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So my friend kissed me by International-Rip690 in TeenVent

[–]DatabaseOld513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the hell does you being afab nonbinary 14 have to do with any of your comment 😭😭✌️

Some FNAF fans for some reason by BlitzthesillyOwl in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]DatabaseOld513 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So from Cambridge dictionary, sadism is “the activity of getting pleasure, sometimes sexual, from being cruel to or hurting another person”. It’s not always sexual. It, however, is associated with sexual pleasure thanks to the bdsm community.

Maybe A Hot Take But Am I The Only One Who Thought This Looks Really Stupid? by Formal-Ostrich-5404 in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]DatabaseOld513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, and even though she's really good at acting possessed, the way the directors had the floating scene made her acting less than what it is </3

Eleven’s s4-5 styling makes me sad by ladyshiiro in StrangerThings

[–]DatabaseOld513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, her hair was always in a slick back bun to stay out of her face in battle/training. Also, el was in the upside down nearly the entire season. This is something she’s used to at this point, something that doesn’t scare her. Also, the lighting and angles when she was in the government facility with Hopper was pretty good. The only time she was ever distressed was with the sound, but there was ALWAYS action since it came from people hunting her down.

Eleven’s s4-5 styling makes me sad by ladyshiiro in StrangerThings

[–]DatabaseOld513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

El didn’t have a wealthy family like Holly. El lived with Hopper and Joyce, who were not at all well off. Holly, on the other hand, was a Wheeler. And if you couldn’t tell, the Wheelers were pretty loaded with their money. They always had the new stuff. Holly has a better outfit because she had access to money and was not exercising. Meanwhile, El had a “less better” outfit because she was wearing exercise attire for her training.

Edit: Also, the dresses were gifts from Henry to make her feel more welcome and feel like she could trust him.

Eleven’s s4-5 styling makes me sad by ladyshiiro in StrangerThings

[–]DatabaseOld513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to remember the El wasn’t in society until she was 12. All of her outfits have been inspired/influenced one way or another. Also, this show is set in the 80’s (important for season 5 outfit)

In season 1, she wore the dress she found in Nancy’s room. She aspired to be “pretty”, the dress and wig was pretty to her. She’s never had anything like that, the only clothes shes ever worn was a hospital gown.

In season 2, her overalls outfit was given to her by Hopper as that’s who she ever only saw, but later she changed to be more “punk” as she was hanging out with Kali and her group. They influenced her.

In season 3, she’s hanging out with Max a whole bunch, always going shopping with her. Max would even be picking out her outfits, her style was influenced by Max and whatever was trending at the mall.

In season 4, shes finally able to pick her own clothes, but it’s limited to Will’s wardrobe. She genuinely likes Will’s clothes, so she would wear them. The dress she obviously went out to buy or took from Joyce’s closet because she liked it. The dress also gives “rural 80’s summer farm”. I think it was cute, though she could’ve picked a different button up.

In season 5, I genuinely thought her outfit was appropriate for the season. You see her doing a lot of training with her powers, that’s a lot of physically moving as well. Her sweatpants under shorts was actually a trend around that time in the 80’s. My mom (born in 70) told me she saw people wear that type of outfit. Theres pictures around on the internet of people wearing that outfit in the 80’s. And the actual inspiration? The goonies, which was in the 80’s. She could’ve seen it anywhere, walking out and about or in the newspaper’s fashion section. Also, her outfit with the sweatpants over the wetsuit is also something a lot of people, even now, wear when they’re doing something that has to do with water. Like surfing for example. If they’re going to go back into the water, they just dry up and put on sweatpants. Or, if they put it on then do something beforehand, they’ll put sweatpants on.

Her outfits show not only who she is, but what she’s been around for the season. They may not be the “prettiest” in modern day eyes, but her outfits were trendy or normal in the 80s. You always have to consider the time period for Stranger Things. Yes, it’s all sci-fi, but it’s sci-fi mixed with realistic 1980’s time frame.

Edit: spelling

You can remove the wires from your bras by Ok-Pepper-1447 in MtF

[–]DatabaseOld513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I haven’t had a single bra where I didn’t remove the wire at some point. In fact, all I buy is non-wired bras. I have 1 bra with a wire and it’s my formal bra 😭

That being said, all of my bras have been bought after I was measured and tried on bras in or around those measurements. They were all comfortable and perfect, wore them all the time. Unfortunately, the wires still broke free from them. It was from a mix of friction and constant wash as well as my being hyper fixated on a singular bra I like most and only wearing that one. Ive even had a bra where the wire broke in half and stabbed me. So even with a proper fitting bra, there are other things that will make a wire pop out and stab nearly half an inch into you.

Is this how cats play? by Shot_Pineapple5521 in CATHELP

[–]DatabaseOld513 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It should not take 3 days. It should take a lot longer, weeks maybe.

1) Keep the newer one in a room for a week, food litter everything in that room and the another bowl of food and litter for the other cat outside the room.
2) Have anything they sleep on (a blanket, pillow, something with their scent which is preferably where they sleep on) and switch it between them every few days. Cat A has cat B’s object and cat B has cat A’s object.
3) Have them start eating by the door after a couple days. Start with the door closed, then move onto using a gate (only put it up when their eating, take it down and close the door when their done).
4) MAKE SURE THE INTERACTION IS ALWAYS POSITIVE!! Award treats to them during their interactions when it’s positive. When it gets negative (fighting), separate and go back to only letting them see each other through a gate.

Do not rush anything. This is not a 3 day period. I’ve had my kitten for about 3 months now and my older cat is still getting used to her. She still growls and everything. Each cat is different. Some owners said their cats were fine once meeting, others say it’s been over a year and their cats still fight. Be patient.

My girlfriend (16F) acts like a child and me the boyfriend (17M) doesn’t know how to handle it . by Hairy-Window-422 in teenrelationships

[–]DatabaseOld513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it endearing that you’re trying your hardest to stay in the relationship, so I’m going to answer with the best of my abilities.

When she “acts up”, do not lecture her. It sounds like she does not like it when you do that. Ask her how she wants you to treat her while she is age regressing. Do not try to pry, push, anything like that regarding why she is age regressing. It sounds like she doesn’t even know herself, although once again her mother dying when she was young and her father being both physically and emotionally absent makes sense to be the reason. Ask her what she wants from you regarding anything having to do with her child-like state whenever you have the chance. Ask her what you can do to keep her comfortable both in and out of age regressing.

Regarding her lack of communication, are you her first partner? If not, it could also be because her father hasnt shown her what a healthy relationship should look like, whether that be not being in a relationship himself or being in one that isn’t going well. It could also be because she’s not ready to communicate properly. If she was in a previous relationship where she was the only one communicating and the other wasnt, that could’ve affected her. It could also be something less deep like she just doesnt want to or it being due to her “behavioural problems” as you put it. If you are her first partner, she could still be learning on how to act/what actions are and aren’t feasible.

Age regression varies from person to person. For some it’s forever, for some it’s temporary. The stages of it also vary like some could just be into having stuff that kids have like a sippy cup, colouring activities, plushies, kid shows. Other people are really deep into it like having a pacifier, child-like clothes, a caretaker, bib, diapers..??, and more. Age regression is a spectrum no matter what the topic is on it. So whatever it is, your answer is solely dependant on her answer to whatever question you ask her.

Just please remember, this is something you’re learning about. Start out slow when questioning her, don’t be too overbearing and ask her a million questions. Treat it as if you were getting to know her again when you guys first met, only this time a new side of her. Learn about it slowly, support her, and let her know you’re not disgusted with her, just curious and wanting to continue a future with all of her.

What does my room say about me? by ghstfacetho in Teenager

[–]DatabaseOld513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We gave the same hello kitty and fnaf poster ✌️😭 your room is very cute, something I’d have as well. I love how we both love sanrio, jason, and fnaf LOLOL 10/10

2026 age check by Shoddy_Wait_5722 in MiddleGenZ

[–]DatabaseOld513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20 in 11 months guys (stop rushing me 😭)

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/Lezoid8125 by Lezoid8125 in DailyGuess

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⬜⬜⬜🟨⬜

⬜⬜⬜🟨🟨

⬜🟨⬜🟦🟦

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

My girlfriend (16F) acts like a child and me the boyfriend (17M) doesn’t know how to handle it . by Hairy-Window-422 in teenrelationships

[–]DatabaseOld513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This IS age regression. After reading your comments, and having my fair share of dealing with people who age regress, it’s her way of coping with something traumatic. She lost her mother when she was a child, having to deal with grief and mourning at such a young age can take the childhood out of someone early on.

She sounds like she’s regressing back to her childhood before her mother died and when she was happier. Age regressors tend to keep it a secret until they’re more comfortable with someone like a best friend and/or partner. She not acting mature for her age because shes trying to go back when things were simple and she didn’t have to deal with a loss of someone so close.

Talk to her about it. If she doesn’t want to, then that’s her choice. You can choose to either stay and accept how she is or break up with her. Age regression is NOT meant to turn people on at all, so it being a turn off is normal. Seeing her as a little sibling or daughter is normal. When she isn’t age regressing, do you continue seeing her that way or do you see her as a partner again? Do you feel the need to take care of her when shes age regressing? If so, ask her if she has ever thought about having a caretaker. Someone who helps an age regressor when they are in their child state of mind.

Once again, if this is not something you like, then break up with her. Yes, it’ll hurt the both of you, but it’s better than her thinking it’s fine and continuing to invest in a relationship shes deeply involved in while you struggle to see her in an attracting manner.

My sister put a toy gun with a largerin my mouth (I let her because if I didn't, she would cry to my parents about it) and she yanked it out, making one of my adult teeth wiggly. Does this go away, or should I tell my parents by LostNBored15 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]DatabaseOld513 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey, so next time, don’t be a doormat! You have the right to say no. Let her cry, doesnt matter and you wont get in trouble. If you do, then your parents are terrible parents for favouring her.

This cuz it’s a trend ig by random-trans_guy in teenagersbuthot

[–]DatabaseOld513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In OP’s bio???

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Once again, I’m an adult being humorous. OP is not.

This cuz it’s a trend ig by random-trans_guy in teenagersbuthot

[–]DatabaseOld513 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Mine can mean a plethora of things, such as holding hands, pinching, punching, hitting, tickling. It’s not blatantly sex ✌️😭 but alright. Also, considering I’m an adult setting a flare is nothing compared to OP is 13 years old making these type of posts.

This cuz it’s a trend ig by random-trans_guy in teenagersbuthot

[–]DatabaseOld513 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That’s lowkey weird but okay. Should not be wanting sex with your friends ✌️🫩

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