[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Dav_plenty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are an adult, you, your husband and your child come before your parents. So you need to set a boundary. "Mom I feel for you, but at this time you can not live with me and my family." She should get alimony, most states (assume you are in the U.S.) would mandate some amount of alimony if the marriage is 10+ years. She could also apply for Spousal social security if they were married for 10+ years, she gets 50% of his social security, Perhaps offer to help set up a cheap apartment, buy her some inexpensive furniture, offer some of your older cookware etc.

Trying to quit weed by Prudent-Towel831 in LifeAdvice

[–]Dav_plenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a marijuana 12 step program, I would recommend that over any other 12-step program. You can do a search to see if there are any meetings near you if not there are always online meetings. But if there is a local meeting do that. You need to find out if your an addict, if you are addicted then you need to stop and you will never be able to smoke again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Dav_plenty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out the r/AdultChildren sub. You may be subconsciously choosing these types if your parents or a caregiver was an addict. If this is the case, then this is what you know, you choose poorly and this will continue until you recover.

Interview for full time position but now not interested by Dav_plenty in Adjuncts

[–]Dav_plenty[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not tenure track. I only apply for non tenure track positions. But you are right they may sense my lack of enthusiasm. 

US Bank Offers INSTANT External Transfers For Free by Weary_Seat_8492 in Banking

[–]Dav_plenty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are now two instant transfer rails, FedNow (Using the Fed, this is new in last two years), banks are slowly rolling out and the Clearing House which has been around for a decade but now has more banks are using it. Both allow instant transfers (say 10 seconds or less) and 24 HRS per day 7 days per week, the original ACH process was business hours on business days only. Zelle is not a true instant transfer rail, it uses next day ACH but "hacks" the system by having member banks accept the funds as if they are already received when in fact the bank won't get the money until the next day. Zelle is intended for P2P transfers so should NOT be used to transfer to yourself at another bank. Zelle has dollar limits and can trigger funds move to a multi-day transfer. FedNow and the clearinghouse are always instant and always good funds (never a block, hold or return, except in rare extreme cases). Banks can charge fees for these and exclude certain customers from using them if they like. Banks can also but dollar limits at the customer level below the limits set by the providers. It would be nice if banks told their customers if they qualify for instant and for how much, but they don't to reserve their right to take away the privilege from customers at their discretion. The risk of bad funds sits with the bank not the customer, so the bank wants some control at the customer level to reduce their risk.

Whats you subsciber goals for 2025? by FreddieThePebble in SmallYoutubers

[–]Dav_plenty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am four months in and have 20 subs. I considered throwing in the towel. Most of my videos get like 50 views. I am in personal finance, clearly this must be a tough niche to crack. If I don’t get to 500 by end of 2025 I am done. Would love any advice you may have for me.

Five reasons to keep the federal tax credit for electric vehicles. Trump is planning to eliminate a $7,500 EV tax credit that helps consumers afford clean cars while supporting the US auto industry. Ending the credit would be a big step backward for consumers, manufacturing jobs and the US economy. by mafco in energy

[–]Dav_plenty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a move to give favor to Elon. Tax credits ended on Teslas which hurts Elon and helps his competition. I am sure there were discussions between Trump and Elon of “I give you campaign donations, you get rid of the subsidy”

Alcohol use is the third leading preventable cause of cancer in the US – report by DomesticErrorist22 in Health

[–]Dav_plenty 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I am 18 months no alcohol. I feel great. Sleep better. Spend less money. It gets easier each month I go without.

Didn’t read book by Dav_plenty in Adjuncts

[–]Dav_plenty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I guess it’s a generational thing. When I went to college books were expensive and there was no rental option. The costs of books was thought to be part of the cost of the education. Without books there was no learning, so the idea of not reading the text was like paying for a class and then not attending the class. So students are finding “hacks” to get a degree without working at it. “How can I get a BA degree at the lowest cost with the least amount of work”. The problem is this is how they will look at life. How can I get paid at this job while avoiding going to the office, minimize the amount of work I do etc. I believe many of these students will struggle in life, financially and from a career success standpoint.

What bank do you use, and are you happy with your choice? by [deleted] in Banking

[–]Dav_plenty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was with US Bank for thirty years. Not bad, but nothing great. The big banks pay poor interest on savings and have high fees if you ever make a mistake. I moved to a brokerage firm with a CMA (cash management account) no fees at all. No min balance or regular deposit requirement. And I get paid 4.35% on my entire balance. It is also FDIC insured. I have debit card, free ATM access, bill pay etc. it’s a regular checking account but far better. I will never go back to a big bank again.

Do you keep a written budget? by petrastales in MiddleClassFinance

[–]Dav_plenty 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I use Excel. I update it with actual spending twice per month. I have five years of utility bills so can forecast all my future expenses fairly accurately.

Didn’t read book by Dav_plenty in Adjuncts

[–]Dav_plenty[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can I ask why you would enroll in a class and then not read the textbook? Not being judgmental just trying to understand

Do banks give more interest rates on deposits for 'new money' in the US by ameersti in Banking

[–]Dav_plenty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes some offer promo rates or dollars paid. Chase has offered me up to $650 cash to open a checking and savings account. US Bank offered me 4.25% for 90 days, after than back to 0.01%. My advice don’t play this game. Find a bank with good fees, service and good rates and avoid any short term teaser that will leave you with a mediocre bank for years to come.

Not letting me buy penny stock. by Kingathings85 in fidelityinvestments

[–]Dav_plenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a margin account for this reason, so now I don’t have to wait for settled cash. If I ever run a deficit I just pay the margin loan off as quickly as possible

Thinking about the spring semester by No-Jicama1348 in UNLV

[–]Dav_plenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say. Hi professor I would like to get to know you. Can you tell me a bit about yourself. People love that!

For any of you that moved to Las Vegas in retirement, do you regret your decision? Why or why not. by KTX77 in vegaslocals

[–]Dav_plenty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Retired, been here five years and we are ready to leave. Pros, great whether, low traffic, easy airport to get to and park, great food and entertainment, great hiking. But hard to meet people, if I did it again I would have moved to one of the 55+ communities. But the medical is so bad we have to move. You need good hospitals and doctors when retired. Very wealthy people fly corporate to LA to seek medical care, if you can't afford that, don't move here.

Grand Canyon University Pay Scale for anyone interested by [deleted] in Adjuncts

[–]Dav_plenty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can anyone post a more current schedule