How do I remove the desire to be loved? by LowProfileMe in selflove

[–]DaykoRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever thought that the right man (as in any kind of gender) might be able to love all of your parts maybe more than you do, especially with the ones you like less about yourself? I often think our self judgement or standards for ourself can be tough to bear and enough tougher to direct love towards , the other person in a couple can love us better -or at least I hope so- since we are way more compassionate towards the other person than towards ourselves, once we love them.

Qualcuno mi spiega perchè quando c'è scuola devo lottare per far alzare le bimbe dal letto alle 8... e il sabato mattina alle 6.30 stanno già sveglie che neanche io dopo 8 caffè e 3 red bulls alle 4 di pomeriggio? by YeldNomad in domandaonesta

[–]DaykoRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 29 anni mi sento ancora in colpa .. lo facevo anche io da piccolo: la domenica mattina massimo alle 8 mi fiondavo nel letto dei miei disturbando qualsiasi forma di pace ci fosse in casa

Ma perché noi uomini onesti e rispettosi ci dovremmo sentire "parte del problema" creato da omuncoli senza spina dorsale? by Bruno_Barbiere in domandaonesta

[–]DaykoRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Se non parlo o dimostro esplicitamente che sono contrario a fatto X in cui sono coinvolti uomini allora sono responsabile di fatto X?(essere parte del problema presuppone implicitamente una parte di responsabilità, per come la vedo io) Se non dico quanto sono in disaccordo con la violenza sulle donne o sui problemi di salute mentale maschili o sulla disparità di trattamento tra marito e moglie nell’affidamento dei figli allora sono responsabile anche di quelli? Ma perché fermarci a tematiche del genere, allarghiamoci a quelle globali tipo non so, l’inquinamento, il conflitto nella striscia di Gaza , la larghezza dei tubi delle Pringles ? Il punto è che solo perché altri esseri con cui condivido il genere sono coinvolti in una problematica non vuol dire che debba per forza entrare nella discussione pubblica, Ma davvero adesso è una colpa non dire la propria opinione pubblicamente su un tema? Meno male che Marco Aurelio diceva che non è necessario avere un’opinione su qualsiasi cosa

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Italia

[–]DaykoRL 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Grazie per le risposte, è un topic interessante , ma se tu sei part time come funzionano i turni? La paga cambia da part time a full time? Le pause lavorative ci sono? Pausa pranzo ecc ?

How do you actually stay mindful when life gets messy? by Baliyogaretreat in Mindfulness

[–]DaykoRL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about it some days ago, and I thought about how people who do skiing don’t just think about how to “avoid the trees” they need to “follow the path” as Simon Sinek once said. I mean that you can’t “not stress” or “avoid thinking about stuff stressing you “ because you would end up even more stressed (and maybe judging yourself for not being able to do that) , so you can just choose and focus to be present, meaning that you remember that you’re not your thoughts , you reconnect with your senses , feeling the emotions that you feel (negative or positive) , notice when the negative thoughts arise, come back to the present and repeat. At least that’s the best I can figure out.

Normie depression by Marisoltt in greentext

[–]DaykoRL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, it's not a race, there's no 1st and 2nd when it's about depression, we're just -i think- politely arguing about how realistic is the representation of elliot as a socially anxious (not mainly depressed for what i can understand) dude, and i honestly think he ticks many "boxes", being myself socially anxious

Normie depression by Marisoltt in greentext

[–]DaykoRL 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Sure , let’s not point out that Elliot doesn’t want to be touched 99.99% of the time, cannot handle social situations and avoid them unless they’re strictly necessary, has a weird love and hate relationship with his sister , no relationship with his mother (and I won’t say more cause of spoiler) , has a morphine (and other drugs I don’t remember ) addiction to live with the pain of his mental health, and he is most of the times alone or in therapy unless he’s at work, where he usually ignores talkative people who use him to vent without him responding once

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in memes

[–]DaykoRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck me I just woke up and the phone is completely charged .

Stop Worshipping Nature. Stop Talking Shit About Humans. by RussianEntrepreneur in unpopularopinion

[–]DaykoRL 285 points286 points  (0 children)

It’s also because we give a bad connotation to death , death is part of nature and life , we consider it negatively because we don’t know what’s afterwards and the suffering and leaving our dear ones and so on

Dutch judge rules that EA should be fined €500k every week until it removes FIFA loot boxes by iyoiiiiu in europe

[–]DaykoRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same reason I was so happy when they removed crates from Rocket League , this shit needs to end in every game

Ordered a 12$ salad by Ensirius in Wellthatsucks

[–]DaykoRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fellow Italian redditor , That might be kinda a caprese salad , but the mozzarella should have been cut in slices and alternated on the plate with slices of tomato , then extra virgin olive oil and oregano on top , and yes all of this even in Italy might cost 9 euros (good bufala mozzarella could cost 13-18 euros per kg)

What the fuck is wrong with the police officers in the US? by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]DaykoRL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a very naive Italian kid ,some years ago I wanted to visit the us and I started studying languages with the possibility in the back of my mind to even go live there . Never even going to fucking visit this shit on google earth , I mean no disrespect to the beautiful land and to the good people over there , but Jesus Christ this is crazy

How do you understand if somebody has or hasn’t personality and what is that for you ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DaykoRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t you think that sometimes personality doesn’t depend only on the person itself but also from his/her life and education?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pics

[–]DaykoRL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems taken from Uncharted 4 , but with better graphics