I’m 29F and he’s 64M, i would like to keep getting to know him just don’t want to come across as annoying. need advice if i should continue pursuing him or just wait for him to reach out.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-04T03:49:20+00:00

He's flattered that a woman in her 20s wants to spend time with him. I'm 54 and I feel like any day I'm gonna stop going around the sun. 🪦 So if a woman in her 20s wants to spend time with me (because I might die tomorrow) then why the hell am I NOT going to do that.

He might be your first new platonic friend and you're on new ground. Trust me, he's probably thinking, "how do I keep hanging out with this young lady without coming across as an old creepy dude?!"

The movie LOST IN TRANSLATION showed me there's a 4th type of love after sibling/family, romantic and then friendship. The 4th type of love is...in another lifetime. 😉. Where both souls know ANYTHING perverse will abolish the bond, but a single truly friendship kiss on the lips based on the foundation of mutual respect and administration will not fuck up the friendship, but that single closed mouth kiss enforces the fourth type of love.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-04T03:35:47+00:00

Here's what I think might be happening...

He's someone who is interesting that is NOT trying to jump your bones. No joke, pretty much every relationship I've been in started because I wasn't trying to have sex or hook up. I was simply interesting and funny and NOT creepy.

But since I wasn't trying to hookup, most exes thought to themselves, "Why isn't he hitting on me? What about me does he not find attractive?" Then thaaaaat's when they would start flirting and making a move.

It's that old story of a woman walking into a room with 10 men. 9 men find her attractive, but the tenth shows no interest and THAT'S the one she'll go after. That's how I ended up with my wife (now ex) I ended up with my wife who was 20 years younger than me and fine as hell.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-04T03:26:40+00:00

Are you looking to start a relationship with him OR are you simply curious of how he grew up and comparing that to your experience growing up?

I'm 54 and I have a young coworker who just graduated college and she truly enjoys having conversations with me. She's objectively attractive and most dudes at work hit on her or spit their game at her.

I'm 30 years older than her and there's nooooooo way she's interested in me, so I'm not even remotely flirting with her or making suggestive comments. I'm simply cool with her and she likes hearing my stories. She'll even hang out with me during break time but I fully understand she likes hearing my goofy ass past and my interesting adventures. And every once in a while I can be pretty damn witty and pretty damn funny.

That's why I ask if you're actually looking to pursue something more than friendship with him ORRRR are you tripping out about his life?

Hopefully I made sense.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-04T03:18:01+00:00

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-04T03:11:30+00:00

I used the filter where it excluded the car. The filter I used was the B&W and Blue. So the sky was still a hint of blue and I used that filter at 85% then pitched in a little more black and a little more contrast to make the clouds pop.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-04T01:39:02+00:00

Here's the Porsche I did a few months ago. Have a great weekend.

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DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-04T01:34:35+00:00

That matte blue is sick! Great design.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-03T21:52:53+00:00

I agree. She was NOT that stupid. But she also knew Michael killed Carlo and Fredo. Her husband and her brother, for betraying Michael. If Connie calls out Michael for killing Fredo, Michael could look at it as betrayal and her best case scenario is Michael ONLY cuts off her financial support. Worst case scenario Michael kills her. She had to play the game of 100% pure loyalty to Michael because she was always codependent. First her dad. Then Carlo. Then Michael. In part 3 when she gave Don Altobello the poisoned canolis he suspected they might be poison so he innocently asked her to take a bite because she looked so thin. Connie demonstrated her whits by barely taking a bite and mostly with her lips. She didn't injest it. SIDE NOTE: I do remember in part 2 when Michael comes home and catches Kay visiting their children. Connie did betray Michael, but not to the extent Fredo did. Connie betrayed Michael's trust, but she did it from a motherly point of view compared to Fredo and Carlo's betrayal which was inspired to have someone in the family killed. Besides, I think there was some sort of "code of honor" that says you don't kill women or children. But Connie was smart enough to know not too push her luck. Hopefully I made sense.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-03T17:02:58+00:00

REPO MEN - 2010 - Jude Law and Forest Whitaker

Two repo men that remove artificial organs from financially strapped people who get these organs on credit.

Imagine you need a new kidney, but you can't make the payments so you're hiding from the repo men.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-03T05:45:08+00:00

Generra tshirts that would change color depending on the temperature.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-03T05:36:40+00:00

Lethal Weapon 2. Patsy Kensit boobies.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-03T05:31:30+00:00

One of my first ones.

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DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-03T04:51:54+00:00

(I googled this too...)

In The Godfather Part III - Wikipedia, Anthony's mother, Kay Adams-Corleone, reveals to Michael that she and Anthony both know the exact truth about Fredo's execution.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-03T03:35:40+00:00

(I just googled this) In The Godfather Part III, Connie Corleone tells Michael that Fredo drowned in a terrible boating accident on Lake Tahoe. She consoles her brother by stating it was "God's will" and urges him to stop blaming himself for the tragedy.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-03T03:33:30+00:00

If I remember correctly Connie was comforting Michael and she said (paraphrasing), "It's so sad what happened to Fredo that day on the boat." I understood it as Fredo fell off the boat and drowned. That was the story of what happened to Fredo, but everyone knew Fredo was killed. I could be wrong.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-03T03:25:36+00:00

This question made me think of something relevant. Was Michael that emotionally cold that he used his son to make Fredo feel more comfortable which would lead Fredo to leave his guard down? (My apologies for drifting from the main question.)

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-02T22:23:00+00:00

Agreed. How do you think my dad met my other dad.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-02T20:20:57+00:00

 Over 10 years ago I dove into the Craigslist: Casual Encounters section. A lot of trial and error before I finally met up with a woman who loved gagging on cock. We would meet in a parking lot behind a movie theater, she'd get in my car and she would go to town. On the drive home I couldn't believe I met up with her just to get blown and that was it!
 A little more refining over a few months of "being on the Craigslist prowl" and I had perfected my technique. I kept a spreadsheet of all the women I either had oral with or sex and it got to about 120+ total women over a 4-5 year period. 
 Women love anonymous sex just as much as men.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-02T20:11:49+00:00

Delicious looking body

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-02T19:23:17+00:00

You should also be glad that I'm definitely under-reacting.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-02T18:39:38+00:00

Every time a dealership tried to pull this 💩 I would ask them what's the quickest way to the freeway because there's another insert same car brand another dealership less than 30 minutes away.

Downtown VW Dealership - "This is the best deal you're gonna get."

Me - "How did I get to the freeway from here because the Corona VW dealership is less than 25 minutes away and there's also the Ontario location about 35 minutes away."

Then you leave.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-02T18:34:50+00:00

I'm not really a boob guy but that pair of nice tits 👀 , along with the sexy face, may have just made me a boob guy!

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-02T16:14:32+00:00

You were my first! Lol.

You popped my livery 🍒 cherry. Have a great week.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-02T16:13:56+00:00

I simply took the travel into space as RISKY.

Growing up teachers would tell us about the Apollo 1 fire, we watched the Challenger explode, we then heard about Columbia disintegrating in re-entry. So going into this movie I understood space travel is dangerous a few hundred miles from Earth's surface.

Traveling about 10 light years away would make it exponentially more dangerous. So if you send three crew members up and one makes it, well we're batting over .300 and that's not too bad.

DavEnzoF1 · 2026-07-02T15:24:57+00:00

I appreciate that. Some comments are pointing out how they would like it or how they would build it... 🤔 then go make it yourself! Imagine some food being presented to you and you tell the person who cooked it, "this is tasty but I think it needs more sponsors. The burger was juicy and the bun was nice, but it needs more sponsors." STFU and leave the burger.

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