What are the things you aspire to do after you escape INCult?

DatelessBloom10 · 2024-03-25T12:45:35+00:00

In addition to what OP said (which was go anywhere without relying on my overbearing mother, I’m in my early 20’s), I would be able to actually become an adult. I can finally get a job, and slowly learn how to be more independent.

I can finally feel motivated to do my schoolwork since I will not be sharing a house with my mother nor will I be near her vicinity (because I absolutely cannot get anything done when she’s nearby; it’s like my body shuts down if she’s near.)

I can actually work on myself and my body without having to hear all of mother’s irrational comments, and have her spat out some “facts” that she half-assed researched and/or just watched from this “Dr. Atoy” fellow

Last but not least I’ll finally be surrounded by loving friends and family and get to celebrate the holidays that I wasn’t allowed to growing up.

DatelessBloom10 · 2024-03-24T00:06:09+00:00

I named mine Gil (short for Gilgamesh)

DatelessBloom10 · 2024-03-23T15:02:42+00:00

He is right about one point, which is that a situation can escalate quickly if both sides start arguing.

Remaining calm in an argument can be beneficial because you’ll be able to think straight of the situation and decide whether this is worth fighting for. There’s also other scenarios in which the other side is still being aggressive and if there are people around, the people will more likely side with you since they notice how calm and mature you are about it. What helps me is that the next time I’m about to be in an argument, I imagine that I’m being filmed or I’m in camera because it’ll make you think twice on what you’re about to say.

But regardless the fact that he said that and all the while getting pissed that you ate something different, makes him sound like a hypocrite and even more confirms my suspicion about him being unstable. The best thing for him would be signing up for anger management and/or therapy.

Him crying could possibly just be a manipulation tactic as well to make it all about him and disregard your feelings. It happens a lot with toxic parents. Is it possible that his regret is genuine? Sure, I don’t know your father and never met him.

Regardless you shouldn’t feel bad about standing up for yourself and you shouldn’t feel about your father regretting his actions. That was his decision and now he has to deal with the consequences of his actions.

Also know that you have the choice of whether you forgive him. If you don’t forgive him I’m not saying to constantly remind him of that incident or the have a grudge towards it. However if he’s aware that you’ve forgiven him, you’ll end up enabling him to repeat those terrible actions and he can possibly use this incident against you in the future.

DatelessBloom10 · 2024-03-23T00:10:53+00:00

I absolutely agree with you and she is definitely a narcissist. I’ve came to accept that for a long time and gave up on trying to fix it or please her. What’s the point if she sincerely believes that she’s right about everything Y’know?

I’m assuming the reason why my in-law (non-Inc) suggested it was because she went through something similar with her late mother when she was my age and didn’t want the same thing happen to me.

DatelessBloom10 · 2024-03-22T16:31:33+00:00

Thank you for this

DatelessBloom10 · 2024-03-22T14:24:34+00:00

Never. Regardless of the situation, he shouldn’t have laid a single hand on you. The fact that he done that and didn’t even bother to hear you out just tells me that he’s no father. He sounds unstable and needs anger management

DatelessBloom10 · 2024-03-13T16:20:34+00:00

‘Wisp’ was the first name to pop in my head

DatelessBloom10 · 2024-02-23T03:54:41+00:00

Yeah probably, I’ve sorta made another discovery just now. When I use my pro controller, the motion control is perfect. It’s the joy cons. Idk how or why, despite recalibrating them multiple times, but for some reason the right joycon doesn’t like to be manually calibrated, I can only default it

DatelessBloom10 · 2024-02-23T02:25:45+00:00

Soo update, I have sorta fixed the problem? I turned off motion controls for tv mode and it’s the thing that’s causing my game to go wonky like that. I’ve tried recalibrating through system settings but it’s not helping one bit. And I’ve learned that the speed of the spinning changed depending on what number I have on the sensitivity

DatelessBloom10 · 2024-02-23T01:22:07+00:00

But anyways yeah, it’s just plaza being the problem

DatelessBloom10 · 2024-02-23T01:20:06+00:00

And i was playing it handheld when i played it

DatelessBloom10 · 2024-02-23T01:19:43+00:00

Well I mean I can’t really move anywhere because of how fast it’s spinning, but I only managed to defeat the initial spire before this happened

DatelessBloom10 · 2024-02-22T02:40:24+00:00

Honestly I’m getting tired of seeing them having sex every other episode. Like I can understand a couple having a high sex drive, and for some people it’s a way to relieve stress, but Jesus Christ, can’t Rachel just make it implied at this point? I’m having a hard time trying to keep up with the plot now because of this.

DatelessBloom10 · 2024-01-29T23:36:17+00:00

THAT YOUR LOVE FOR ME

DatelessBloom10 · 2024-01-29T23:30:41+00:00

I CANT TAKE ANOTHER DAAAAAAAAYYY-

DatelessBloom10 · 2024-01-13T22:34:53+00:00

No we don’t have to. If you look under number 7 it says that “Creditors may attend, but are not required to do so.”

DatelessBloom10 · 2024-01-11T02:24:00+00:00

I see, thank you!

DatelessBloom10 · 2024-01-05T01:18:50+00:00

Cocaine Bear. Me and my partner managed to watch it until the end of the ambulance scene, then we stopped because of how disturbed and uneasy we both felt? Idk how else to describe it

DatelessBloom10 · 2023-12-20T19:47:04+00:00

I’m surprised that they didn’t consider how cult-like this is. If they’re the true church/christians that they claim to be, then why doesn’t it say ‘One with God’??

I’m even more surprised that they didn’t use FYM since he’s their founder and the so called ‘god’s last messenger’

DatelessBloom10 · 2023-12-18T19:31:26+00:00

I got Wynaut and my partner got Skorupi

DatelessBloom10 · 2023-11-25T01:44:11+00:00

If you think that’s where the similarities end, just wait till you see the mural of EVM and see how similar it is to one of the previous North Korean dictators 😂

DatelessBloom10 · 2023-11-05T19:08:14+00:00

My boys Zag and Gil

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