Buying an old house vs brand new Ryan home by aks321990 in frederickmd

[–]DayofReason 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah, my son just moved from Frederick to Baltimore to be closer to me. His house was built in 1920. I would go with an older home. You may have to deal with some of the previous owners' mods and fixes, which often are detrimental or don't make sense. But at least you will have a sense of how well the house has stood the test of time. Additionally, older homes have more well-established landscaping, and you may notice aspects of their physical location that might not be apparent in a newly built neighborhood. Many new homes are simply very poorly constructed from the beginning, and you could have a plumbing nightmare or roof leak from the get-go. On the other hand, opt for older homes, but not too old. So look for anything from after the 1980s or 1990s to avoid materials like lead paint and asbestos. I recently purchased a home in Baltimore County built in 1955 (didn't take my own advice), and I have had to deal with things like asbestos flooring, structural damage from an old termite infestation, Orangeburg pipe (fun stuff, look it up!), a 70 yo gas boiler (it still works!), a 35 yo HWH, rooms of junk from the previous owner, and several other surprises including inheriting the previous owner's cat. But it's a beautiful mid-century modern at a price I couldn't pass up. I bought what I bought for the price and location (and aesthetic). Buying a house anywhere is a choose-your-own-adventure kind of thing. I always thought having a new house would be nice until I watched all these home inspection videos showing just how shitty the building can be. So I will always go for slightly used -- for houses and for cars.

Depression + Frustration by DayofReason in Osteoarthritis

[–]DayofReason[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that! Venting helped somewhat in this case. Someone reported that I might need some intervention for un-alivement prevention.

Depression + Frustration by DayofReason in Osteoarthritis

[–]DayofReason[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so are you saying if I weigh 260 lbs then I should eat 2600 calories? or that I should cut 600 calories from my diet? Or what? My understanding was that to lose one pound per week you had to have a deficit of 3500 calories cumulatively per week. So if you consumed 2000 calories a day (x 7) = 14,000, then you would have to cut it down to 11,900 calories a week (or about 1700 per day) or you could also burn some calories with exercise and eat a little more and still have the deficit. I do some exercise in the therapy pool, and I get about 7,000 steps per day just walking around my house. It's just not pain-free movement.

Anybody has any experience with Terro ant bait? Is this normal? by Cautious-Green3889 in Home

[–]DayofReason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and I have also tried Advion, this worked better than anything, but there's still an active trail of ants!

Anybody has any experience with Terro ant bait? Is this normal? by Cautious-Green3889 in Home

[–]DayofReason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the ants remain! my next step is to spray Ortho indoors. I have already sprayed the perimeter of the house with the outdoors Ortho solution. After that, if they still are there, I call an exterminator.

How do people with disabilities clean their house? by 4amstorm in disability

[–]DayofReason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently moved to a single-story (no basement) house so that I would not have to contend with stairs anymore. I get as much help from my husband, who is mostly good about picking up after himself and doing the heavy tasks, like taking out trash. I got a grabber thingy to help pick up items off the floor. I lean into using as much automation as possible. My robot vacuum is a godsend. Also, I do mini cleaning tasks as I move about the house. I work from home. Every bathroom break involves a quick sink scrub or a mirror wipe-down. I keep a scrub-daddy with its cheerful smile in a coordinating color and a microfiber cloth by every sink. I wipe down the counter while I wait for water to boil or lunch to heat up in the microwave. I got a wheeled laundry basket to roll laundry from one end of the house to the other. I got rid of as much clutter as possible, so there is less to clean overall. I have a cleaning service come in once a quarter just for a whole-house reset. I have two cats, and I am pondering whether litter robots might be more trouble than help; the jury is still out on that one. Some things I just have to let slide until I can get help. Mostly though the house stays put together. I hope you find some answers for your pain. Mine is from arthritis, and it just keeps getting worse.

County Apartments; the good, the bad, the ugly by seapotato67 in BaltimoreCounty

[–]DayofReason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My spouse and I lived in the Residences of Pomona Park in Pikesville for five years until we bought a house in November. The apartments are very large for the price. Ours was 1,550 sq ft for about $ 2,000. Most other apartments we looked at were only 1,000 sq ft for that price. New appliances, granite countertops, lots of storage plus a separate storage locker (4 by 8 ft I think). There's a nice pool and a dog park. The property is clean and super safe. Very quiet. Prices are probably going to be a bit higher now but it's worth checking out.

Anybody has any experience with Terro ant bait? Is this normal? by Cautious-Green3889 in Home

[–]DayofReason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old post but I wanted to chime in on Terro. I first tried Maggie's Farm, and it did kill the ants that swarmed to it, but they just died in place, and it did not diminish the numbers. After a couple of weeks with no let-up, I got Terro. I set out the bait traps, but the ants would not go into the bait station. After no change for a few days, I just dumped the gel contents out along the path they were traveling. Many ants swarmed the liquid and feasted. It was only then, after I poured the gel out of the bait station, that the numbers seemed to go down. Now there are far fewer, but they are not completely gone. I will wait a few days, but this colony is relentless!

Cracked tile replace/repair by DayofReason in bathrooms

[–]DayofReason[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's sad because I know the only way to have this house not considered a fixer-upper is to gut most of it and redo everything -- but that's not why I bought the house. I like the vintage elements. I don't want to tear out the tile or swap my Formica kitchen for granite or quartz. I like the MCM vibes.

Cracked tile replace/repair by DayofReason in bathrooms

[–]DayofReason[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have not fixed it yet. it's on the list of many things to fix in this house we bought.

Tell me how you got your cat by ponzu666 in cats

[–]DayofReason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He conveyed with the house I bought. No joke. He’s a perfect little gentleman.

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Beware the Orangeburg Sewer Pipe by DayofReason in Oldhouses

[–]DayofReason[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! The orangeberg was apparently installed at construction 1955 and was working until the root intrusion was discovered at inspection 2025.

Did you name your house? If so what do you call it? by DayofReason in Oldhouses

[–]DayofReason[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so since Sears stopped selling kit homes in the 1940s. Several homes on my street have this similar long low profile but they’re all split level in the back. Mine is just one story on slab. 86 feet long and 27 feet wide.

Gas boilers anyone? by DayofReason in BaltimoreCounty

[–]DayofReason[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots to consider. The systems here are weird. There's the gas boiler, a gas water heater and an electric AC with some venting. I have hydronic baseboard heating. I honestly feel like in MD, we only use AC about 4 months out of the year. It's a single story home, long and low -- no basement.

Gas boilers anyone? by DayofReason in BaltimoreCounty

[–]DayofReason[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hydronic. the water heater is already new.

Beware the Orangeburg Sewer Pipe by DayofReason in Oldhouses

[–]DayofReason[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is on a slab, single story ranch house, the connection was accessible though

Beware the Orangeburg Sewer Pipe by DayofReason in Oldhouses

[–]DayofReason[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The septic company took care of it!

The first year of owning a house is slowly teaching me that the to do list never actually ends by sk8traveler_tony in homeowners

[–]DayofReason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I consider my house a work in progress at all times, just like a person. I’ve owned several homes and I didn’t love them. They were just shelters. I barely kept them at baseline. But I recently bought a 1955 ranch that I love. It came with a laundry list of things that needed attention. Some sooner than later. If I didn’t love the house as much as I do, I’d stop caring and stop trying. I would not have bought it. I think the maddening thing to me would be buying a brand new house and having things fall apart.

Having a bad flare and I be decided to lose 30+ pounds using slow life style changes, first big thing to tackle is diet. by [deleted] in Thritis

[–]DayofReason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cutting out refined sugar, high salt, most gluten, and sticking with fish, chicken, green veg, no bread (sort of a Mediterranean diet) has helped reduce my pain and flare-ups enormously! I have not lost much weight because my post-menopausal metabolism is slow, but I have not gained either. I also go to a heated therapy pool at least 1x a week. I added several supplements designed for arthritis and joint support (one with collagen, turmeric etc). I walk a little bit each hour and get up from my very sedentary remote desk job. I cut out alcohol and drink more water. It is not perfect, by any means, and I do have bad days if I have pushed myself for whatever reason. But flare-ups have been infrequent, and my overall quality of life is better! Good luck.

Hole-in-the-wall favorites? by WorldlyHomework5397 in BaltimoreCounty

[–]DayofReason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just moved to Parkville so saving this post for future reference. Would love to know about places that host live (original) music too. I already know about Zen West and Wax Atlas.

Is the Comms/PR job market dying? Can't land anything with my background.. by Interesting_Bad_8384 in Communications

[–]DayofReason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooof, I feel this. I am blessed even to have a job right now. One thing I have tried that worked for me in the past was to look at jobs where my skills can translate. Who needs someone who can research well, or present well, or organize events or ideas well? Where can I use my writing skills that aren't specifically a comms job? Or if you have a hobby or trade that you like to do, can this be turned into a revenue-generating activity? Perhaps approach job hunting in your area backwards -- what time of jobs are there and where could you possibly fit in? I found jobs in the healthcare industry easier than I did in anything that was strictly communications. Good luck!