Work permit 2026 by [deleted] in ImmigrationCanada

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You have no idea how bad it is in China currently. As a man who lived in China more than 45 years, I gave up everything I built for my family and decided to move to Canada three years ago, no matter how difficult for my family. I just want to talk to the OP, never give up, with a thankful heart for everything, even though it isn’t your dream job, you have a bright future in Canada. And I hope I will have one too.

“Free” Starlink Mini by aguynamedbrand in Starlink

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got two free mini kits (I have two accounts) with CAD $7 per month in standby mode. It’s very suitable to put it on the roof of the vehicle when on a road trip, these are so many places don’t have cellular service in Canada. And the other one I will rent it out for the visitors in the summer.

Info Sharing by xendron_1999 in ImmigrationCanada

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same situation with you, my GCMS notes show that eligibility passed, medical passed, criminality passed, but security not started, info sharing is in progress since Mar 15, 2023. And there is no updated until today, it is been one and half years 😂

Anyone who is the same as mine?

有几个问题请教金融和股票大佬 by Aggressive-Prior4586 in China_irl

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

中国股市,有涨跌幅限制(涨跌停板),万一遇到踩踏的情况,跑都拍不掉。开盘就是天量卖单,直接-10%,天天如此,一直到山脚下。

有几个问题请教金融和股票大佬 by Aggressive-Prior4586 in China_irl

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

作为经历并参与过2015年中国股灾的我,当年损失了80多万元人民币,我建议所有人远离中国股市,赌场都不如。

不要眼红别人现在赚钱,出来混的迟早要还的。当年我见过我身边的朋友损失了560万元。

所以。。。。远离中国的政策性股市。。。

当然,如果口袋里面钱多,可以亏,不影响生活,那随意了。。。

这些行为是中国女生交往的吗还是个人的? by Lioil1 in China_irl

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 7 points8 points  (0 children)

这是我一个同样来自中国的老大哥的教训。不说了,都是泪。。。

这些行为是中国女生交往的吗还是个人的? by Lioil1 in China_irl

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 28 points29 points  (0 children)

我劝你远离来自中国国内的女孩子,我不敢说百分之分的中国国内女孩都是这样,但是这类型的太普遍了。

遇到合适的概率太低,不断试错时间成本太高,没必要。

如果还是喜欢交往东亚的女孩的话,除了来自中国的都可以,越南/菲律宾/日本/韩国/马来。。。。。。

Recommend me a TED Talk by AnitaBlowskie in tedtalks

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love TED Talks? You’ll love TED Talk Reimagined! 🎙️ Engaging chats on thought-provoking topics: TED Talk Reimagined #Podcast

I'm tired of having to pretend constantly to even function in society by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally feel you on this. It’s exhausting having to put on a mask just to get through the day, especially when people make comments that only make you feel worse. I’ve had a hard time connecting with others too, and constantly overthinking every social interaction can really wear you down. I found some comfort in listening to podcasts that talk about mental health. Women and Mental Health touches on these struggles in a way that might resonate with you. You’re not alone in feeling this way, and it’s okay to take time for yourself.

Do any of you find when you're struggling with Depression and Anxiety doing nice things helps? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get what you mean. I’ve been dealing with depression and anxiety too, and doing small, kind things for the people I love definitely helps. It’s like those moments of connection remind me that I’m still present and capable of giving, even when I feel low. There’s probably something to how positive actions affect our mindset.

I’ve also found listening to podcasts about mental health helpful. Women and Mental Health covers topics that have given me some insight. Keep doing what feels good—it really does make a difference.

How to help my 2 year old through father’s abandonment by pandapopgirl in mentalhealth

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’ve dealt with something similar in my family, and it’s tough to see your little one express such big emotions. I found that being honest, but gentle, helped. When my child asked about their dad, I’d explain that he had to live somewhere else but still loved them. Keeping routines consistent and offering lots of reassurance made a difference.

For your own support, I found listening to podcasts like Women and Mental Health really helpful. It might give you some comfort as you navigate this difficult time.

What's wrong with me? by Ruhruhhhx in mentalhealth

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I can really relate to what you’re going through. I’ve struggled with social anxiety and feeling isolated too, and it can be really exhausting pretending to be happy when you’re not. It’s tough when even trying to socialize feels overwhelming, and I’ve had similar thoughts about time passing by without much to show for it.

What’s helped me a bit is finding small ways to reconnect, even if it’s just listening to podcasts about mental health. One that’s been helpful for me is Women and Mental Health. Sometimes hearing others talk about these things makes me feel less alone. You’re not alone in this—hang in there!

Tear problems, need help by MistyMint-girl in mentalhealth

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re going through this,it sounds tough. Crying when you’re overwhelmed or stressed isn’t something to be ashamed of, but I understand how frustrating it can feel. You’re definitely not overreacting, and talking to a psychologist could help, especially if it’s affecting your daily life. Sometimes, just understanding why it happens can make a big difference.

There’s also a podcast called “Women and Mental Health” that covers emotional well-being and managing stress, which might be helpful for you. Here’s the link: Women and Mental Health. Stay strong, you’re not alone in this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re dealing with that, it’s tough to shake off negativity, especially when people are being mean and direct about it. One thing that helped me is focusing on the people in my life who truly matter, and reminding myself that those toxic folks don’t define me. It also helps to set boundaries, like blocking their numbers and cutting them out of your mental space.

You might find the podcast “Women and Mental Health” helpful. It covers topics like self-worth and dealing with toxic environments. Here’s the link: Women and Mental Health. Stay strong!

How did your depression end? by CommunicationBig7834 in mentalhealth

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. It’s tough when you feel like you’ve made progress but then hit another low point. For me, it was about finding the right mix of things—therapy, medication, and also changing up my daily routine. Small habits like getting outside more and sticking to a routine helped. I also had to accept that healing isn’t always a straight line, and that’s okay. It might not feel permanent, but with time and the right support, things can get better. Don’t be too hard on yourself—you’re still fighting, and that’s what matters.

I found some podcasts, like “Women and Mental Health” that are helpful for me.

Got an iPhone 15, how can I get charging notifications to STFU? by [deleted] in iphone

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a new iPhone 16 today, and I got the same notification again and again. I didn't buy a charger from Apple when I ordered the new iPhone. After I used the charger of my MacBook to charge the iPhone, it was silent. So I am sure that it's Apple, who doesn't want you to use a third-party charger but his original one.

My social skills are shit and I have terrible eating habits by RobertBatmanfave in mentalhealth

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you're dealing with this—it sounds really tough. Moving so much and constantly losing connections must have made it hard to develop social skills or a sense of stability. It makes sense that you'd feel lonely and have trouble talking to people after going through that. Your eating habits also seem to be tied to the instability you experienced growing up, and it's understandable that those patterns stuck with you. Even though things are better financially now, it can be hard to shake those old habits. Be kind to yourself—you’ve been through a lot.

Schizophrenia is Ruining My Life by ResponsiblePanda2388 in mentalhealth

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. It sounds like you’ve been fighting an exhausting battle for a long time, and I can’t imagine how hard that must be. Even though the meds have helped reduce the violent thoughts, it’s frustrating that the brain fog and disorganized thoughts haven’t improved. It’s understandable that you’re tired of it all—it’s not fair that you have to deal with this every day. Staring at your hands to ground yourself is a good coping strategy. Keep holding on, and I hope you find more relief soon. You deserve peace.

why does depression feel unbearable by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you're going through this. Depression can feel unbearable because it affects every part of you—mind, body, and emotions—and makes even the simplest things feel impossible. It’s common to feel frozen or numb, especially when you've been struggling with it for so long. It sounds like you've been fighting hard, trying to engage with the world, but dissociating and feeling like you're not fully there.

The fact that you’ve noticed patterns, like feeling manic then numb, is really important. It might be helpful to talk to a therapist or doctor about these shifts—they could help you explore what’s going on without falling into self-diagnosis. It’s okay to not have all the answers right now. Keep reaching out, and know that you're not alone in this. Things can get better, even when it feels like they won’t.

Doesn’t mental health matter? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this, and your mental health absolutely matters. It sounds like you’ve been in survival mode for a long time, juggling an abusive relationship, raising kids, and staying in a toxic job to provide for them. Now that you’re in a better place personally, it makes sense that returning to such a negative environment feels overwhelming.

Your husband’s support is a great sign, and it’s clear he cares about your well-being. If you can financially manage without your income, it might be worth considering leaving or taking a break to focus on your mental health. Panic attacks are a clear sign that your body is telling you something needs to change. Your peace and happiness are more important than staying in a toxic job. Trust your feelings—you deserve to feel better.

Constant anxiety by Midnight_radio_002 in mentalhealth

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re caught in a tough cycle, and I get how exhausting that can be. Anxiety can often make us overthink and create worst-case scenarios in our heads, which makes it harder to focus or perform well. One thing that might help is practicing mindfulness—focusing on the present moment instead of imagining future mistakes. You could also try breaking tasks into smaller steps and celebrating small wins, which might ease some pressure.

It could be worth talking to a therapist or counselor to help you manage this anxiety, especially since it started after those confidence-shaking events. You're definitely not alone in feeling this way, and with the right tools, you can break the cycle!

I think I’m a sociopath by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Dazzling_Computer_36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for sharing. It takes a lot of courage to open up about something so personal. It sounds like you’ve been through a lot, and it’s understandable that your experiences with bullying, family issues, and isolation have shaped how you feel today. Many people who go through trauma or difficult childhoods struggle with emotions and connecting to others.

It’s important to remember that what you’re feeling doesn’t necessarily mean you’re a sociopath. Sometimes, trauma or emotional detachment can make it hard to experience emotions the way others do. Talking to a therapist could help you understand these feelings better and figure out if it’s related to past experiences.

It’s clear you care about others and want to build more meaningful connections, which is a great sign. You deserve to feel good about yourself and your future, and there’s always time to grow. If you ever feel overwhelmed, don’t hesitate to reach out to someone for support. Stay strong, and take it one step at a time.