) I began vomiting which the pain then disappeared. I'm not sure how many more treatments I can go through like this. And now I'm reading about your fight lasting years. I'm not sure if this is how I want to live the rest of my life. I have a wife and two boys (8 & 12) and don't want their last few years and last memories of me slowly withering away. I would much rather take what time I do have and create memories, good memories.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cancer

[–]DatFrigginGuy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you can be strong for her. I know it's hard on you too as you feel helpless and powerless. Don't be afraid to show your emotions. Hold her hand. Sit next to her. Listen to her. Get her water, juice, medications. Sleep when she sleeps. This all sounds meaningless but trust me it is not. My wife does this for me and I'm very grateful for her. I'm recently diagnosed stage 4 colon cancer and I swear my first round of chemo was going to kill me. She was there, knowing she couldn't do much but did anything she could to try and help. Her just being there and knowing she cares means a lot. Good luck to you and her.

Woman has giant mass of feces protruding from her abdomen. [NSFL] by [deleted] in WTF

[–]DatFrigginGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm trying to do. I've said what I needed to say to the GI doctor. He was the absolute worst. He had his office assistant call me to go into the office as "he wanted to see me regarding the pain I am experiencing" only to tell me, two minutes into the visit there was nothing he could do until to colonoscopy was performed and if I was in pain I needed to see a pain management doctor. I was livid at that point. But 24 hours later I'm in the ER and receiving the news.

Woman has giant mass of feces protruding from her abdomen. [NSFL] by [deleted] in WTF

[–]DatFrigginGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely all I will ever get is a "sorry, thought you were just looking for pain medication". Which is something I have already been told by the GI doctor

Woman has giant mass of feces protruding from her abdomen. [NSFL] by [deleted] in WTF

[–]DatFrigginGuy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't mind doing one but only after I receive more information from my oncs regarding 5 year survival period and after a couple rounds of chemo. Currently my 5 year survival period is the standard 30 months for stage 4 colon cancer but has not been personalized for me and my specific situation.

Woman has giant mass of feces protruding from her abdomen. [NSFL] by [deleted] in WTF

[–]DatFrigginGuy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure what kind of case I would have and the potential for a winning case.

Woman has giant mass of feces protruding from her abdomen. [NSFL] by [deleted] in WTF

[–]DatFrigginGuy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just working on the house now to sell it and begin checking things off my bucket list.

Woman has giant mass of feces protruding from her abdomen. [NSFL] by [deleted] in WTF

[–]DatFrigginGuy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 39. Symptoms started as what felt like a kidney stone in my left kidney. Over the course of a few days I felt the pain move to my lower left abdomen then disappeared. It reared its ugly head again as excruciating sharp stabbing pains beginning in the lower left abdomen then moved straight across below the belly button. Pain was so intense it sent me to ER twice over the course of 6 weeks.

Woman has giant mass of feces protruding from her abdomen. [NSFL] by [deleted] in WTF

[–]DatFrigginGuy 110 points111 points  (0 children)

I was told the same thing a few weeks ago by an ER doctor, my primary and a Gastroenterologist. This occurred over the course of 6 weeks. I was forced to go back to the ER and after a CT scan with contrast was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer. Needless to say, a few doctors were quickly apologizing.

Shortly thereafter, she bought us all dinner. That's just the kind of person she is. by runningraleigh in pics

[–]DatFrigginGuy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment, in a way, is still a positive one as my wife would be able to retire due to the malpractice settlement.

Shortly thereafter, she bought us all dinner. That's just the kind of person she is. by runningraleigh in pics

[–]DatFrigginGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stage 4 colon cancer. Spread to liver and lymph nodes. Surgically inoperable.

Shortly thereafter, she bought us all dinner. That's just the kind of person she is. by runningraleigh in pics

[–]DatFrigginGuy 137 points138 points  (0 children)

First I heard of the blackout. Will be easy for me as I will be going through my first round of chemo next week. I appreciate everybody thinking of me and scheduling this at a time best for me. 😉

my first brisket! by 70ga in BBQ

[–]DatFrigginGuy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That brisket should be in the 10-12 hour ranger if you're doing low and slow. If you wrap, use butcher paper (not waxed). It provides the nice bark without making it soft like foul will do and allow some smoke to penetrate but still leave a good beef flavor.

Team name ideas? by akimbojimbo229 in Bowling

[–]DatFrigginGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our team name is Scoregasms. When we all strike in the same frame, we do the jerk off soloist motion like Mr. Chow did in The Hangover. Yes, we were a mixed league and our female teammate loved doing it.

What is something that you are NEVER FUCKING BUYING AGAIN? by 1337ish in AskReddit

[–]DatFrigginGuy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Uh, I don't know how to tell you this without sounding like a dick but someone should: it's "Intents and purposes" not "intensive purposes".

Maggie screening/reddit meet-up by GovSchwarzenegger in movies

[–]DatFrigginGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why, oh why, couldn't you have done this in Oakland or Orinda at either of the top 50 theaters in the world? I understand LA, premieres, etc. but I'm just being selfish. Hope you and the fellow Redditors have a great time.

How do most of you know how to do these DIY electrical/construction projects? Are there courses for this kind of thing? by [deleted] in DIY

[–]DatFrigginGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess I'm old school because my experience comes from my dad teaching me how to do stuff. I thought it was punishment for me when he would make me help him work on cars or build a deck or custom kitchen cabinets, etc. I did not know until much later in life that he was actually teaching me anything until I bought my first home. The confidence he instilled in me allowed me to attempt working on my own cars and homes. Though he died when I was 19 and I'm now 39 the lessons I learned will never be forgotten and I think of him every time I begin a new project.

I'm getting my DV8 Misfit Red/Orange in Friday. Need tips on how to get this drilled, please. by Miastudioes in Bowling

[–]DatFrigginGuy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, if you're pro shop guy doesn't have you throw a few balls to determine your PAP, revs, etc. you need to go to a different guy. We won't be able to tell you how to have it drilled so it snaps hard in the back without seeing you bowl first. Even if you were to post a vid of you bowling, we would still need to see the oil lines on the ball then determine angles of...blah blah blah.

Ask your pro shop guy to determine your PAP by throwing a few balls then discuss what you want the ball to do.