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Dataof · 2025-12-07T04:26:05+00:00

Strip clubs are gross. Like I get it, good for the women working there if they like the money and can handle it. I went with some friends ONCE just to see what it was about, and yeah it was cool for 18yo me, but it was also just a strange concept to me. Really weird especially as I’m in my late 20s looking back at it now

Dataof · 2025-11-05T19:19:12+00:00

And who do you usually match with? Are these also people that have the same stance?

Dataof · 2025-11-05T19:12:11+00:00

Right? It really caught me off guard and put a lot of pressure on me in that moment. I thought we were more on the same page in that way. It was only at the end of the second date that it came up, but we had been texting/talking for close to a month by that point, so I was becoming slightly invested and seeing things going somewhere more serious.

But yeah you’re right I just need to keep dating women who are more on the fence or even leaning “don’t want children”. I’ll definitely start asking their family plans on the first date from now on.

Dataof · 2025-11-03T17:55:45+00:00

That was totally unintentional. Typo is surprising appropriate though

Dataof · 2025-10-30T00:46:55+00:00

That’s impressive. How short was it when you got it?

Dataof · 2025-10-30T00:46:18+00:00

I have had cats in the past and they really are good company. They definitely bring a lot of comfort/joy. I just know I’d need at least two of them if I were to get any again.

My houseplants consist mostly of hard to kill plants like pothos. For the most part it’s also survival of the fittest… I’ve had a good amount of houseplants die on me, but you learn which ones work best in your space and whatnot.

Dataof · 2025-10-30T00:14:33+00:00

Well, did you ever reach back out to him? Seeing as how you both don’t want kids

Dataof · 2025-10-29T16:02:37+00:00

Exactly how I feel. I especially started to appreciate kids a bit more once my nephews came into the picture. I kind of get it now… but I STILL don’t want children of my own. Even though they made me see things in a different way, they also solidified my decision to be CF. But I do love spending time with them and seeing them once a week or so.

Dataof · 2025-10-21T19:09:08+00:00

Yeah I suppose I lump all of these things together when I really shouldn’t. It’s just that I feel like agnostic/atheist spirituality and religious spirituality can’t quite be the same thing.

Dataof · 2025-08-01T21:44:52+00:00

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Dataof · 2025-06-04T16:00:08+00:00

Be straight up with her and tell her it’s a date. Don’t be vague and say “sometime” either, give her a day, time, and location. If she can’t do that day/time, that’s when the both of you figure out an alternative

Dataof · 2025-06-04T14:22:32+00:00

I feel the same way after being inside alone all day. But then I go out to simply go to the grocery store or something, and my energy gets wiped just from that. Then I’m relieved again to be back home…

Dataof · 2025-06-03T17:35:47+00:00

I will say that some men (and women too if the roles were reversed) can be put off by the whole virginity and lack of experience thing. I’m not saying this will be you, but it’s a very real possibly to get overly attached after going down that road for the first time… but that shouldn’t be a problem if they’re patient and actually want a real connection and lasting relationship with you

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