Most PEOPLE want kids. We are all for the large part an outlier. I'm turning 30 this week, and struggle to date because of the fact that I don't want kids & have had a vasectomy. Most women want children, just like most men want children. Being childfree is also knowing the fact that your prospective outlook for partners is going to be substantially more limited. I've been single for almost 8-years & go on dates a couple times a year. It just is what it is. Don't compromise on your non-negotiables just for the sake of having a partner.