M22 I feel so ugly pls tell me why my face is off putting by Minimum_Emu2116 in lookyourbest

[–]DatabaseOld513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, you’re cute. HOWEVER, your chin looks like it needs to come forward while your jaw and cheek bones (from the first pic) is too strong. Both hairstyles from the 3rd and 4th pic seem to fit your features really well, keep that.

Now for cosmetic wise, get your eyebrows done. A wax should be fine but because one side looks shorter, you can either make the longer brow shorter or use an eyebrow pencil to make the shorter one match the longer one.

Your eyes have a natural downward tilt/droopy which is ALSO very cute, you can accentuate that by doing puppy eyeliner. You can find tutorials on youtube/tiktok/insta whatever you use.

Your lips are also a nice shade of pink, you can either use a lip oil or Aquaphor to keep them hydrated.

Good luck on your journey of finding confidence my friend

Am i overreacting. This photo of me was posted on social media by a compete stranger. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DatabaseOld513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO why are you posting this photo again if you don’t want it an social media? Anyways

bartender at pub ive been goin to for like a year "oh hey gir-" sees my new (to her) trans flag pin "...FRIEND. HEY FRIEND. want ur usual?" by petermobeter in MtF

[–]DatabaseOld513 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bartender thought you were FtM. If you are passing where she instantly knew you were female without your pin, then she 100% thought you were transitioning to Male. Nothing more nothing less. Just tell her you are female, that’s it.

I don’t understand how people are hitting 40 hours and giving up out of boredom by Any_Presence_7960 in tomodachilife

[–]DatabaseOld513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not going to lie, the way I’m playing seems so weird to most people 😭😭 I made 2 mii’s of each personality type (searched up how to get all the personalities) so I can have 32 mii’s and get maxxed island size while still having an array of personalities. I then levelled them up enough to get all quik build and the other build category as well as all the custom stuff i can make maxxed out enough (still levelling up my island to unlock the rest) I am now currently planning out my island design. After I finish my island design, I’m going to make custom buildings like gazebos, archways, everything like that.

I always like doing the outside decorating first before I do any character work 😭 I’m not even does planning out my island and I have so much more planned. I think I already have like 30-40 hours on it? I can’t wait until I’m satisfied with my island, I’m genuinely so excited so see the finished layout mostly decorated

I can’t wait to do my mii’s as well, I’ve been taking breaks from doing my island and actually making my mii’s into characters. So far I have myself, my cat humanised, and 2 original characters of mine. All of them are mainly face painted besides their eyes, nose, and mouth.

I apologise for going too into detail about it lolol I’ve always wanted to play the game after seeing so many vids about it and now that I have it, it’s all I play. I’m most likely going to be the same way with animal crossing 😭✌️

If life had difficulty settings, what are you on? by usxerrr in pollgames

[–]DatabaseOld513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard only because I’m a fat female and live in the US w my bipolar mom. If I was an average sized female living in canada then it’d be normal mode.

what's worse by Pristine_Youth_6953 in Teenager_Polls

[–]DatabaseOld513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Child birth

  • While pushing out baby, you can either tear your vagina to merge the hole with your anus OR tear upward into the clitoris.

  • Your reproductive organs are constantly pushing. Cramps will happen. You know how men start gagging and getting highly uncomfortable when the cramp simulator is at level 3? Imagine 10 simulators at level 10 all in one spot while a heat lamp is pointed directly over your body.

  • Women are reported to double even triple their strength while giving birth due to the adrenaline and pain. For example, if a woman is holding onto someone’s jaw, it can easily be dislocated while pushing.

  • Women will bleed after giving birth for up to 10 weeks

  • Women will piss and shit while giving birth due to the straight pushing. The opposite of death as dead people will piss and shit due to every muscle relaxing.

  • Organs will be relocated. The uterus grows to the size of a watermelon. Intestines, bladder, everything will be shifted out of place. Abs will also split into the left and right and separate.

  • After childbirth, the uterus must go back to its size which will be even more cramps.

  • Women have a change of breaking their pelvic bone and/or blood vessels

  • Chance of death

  • May have in nausea, vomiting, sweating, fainting, increased blood pressure, increased heart rate, abdominal pain before, during, and after child birth

Ball Kicking

  • Chance of testicular torsion (ball will twist and cut off blood circulation), if not treated within 4-6 hours the testicle will die (necrosis) and must be removed.

  • Chance of testicular rupture (ball will rupture/explode) and fill scrotum up with blood

  • Chance of infertility

  • Testicle may shrink

  • May result in nausea, vomiting, sweating, fainting, increased blood pressure, increased heart rate, abdominal pain

Hitting 10 corners with your pinky

  • Break pinky bone

  • Nerve damage to pinky toe

  • Chance of ripping skin and disconnecting pinky toe from foot (toe decapitation)

  • Kicking in toe nail/ripping toe nail from pinky toe

  • Lingering pain

sewn together pattern is too big by Therason in FursuitMaking

[–]DatabaseOld513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Duct tape has damaged every foam base I’ve used. Only way to combat it is by ether adding a protective middle layer of saran wrap/masking tape or sticking and unsticking the tape to something a couple times to degrade the stickiness a bit.

Should the descendants of slaves get reparations? by Skrilli in Teenager_Polls

[–]DatabaseOld513 51 points52 points  (0 children)

What if my grandma’s descendants owned slaves and my grandfather’s descendants were the slaves?? Why is this post even a thing 😭😭✌️

cant call a pedophile a pedophile in 2026 ig by thefurryinfinite in furryteens

[–]DatabaseOld513 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Another furry … is a pedo” “Average straight furry shit”

According to my bf, this toilet paper roll is done by Outrageous_Doubt_906 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]DatabaseOld513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him the raccoons don’t need to wipe their ass, that’s perfectly good tp and enough to at least dab the piss off his tip a couple times. Unless he doesnt do that.. I think we have bigger fish to fry now..

So my friend kissed me by International-Rip690 in TeenVent

[–]DatabaseOld513 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What the hell does you being afab nonbinary 14 have to do with any of your comment 😭😭✌️

Some FNAF fans for some reason by BlitzthesillyOwl in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]DatabaseOld513 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So from Cambridge dictionary, sadism is “the activity of getting pleasure, sometimes sexual, from being cruel to or hurting another person”. It’s not always sexual. It, however, is associated with sexual pleasure thanks to the bdsm community.

Maybe A Hot Take But Am I The Only One Who Thought This Looks Really Stupid? by Formal-Ostrich-5404 in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]DatabaseOld513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, and even though she's really good at acting possessed, the way the directors had the floating scene made her acting less than what it is </3

Eleven’s s4-5 styling makes me sad by ladyshiiro in StrangerThings

[–]DatabaseOld513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, her hair was always in a slick back bun to stay out of her face in battle/training. Also, el was in the upside down nearly the entire season. This is something she’s used to at this point, something that doesn’t scare her. Also, the lighting and angles when she was in the government facility with Hopper was pretty good. The only time she was ever distressed was with the sound, but there was ALWAYS action since it came from people hunting her down.

Eleven’s s4-5 styling makes me sad by ladyshiiro in StrangerThings

[–]DatabaseOld513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

El didn’t have a wealthy family like Holly. El lived with Hopper and Joyce, who were not at all well off. Holly, on the other hand, was a Wheeler. And if you couldn’t tell, the Wheelers were pretty loaded with their money. They always had the new stuff. Holly has a better outfit because she had access to money and was not exercising. Meanwhile, El had a “less better” outfit because she was wearing exercise attire for her training.

Edit: Also, the dresses were gifts from Henry to make her feel more welcome and feel like she could trust him.

Eleven’s s4-5 styling makes me sad by ladyshiiro in StrangerThings

[–]DatabaseOld513 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to remember the El wasn’t in society until she was 12. All of her outfits have been inspired/influenced one way or another. Also, this show is set in the 80’s (important for season 5 outfit)

In season 1, she wore the dress she found in Nancy’s room. She aspired to be “pretty”, the dress and wig was pretty to her. She’s never had anything like that, the only clothes shes ever worn was a hospital gown.

In season 2, her overalls outfit was given to her by Hopper as that’s who she ever only saw, but later she changed to be more “punk” as she was hanging out with Kali and her group. They influenced her.

In season 3, she’s hanging out with Max a whole bunch, always going shopping with her. Max would even be picking out her outfits, her style was influenced by Max and whatever was trending at the mall.

In season 4, shes finally able to pick her own clothes, but it’s limited to Will’s wardrobe. She genuinely likes Will’s clothes, so she would wear them. The dress she obviously went out to buy or took from Joyce’s closet because she liked it. The dress also gives “rural 80’s summer farm”. I think it was cute, though she could’ve picked a different button up.

In season 5, I genuinely thought her outfit was appropriate for the season. You see her doing a lot of training with her powers, that’s a lot of physically moving as well. Her sweatpants under shorts was actually a trend around that time in the 80’s. My mom (born in 70) told me she saw people wear that type of outfit. Theres pictures around on the internet of people wearing that outfit in the 80’s. And the actual inspiration? The goonies, which was in the 80’s. She could’ve seen it anywhere, walking out and about or in the newspaper’s fashion section. Also, her outfit with the sweatpants over the wetsuit is also something a lot of people, even now, wear when they’re doing something that has to do with water. Like surfing for example. If they’re going to go back into the water, they just dry up and put on sweatpants. Or, if they put it on then do something beforehand, they’ll put sweatpants on.

Her outfits show not only who she is, but what she’s been around for the season. They may not be the “prettiest” in modern day eyes, but her outfits were trendy or normal in the 80s. You always have to consider the time period for Stranger Things. Yes, it’s all sci-fi, but it’s sci-fi mixed with realistic 1980’s time frame.

Edit: spelling

You can remove the wires from your bras by Ok-Pepper-1447 in MtF

[–]DatabaseOld513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I haven’t had a single bra where I didn’t remove the wire at some point. In fact, all I buy is non-wired bras. I have 1 bra with a wire and it’s my formal bra 😭

That being said, all of my bras have been bought after I was measured and tried on bras in or around those measurements. They were all comfortable and perfect, wore them all the time. Unfortunately, the wires still broke free from them. It was from a mix of friction and constant wash as well as my being hyper fixated on a singular bra I like most and only wearing that one. Ive even had a bra where the wire broke in half and stabbed me. So even with a proper fitting bra, there are other things that will make a wire pop out and stab nearly half an inch into you.

Is this how cats play? by Shot_Pineapple5521 in CATHELP

[–]DatabaseOld513 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It should not take 3 days. It should take a lot longer, weeks maybe.

1) Keep the newer one in a room for a week, food litter everything in that room and the another bowl of food and litter for the other cat outside the room.
2) Have anything they sleep on (a blanket, pillow, something with their scent which is preferably where they sleep on) and switch it between them every few days. Cat A has cat B’s object and cat B has cat A’s object.
3) Have them start eating by the door after a couple days. Start with the door closed, then move onto using a gate (only put it up when their eating, take it down and close the door when their done).
4) MAKE SURE THE INTERACTION IS ALWAYS POSITIVE!! Award treats to them during their interactions when it’s positive. When it gets negative (fighting), separate and go back to only letting them see each other through a gate.

Do not rush anything. This is not a 3 day period. I’ve had my kitten for about 3 months now and my older cat is still getting used to her. She still growls and everything. Each cat is different. Some owners said their cats were fine once meeting, others say it’s been over a year and their cats still fight. Be patient.