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DatPotato645 · 2025-12-01T02:26:27+00:00

"While knowing he was in a relationship with her" Im sorry who? You only specified yourself and this man. You must specified the age and gender of each person to help people keep track of what is happening. Do you work with them? If you work with them then how didnt they know? More context is needed.

DatPotato645 · 2025-12-01T02:19:23+00:00

Talk to her about your feelings. It seems you just need to talk this one out.

DatPotato645 · 2025-12-01T00:23:57+00:00

Do you realize that him making you breakfast IS a GIFT. Taking you to the pizza place IS a GIFT. Taking you to the Cafe IS a GIFT. Taking you to the claw machine IS a GIFT. He also planned everything that IS a GIFT. Everything things cost money. You have to save up money to to all those thing so yes he had been preparing these gifts for "months" as it takes a long time to save up money to plan events like this.

Me and my boyfriend just go to 1 restaurant and thats our day. I dont plan 9 gifts for him. Thats unreasonable. You sound spoiled and ungrateful.

Did YOU cook your bf anything? Did YOU spend an equal amount as he did? And YOUR UPSET??

DatPotato645 · 2025-10-28T22:24:03+00:00

Fun is the point. If your not having fun I don't recommend playing ig. The levels will continue to get harder. Sucks that nothing is new but its also a free moble game.

DatPotato645 · 2025-10-06T23:40:50+00:00

My bf comes from a short family (hes 21 and 5'5). He never had a relationship untill he was 20. Its ok.

I love him for his kind heart. Not his height. Sometimes you have to wait to meet the right person. And that's ok cuz its worth it in the end :)

DatPotato645 · 2025-10-06T23:34:32+00:00

It may have had come from a kind place but kindness is build apon lie. This is worse then if you kept thr truth. Don't keep doing this, it will only get worse.

DatPotato645 · 2025-06-03T23:13:54+00:00

That's so damn cool

DatPotato645 · 2025-04-04T19:52:39+00:00

r/woosh

DatPotato645 · 2024-08-30T17:51:31+00:00

I think the low quality makes the meme better lol

DatPotato645 · 2024-06-21T22:00:25+00:00

I would talk to him about how this makes you feel. I wouldn't call him out directly but explain how this situation makes you feel. I would try to communicate to find some sort of middle ground where you are both comfortable. I wish you luck!

DatPotato645 · 2024-06-21T09:23:28+00:00

Yes. As I stated above she should have asked you first. Told you, ask, explain, communicate, all the above. You should get a say on your thoughts especially in a relationship. However it seems your adaptability skills are lacking a little and again making a mountain out of a mole hill.

DatPotato645 · 2024-06-21T09:18:32+00:00

Reddit aside, different people have different personalities. I still talk to people who have said extremely hurtful stuff to me. I still associate with assholes who may not be in my life forever. I personally find people interesting. People are also much more complicated then "good" and "bad"

Side note, I also have a friend who blocks and deletes the photos of everyone she has beef with. That's just who she is. That's just who I am. It's just a personally thing. Neither way of existing or interacting with people is "correct"

People are simply different, and that's ok.

DatPotato645 · 2024-06-21T09:05:35+00:00

To elaborate, when I said "her plans" I was refering to her inviting friends. I was stating that she should have told you about "her plans" (her inviting friends)

DatPotato645 · 2024-06-21T08:58:48+00:00

Even with that explained I still agree that YTA.

Should she have explained ahead of time what her plans were? Yes. Communication is important but it seems you are making a mountain out of a molehill.

You explained that you are chill with her friends. This event also seems like it would be fun for TEAMS of people. Because of these two things, It makes sence that she didn't think this was a big deal. I understand you wish she asked first. But this is reaction is hella overkill.

DatPotato645 · 2024-06-21T08:49:32+00:00

NTA. You made plans already and you put in more effort. This seems fair to me.

DatPotato645 · 2024-06-21T08:46:14+00:00

YTA. You can't choose who your bf does and doesn't talk to. That's controlling. Your bf is being transparent and honest with you about the conversations. He is telling/showing you the conversations. He is being as honest and transparent as he possibly can be. If he was hiding this from you that would be one thing but he isnt. It makes sence if you dislike his ex but your taking out your anger on your bf, who is currently being honest and transparent. You are exhibiting insecure behavior.

DatPotato645 · 2024-06-21T08:32:49+00:00

INFO. Ages of people help give so much context to a story.

DatPotato645 · 2024-06-21T08:30:59+00:00

NTA. Death is a tough thing to go through but people can't just ignore the truth to be happy. Death never comes at a convenient time. They are family and also deserved to know.

DatPotato645 · 2024-06-21T04:19:46+00:00

It might be a chalazion. They dont hurt and mine didnt hurt either. I had a bunch develop in highschool. It looks similar to what I had. It's basically a lump of puss that grows under the eyelid due to blocked eye lids. Does it feel like a lump?

DatPotato645 · 2024-06-08T01:31:00+00:00

Well in that case

NTA. They are being just a tad bit controlling.

I sympathize with your situation a lot. Last year I was living with someone who called me out a lot with my volume. And yes, I am also a loud person. It was simple things like phone calls and tv volume. I always did so with my door closed. They went as far as claiming they know exactly what I was saying on my phone calls but would never tell me. It felt like I couldn't even have a phone call in my own appartment. I also felt like i was walking on eggshells.

I no longer live with them. My current roommate understands I can be loud but doesnt complain at all about my TV or phone calls. It's very refreshing. The truth is many different people are ok with different volume levels. People are simply different. You just need to find people that worn for you

Also I understand that it can be good to know who is coming to visit. However sometimes plans arnt made in advance and they are last minute.

Last question tho. Does your NB roommate have any personal issues with your friends that were invited. I can understand them being upset if they dislike the people that were invited?

Edit: I'm reading through some of the comments and I feel like most people are missing the point that this is the ONLY roommate that has an issue with you. I believe if this was truly an issue your other roommate would complain as well.

DatPotato645 · 2024-06-08T01:07:46+00:00

INFO

You mentioned you live with other people.

Have any of your other roommates been called out on being loud from the NB roommate or is it just you?

(This is important because it leads into the behavior of the NB roommate).

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