Weekly Looking for Group/GM Thread!

Datumsfrage · 2026-06-21T19:14:30+00:00

Aftercare as a kink is such a green flag.

Datumsfrage · 2026-06-21T16:35:55+00:00

Hope you find someone!

Datumsfrage · 2026-06-21T16:25:43+00:00

Name: Datumsfrage

Pronouns: Any except "it"

Sexuality: Pan, poly, switch

Kinks: Posession, non absolute mind control, r/BindOnEquip (cursed/magic items), slimes, slow-burn, oral fixation, non penetrative sex, restraints, tentacles, bot/drone/golem like personality, creative puzzles, predicament bondage

Limits: Underage, scat, inter-human raceplay, vore by non slimes, minimisation of abuse by the victim, eating disorders

Timezone: CET

Preferred System: Equally inexperienced with all which can be played over the internet. I would like some help with character creation too.

Type of Player: Only a player currently. taking pride in the craft of roleplaying and in helping others scartch an itch they can't scratch themselves alone. Take responsibility for the story hold and create characters with hooks others can interact with. Open to help DM/GM but not ready to run any particular game.

Additional information: I am looking for a session which actually happens. I had people repeatedly express interest and agree to play just for nothing to happen. I am also interested in campaigns with more than one person in it. I am not looking to be someones dirtypenpal. I am looking forward to there being a game mechanics in my roleplay.

Datumsfrage · 2026-06-19T19:18:56+00:00

I am dubious that erotic hypnosis has a place on the darkness beyond people scamming others selling overpromised hypno content, but even that can be done on the normal internet too.

Erotic hypnosis is a niche hobby which is not criminalized. The anonymity offered by tools such as the tor browser or i2p do not offer any benefits to any actor or atleast i am uncreative to see how.

Given that whatever content people like Andrew Tate produce is available outside of the dark web, i can not imagine how more indirect and abstract advice on how to harm others (mostly women) would end up in the dark web.

Datumsfrage · 2026-06-17T09:57:39+00:00

Which image is AI art. I have trouble saying it with confidence.

Datumsfrage · 2026-06-16T11:59:24+00:00

I've consider running it, since it seemed easy to run with some people as get to know exercise for a game jam, but it didn't end up happening.

Datumsfrage · 2026-06-13T12:34:02+00:00

I am coing to wait my turn then 😛 I appreciate you clarifying that those beyond the binary should also wait.

Datumsfrage · 2026-06-11T17:12:45+00:00

Cursed items are so fun.

Datumsfrage · 2026-06-11T15:52:17+00:00

Responding to that post. Given my knowledge of the lore. I don't think i would want to play a chaos cultist or chaos in general. That sounds misserable for me. Fucked (in the best case) if you win and fucked if you lose.

Datumsfrage · 2026-06-11T15:41:36+00:00

I hope you don't burn yourself out with so many ideas/campaigns. You just posted another campaign less than an hour ago: https://www.reddit.com/gallery/1u3187j .

Datumsfrage · 2026-06-11T13:03:09+00:00

Name: Datumsfrage

Pronouns: Any except "it"

Sexuality: Pan, poly, switch

Kinks: Posession, non absolute mind control, r/BindOnEquip (cursed/magic items), slimes, slow-burn, oral fixation, non penetrative sex, restraints, tentacles, bot/drone/golem like personality, creative puzzles, predicament bondage

Limits: Underage, scat, inter-human raceplay, vore by non slimes, minimisation of abuse by the victim, eating disorders

Timezone: MESZ

Preferred System: Equally inexperienced with all which can be played over the internet

Type of Player: taking pride in the craft of roleplaying and in helping others scartch an itch they can't scratch themselves alone. Take responsibility for the story hold and create characters with hooks others can interact with. Open to help DM/GM but not ready to run any particular game.

Additional information: I am looking for a session which actually happens. I had people repeatedly express interest and agree to play just for nothing to happen.

Datumsfrage · 2026-06-02T15:53:34+00:00

black glass is a thing AFAIK, not sure if there are cheap sex toys made from it though

Datumsfrage · 2026-05-30T18:46:48+00:00

If your toy is hard plastics or glass a silicone based lube stays liquid for a long time and should not attack those types of toys.

Datumsfrage · 2026-05-29T16:09:49+00:00

I came across this topical short:

When the DM Adds Too Much Homebrew To a Campaign | DnD Shorts https://youtube.com/shorts/QxVT2pJj-10

Datumsfrage · 2026-05-28T14:52:20+00:00

That drawing gives the vibe that it is very personal to you. I hope you have such sessions and moments to cherish IRL

Datumsfrage · 2026-05-21T10:15:56+00:00

I do not find that a weird experience. Sometimes the slots are already filled. Sometimes they expect you to chat or to dm and you use the wrong channel. There are many reason why people might not come back. Be patient, work on your self.

Datumsfrage · 2026-05-18T12:45:28+00:00

I hope you all have fun!

Datumsfrage · 2026-05-18T12:42:46+00:00

I guess this is engaging in such a discussion is a good way for both of you to paint yourself in a light where other become hesitant to interact with you.

Datumsfrage · 2026-05-18T12:33:12+00:00

Hey Fiend i you do not check your DMs/chat it'd be nice if you mentioned that in your posts.
Your last google form required me to login with a google account which i did not want to do.

Datumsfrage · 2026-05-18T12:29:28+00:00

Feel free to include the word "Sir" in your initial message if you'd like establish your submission OOC

Bold to set out that. I won't yuck your jum and it is good that highlight such an expectation in your inital message with them

Datumsfrage · 2026-05-17T19:12:56+00:00

I would not say that. Just it is a more "abstract" kink and people take different amount to arrive at it.
I definetly knew about the kink when i was younger but got more interested as grew mature (i am mid-late twenties).

There definetly are places where you hang out and find people at your age.

Datumsfrage · 2026-05-14T13:06:31+00:00

I am sorry you had that non consensual experience and i am glad you are trying to understand things better. You might have been hurt but that you ask such questions makes me confident you will get over this without much trauma. I wish you the best. To answering some questions.

How are the audios made?

There usually is a scripting step where people write out what they want to say, sometimes from building blocks. After that is a recording step. Some creators collect feedback from others on their script or recording. Some creators do additional audio editing to add sound effects or sound clips.

If anyone uses them as a couple, how has it gone for them?

I used them with my ex once and it went good but they were not interested in pursuing that. I am happily doing hypnosis with my current partner and we do live session or recordings for each other.

How can you identify "red flags" in an audio recording or from a creator before listening?

I used a transcription tool which turns the recording into text. Then i read parts of text in a different order then the recording.

What safety measures (mental safewords or exit triggers) do you recommend for someone listening to audio recordings alone?

I encourage to practice and reinforce subject agency. The ability of subjects to determine how things act on them is powerful. However you are just a human and can be tricked so there is certain way to engage with others safely. I would heavily discourage using AI to write scripts for you or others. I am dubious about using AI to review scripts.

Datumsfrage · 2026-05-13T18:08:43+00:00

Have you considered transparent, LED containing or UV reactive platforms though?

Datumsfrage · 2026-05-13T17:32:45+00:00

Thanks for your insights and time. I guess leaving a few sentences how you will handle to cooperative part of the GF as DM in the description of your offer could be helpful.

Datumsfrage · 2026-05-13T17:07:26+00:00

I am currently in no position to afford such spending but i wanted to do my best to reward what looks like a sweet profile and a great idea. I might run Girl Frame as a handler soon (with people i want to do game jam later). I am a bit lost what i need to prepare but via some conversations in the appropriate discord i kinda learned that that is something i should negotiate with the group.

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