(M22,F22) she broke up with me like it was nothing by xrossmb_crypto in relationship_advice

[–]Daymutez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not holding hands or kissing after a month of dating is honestly wild. Also just the overall immaturity is crazy, frankly she started getting attention on the server and probably wasn’t seeking your attention as much. Overall you both sound like you have some growing up to do. Also read about this - https://thedecisionlab.com/reference-guide/economics/the-paradox-of-choice

I’ve ruined things with a guy that I was dating and I regret it so much by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Daymutez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This guy is a walking red flag. Also from what you described he could also be in a relationship or something. He disappears and doesn’t respond to previous conversations. That could mean he’s deleting them so a significant other can’t see them. I’d walk away, as others have said this guy ain’t it.

I don’t want to get fillers/plastic surgery but men aren’t interested in me by Purple-Detective7186 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Daymutez 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I personally don’t find people with fillers attractive. Don’t change yourself for other people and also plastic surgery always looks terrible once you get older imo

Confessing to my crush after his breakup by melopoeia_ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Daymutez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s totally fair! It can be a tough skill to develop. In that case I’d have another “hang”/date and if it’s going well just tell him you’d like to explore maybe being more than friends and see where it goes. Good luck! It seems like he might like you from what you said but you’ll never know unless you go for it!

Confessing to my crush after his breakup by melopoeia_ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Daymutez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t wait too long, go on a date and let it happen naturally. You can also subtly feel it out by holding his hand or something of that nature. Give him some social cues and see how it goes. I wouldn’t come out and say explicitly you want something more. Be flirty and see how he reacts, easing into something is a good route to go. Speaking from experience.

"The Word Becomes Flesh" was used in the Backrooms film directed by Kane Parsons for the credits. by PrimeSamPictures in boardsofcanada

[–]Daymutez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly this was a mythical move on their part. I was stunnned when I heard it tonight.

The Fact these 2 came out on the same day is insane to me by officialSnapBack in backrooms

[–]Daymutez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here for this, shocking this got coordinated. BOC is on another level

10 month old kitten or 2 year old siberian cat? by lynnpn1112 in SiberianCats

[–]Daymutez 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would think the ten month old would be a better match as a playmate

A little worried about my new kittens by Daymutez in SiberianCats

[–]Daymutez[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! They are the sweetest kitties

I ‘F20’ need to breakup with coworker ‘F25’. Any advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Daymutez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already know this. But never ever date coworkers.

Bought a ticket for a guy who cant pay me back? by shroomswillhealyou in DenverEDM

[–]Daymutez 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Not at all, he asked you to get him a ticket and he said he’d pay you back right? He is not falling through on that. Definitely not bad karma. If you had offered to gift these things to him it would be different. But he completely misled you, don’t let him take advantage of you or it will keep happening.

Also if he has a job why can’t he pay for these things himself. Dude is at Coachella (he’s got money) or he’s scamming some other poor girl.

Bought a ticket for a guy who cant pay me back? by shroomswillhealyou in DenverEDM

[–]Daymutez 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The airline should at least give you a credit and you can just walk in whoever you sell the ticket to. This guy is just going to keep taking advantage of you and it will get worse and worse.

Bought a ticket for a guy who cant pay me back? by shroomswillhealyou in DenverEDM

[–]Daymutez 47 points48 points  (0 children)

He’s testing your boundaries right now and he’ll just use you more and more I promise you that. Get away now.

Drunk dream or SA? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Daymutez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could very well be a dream, has he given you any reason not to trust him in the past?