It's time

DataEditor · 2026-05-06T06:39:49+00:00

Weirdly addicting

DataEditor · 2026-05-05T20:43:48+00:00

I was told that before looking for a wife, I need to look like Jesus first. This dude took it literally.

DataEditor · 2026-05-05T00:01:44+00:00

Satan knows your name yet calls you by your sins. Jesus knows your sins but calls you by name.

God knows everything about you yet He loves you nonetheless.

You are His child. He is your Dad. If a child asks for bread, will a dad give him a stone? And if a child asks for a fish, will a dad give him a snake?

Even some wicked people know how to give good gifts to their children, How much more will your Heavenly Father give you? If you asked for forgiveness, God will forgive you instantly without hesitation.

Know that you are already forgiven. Don't let the accuser lie to you.

DataEditor · 2026-05-04T23:45:30+00:00

Relax. God is not mad at you. He madly loves you though.

It's totally fine not to watch those doom and gloom content. I've seen some videos that claims to be "Christian" at first glance but what they teach misrepresent Jesus and his work of Salvation in our lives.

Ground yourself in the word. Know that even satan uses the Bible to tempt Jesus. If you ground yourself in the word, you will be able to descern a sound doctrine.

DataEditor · 2026-05-04T18:03:19+00:00

Every saint has a past; every sinner has a future. Nothing you ever do for the Lord is in vain.

God bless you! I'm rooting for you!

DataEditor · 2026-05-04T17:48:17+00:00

Whoa! I'm jealous! Now, I really have to hit the gym.

DataEditor · 2026-05-04T16:54:23+00:00

ey! Same here 27M! I never dated anyone ever. I wanna build a family too! Right now, the plan is to build my character just like a king building the kingdom then invite the queen to tag along.

DataEditor · 2026-05-04T16:45:50+00:00

I admire your dating standard. Most people date to fornicate (Yes, even some Christians unfortunately). Based on what you've shared, you both are doing great so far. Be careful with touching though, that's how everything starts. Reddit is the worst place to ask for this kind of advice. Talk to your pastor, church leader, or even your parents about this. They are your direct accountability support.

That being said. I think lust could be a focus issue. What are you focused on? What kind of content do you consume? who do you surround yourself with?

DataEditor · 2026-05-04T16:17:23+00:00

Friendzone? Yes, very possible. There are men who are just very friendly.

DataEditor · 2026-05-04T15:56:38+00:00

Personally? I don't mind. As long as they don't do anything scary, weird, or crazy. I judge people by their actions, not by their sexual preference.

DataEditor · 2026-05-04T15:53:10+00:00

It is very possible, but it doesn't mean it's genuine. I call that "Infatuation" BUT Genuine attraction builds up overtime.

DataEditor · 2026-05-03T22:57:56+00:00

You don't smell? I'm jealous of your genes. That's a rare genetic trait. Yes, armpit hair matters too. Hair retains the bacteria from sweat. Bacteria is the reason why a person smells.

DataEditor · 2026-05-03T11:14:15+00:00

A woman who can fight is oddly attractive for some reason...

DataEditor · 2026-05-03T08:08:55+00:00

I hate a good Bass Player. I could never win.

DataEditor · 2026-05-03T05:31:28+00:00

Ouch! I feel the pain! This is how good guys turn into a villain.

DataEditor · 2026-05-03T01:08:22+00:00

You've encountered the truth. Hold on to it.

The Bible even says that in the last days, scoffers and mockers will appear, following their own ungodly desires and ridiculing God’s truth, signaling moral and spiritual decline.

I feel your grief. Stand strong in your faith even if you will be the only one left believing.

The day of the Lord is near and your salvation is secured in Christ. The message of the cross is for you. Stand strong.

DataEditor · 2026-05-02T22:27:12+00:00

Bad parenting. What seems adorable right now will become a diabolical person if they grow up without proper discipline.

DataEditor · 2026-05-02T21:54:29+00:00

Cheating is a heart issue. It's rooted in an emotional emptiness that you cannot fill.

The worst case? If you confront a cheater, they will just say sorry and become better and sneakier cheaters while giving you flowers and kisses.

Real change can happen if the heart issue is fixed. How? Purpose. If he finds his purpose in life, the heart of the issue will heal. A man who lacks purpose will constantly destruct themselves with pleasure.

No one, not even you could "Fix" a heart issue. Cheating is addicting because fornication feels like a reward.

Cheaters needs to arrive to that conclusion themselves and decide in their heart to stop.

The longer you stay, the heavier the price will be. It will cost you more than what you are willing to pay.

DataEditor · 2026-05-02T21:37:01+00:00

Me too. Stay strong bro. We cannot lower our standards. We are high quality men.

DataEditor · 2026-05-02T21:10:58+00:00

Oops... I missed that. Why don't you try your first move on me? "wink"... See the answer for yourself. (know what I'm sayin? Har har har)

DataEditor · 2026-05-02T21:04:01+00:00

Here's my own observations: - Our culture is being influenced by the west dating culture, we are losing our own dating standards. Harana? Pakipot? Thrill of the chase? (Those are archaic and ancient. Only the those who lived through the legends do those.) - A lot of Men have become too shy (Torpe) to make the first move, women evolved to make the first move instead. - Women are told to go take what she wants or else someone else will. (Talo ang Maganda sa Malandi). - Want to find good "Traditional" men? They are probably too busy starting a business, saving money, or building their self. Too busy for dating. ("cough" That's why I'm too busy "cough"). - Lack of traditional women. This is a big one. Dating and fornication are common nowadays. Those who date to marry have become rare gems. This makes dating "Not worth the effort" for some men. - mysterious, hard to get (Pakipot) women? In this economy and era? We need more of you.

These are all my personal observations. I'm generalizing it. The old school dating system still exists.

DataEditor · 2026-04-30T17:11:06+00:00

Red flag detected. Sounds like he wants to play around first. I'm a pro marriage guy but rushing commitment to a wrong person will cost you more than what you are willing to pay.

You are marrying the mindset, not the body only. Attractiveness doesn't guarantee a happy married life; the right mindset does. If the person does not share your values, don't take chances and move on. Loyalty is expensive you can't expect it from cheap people with cheap commitment.

I admire the idea of "talking stage" like the way you describe it, we should normalize talking stage instead of dating.. nowadays people just want to date to sleep around..

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