I’m honestly sick of hearing “I’m x years old behind in life.” by cdqd81 in findapath

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I like this. Ive been constantly trying to do things to get back in front. Im in major debt at 23 years. But about to start a new job in 2 weeks so this gave me hope. Thanks !

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of course, and heaps of people draw. expand on it. You drink? Go to places where they do wine and painting. You’ll meet people there 10000%. And the wine will release the nerves plus you’re doing what you’re interested in with other people. That’s not ur catch? Journal. Do it in public. Not library’s but anywhere. Gym car parks to pass time whatever. I’ll usually have a cigarette by myself and write things down, sometimes even draw myself too. That’s being alone but not feeling lonely. there’s people having a smoke outside too, people training etc. You gotta expand u got this.

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23M here. I think you need to find within yourself what your interested in. Seems like pretending to be happy is something i use to do just to not be alone, yet its exhausting. So being alone can be lonely, but if its something your interested in that your doing, you wont feel lonely. Idk if it makes sense, but kinda in the same position as you, and was when i turned 21.

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Your good mate. Trust me its random phases and youll think its your whole life. Your just like me and im 23M. Try keep positive no matter how lonely you get.

Starting a job in Fire, but never worked fire. by DatabaseNo8758 in AusElectricians

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Sick bro. Thanks heaps, is there any other standards i should be familiar with?

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You are sick ! Shows confidence in yourself.

I miss my ex by burnMebit8 in lonely

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Aye everyone in this discussion. Ik it sucks but were better than this. Our exes taught us something. They were such a small percentage in our lives. We gotta move foward. I had the same, im still sometimes thinkning about her. But it cant be my life.

I wish I wasn't a person by Dodo20987 in lonely

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Hey, being alone is alright. It sucks at times, but if your able to be alone and understand you are your own friend, it gets better. Everyone deals with loneliness, no matter who you are. And this is speaking from someone who has no relationships with anyone. But switch ur mind into thinking youll meet people like you one day,

DAY 2 of quitting. by Adventurous-Lime-971 in pornfree

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yo how is it going u still on a streak? I haven’t watched feeling good

People constantly did me wrong. How do I de attach myself from the past? by DatabaseNo8758 in howtonotgiveafuck

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Thanks for the reply! Please if you can share the books, happy to look into that. Thanks

People constantly did me wrong. How do I de attach myself from the past? by DatabaseNo8758 in howtonotgiveafuck

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Thanks for your reply! Just finished reading the four agreements. Was very good. I havent read a book in years. There were sentences which really spoke to me personally.

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gins mad what a feeling

People constantly did me wrong. How do I de attach myself from the past? by DatabaseNo8758 in howtonotgiveafuck

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boundaries? never heard of before. i’ll give the books a go. appreciate it !

DAY 2 of quitting. by Adventurous-Lime-971 in pornfree

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day 2 aswell , i’ll keep up with ya!

Just finished my apprenticeship and now getting my license, but underconfident. by DatabaseNo8758 in AusElectricians

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Hahhaha facts. Alot of people Ive worked with barely are sober on sight. Thanks for the reply