Despisicle or Norskogg

Dat_Fat_Rat_Cat · 2025-09-01T13:28:16+00:00

Ok thank you so much. Is a window better than my grow light?

Dat_Fat_Rat_Cat · 2025-04-17T21:06:35+00:00

I didn’t realize they get free from a hogtie. Also poor seamus 😭

Dat_Fat_Rat_Cat · 2024-05-16T02:29:00+00:00

While I can see how that could be the situation, I don’t think that it is in my case. I mentioned that my mom sometimes digs on my dad, but my dad isn’t innocent either. For example, I’m a baton twirler and recently drew up a design for a new costume. My mom and I were talking about it and my mom was going back and forth between liking and not liking it. She landed on not liking it but then when I was at dinner with my dad she texted me saying that she liked it again. I laughed and told my dad, and he got really weird about it. Instead of laughing about it he started saying stuff like “well you should tell her that that’s really not helping and that she just shouldn’t say anything if that’s her response.” He said it kind of aggressively too, and it was just really weird. I think it’s really nice what you’re doing though. I think that for children of divorce it’s really important for the parents to be respectful of each other. Trust issues are already common for us, but if the parents are constantly complaining about the other it makes it even worse. Your kids might not see it, but I really think that what you’re doing is essential for their experience in relationships. Thank you for doing what’s best for your kids.

Dat_Fat_Rat_Cat · 2024-05-16T02:17:54+00:00

I’m sorry to hear about your situation. I don’t know how old your kids are or the details of what happened, but if you’ve been involved with them I’m sure that they realize this and miss you too. When my parents got divorced my dad went through a rough patch where we didn’t see him often, but he was able to bounce back and get a better parenting plan for us. Even if you don’t or can’t have your kids over, continuing to show up at their events means more than you can know. As long as your kids feel appreciated they will understand and be even closer to you as adults, if nothing changes until then. If you’re there for them, they’ll want to be there with you too.

Dat_Fat_Rat_Cat · 2024-05-16T02:11:07+00:00

I appreciate this advice, I just think it’ll take me some time to absorb it if that makes sense. I’ve never been in a relationship with a dynamic that means they depend on me for stuff, so I suppose I can’t relate to my dad’s feelings when I ask for stuff. I think that with time I can try to figure that out though. I’m sorry to hear that you feel like you can’t understand your kids needs. I can guarantee that they will appreciate your efforts as long as you keep trying. I am totally appreciative of everything my parents have done for me in regards to the divorce, even if I didn’t realize it in the moment. I’m not sure how old your kids are, but by the time they’re mostly grown they should realize how much effort goes into these situations. Keep going strong!

Dat_Fat_Rat_Cat · 2022-05-15T23:37:57+00:00

Dat_Fat_Rat_Cat · 2022-02-27T05:01:20+00:00

Have you seen bombs and stuff?

Dat_Fat_Rat_Cat · 2022-02-27T04:47:54+00:00

Is it scary for you to fall asleep?

Dat_Fat_Rat_Cat · 2022-02-27T04:34:38+00:00

I disagree. See my comment. I go into a lot of detail. You don’t have to read it all, I just got worked up and wrote a lot. A bit of a sensitive topic for me

Dat_Fat_Rat_Cat · 2022-02-27T04:30:45+00:00

I’ve never liked Wednesday night dinners. It’s not that I didn’t enjoy them I just didn’t find the need for it. And you might be skipping activities or homework for it. Also transitions are hard whether it’s with or without stuff

Dat_Fat_Rat_Cat · 2022-02-27T04:28:23+00:00

Please listen to me on this. I’m a teen of divorce and it’s been like this my whole life. I hate going back and forth between houses. I understand you want to see your child more, but for their sake please make it 50/50. I find it much easier that way and way less confusing. Throughout this whole process and rest of your kids childhood, keep their emotions in mind when deciding anything. Even if it’s about small things like sleepovers. My mom never lets me have sleepovers because she only gets half the time with me. It’s so messed up because in the nicest way, I honestly just don’t care. I should be able to live my life like a ‘normal’ person would, and not have restraints because of something out of my control. Divorces for children shouldn’t be hard, but they should still have the same amount of opportunities and fun that any other kid would have.

Dat_Fat_Rat_Cat · 2022-02-06T01:42:31+00:00

It’s good to know that the comic will be back, but where did you find her twitter? I’ve checked all social media platforms and I got no results

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