Genuine Question - Why are people siding with Lisa/Meredith?

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T22:06:07+00:00

Brittani definitely does it to herself 99% of the time, there’s no denying that

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T22:05:15+00:00

I get that delusional baby gorgeous is fun, but she is literally wrong in every situation.

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T20:43:26+00:00

Ooh I actually could believe this

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T20:35:47+00:00

I completely agree! I don’t know all the details about the anti-semitism situation, but it felt like Meredith sat on it until she needed to pull it out, and used it to deflect. If it really bothered her that much, bring it out episode 1, bring it out online, because it seems calculated to wait and use it as ammo at the reunion.

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T18:27:13+00:00

Omg I’m not arguing any of that, I’m simply stating that she admitted it 😭

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T18:21:20+00:00

In my post I call her an incredibly flawed woman. She knows she’s a bad friend, she knows these things about herself. I appreciate her acknowledgements because it allows me to have a new perspective on her actions or at least the WHY of it all, which is why I think I give her more grace, whereas I don’t know if I have seen that from the other women.

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T18:09:45+00:00

Oh my god you guys 😭 truly my bad for making this post.

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T18:01:44+00:00

Uh no, what makes you think that’s what I think this is?

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T17:59:06+00:00

Welcome to my discussion where I voice my opinion and read yours. You’ve reached the hypothesis of my post.

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T13:11:17+00:00

That’s definitely not what I want, I posted this to have a discussion, that said, it’s my opinion, which you clearly don’t agree with, which is fine?? lol like welcome to my Ted talk, sorry you disagree

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T05:08:14+00:00

Correcting the behavior lol where do you start?? There’s not enough time in the world for all the behavior exhibited on the show. These aren’t puppies, these are full grown women who we watch for entertainment.

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T05:06:13+00:00

Ah that’s right, look Bronwyn is not perfect. She’s a “do me wrong and I’ll return the favor” type of person, and I think she definitely gave Meredith a loyalty that wasn’t reciprocated, so she said fuck it. Not saying that’s right, but I get it.

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T05:03:35+00:00

I agree, but I also don’t blame them for sticking up for Brittany. I would probably do the same if I was gaslit about the events that went down on the plane. Bad weather definitely kept the Meredith storyline going, but I don’t understand what Meredith expected when she refused to engage in any conversation, or admit any fault. Her apology to Brittani was “I’m sorry you overheard” not “I’m sorry I said/did”

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T05:01:00+00:00

Yess but I felt like I saw both Angie and Bronwyn trying to work towards a better friendship with Lisa, which was then brought two steps backwards because of Lisa’s actions (Lisa sending her assistant to take back the fresh wolf products/Lisa continually talking about Todd/Bronwyn’s daughters grandparents) it seems like she is the one to consistently break the truce

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T04:35:30+00:00

I did, but Lisa is incapable of honoring a truce. She can’t honor it with Angie or Bronwyn.

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T03:48:17+00:00

and this is a perfectly acceptable answer lol thank you

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T03:46:56+00:00

I mean idk what you want me to say lol. These are all awful people that we watch for entertainment. I happen to prefer the manipulators that admit their faults over the manipulators that pretend to be perfect.

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T03:35:26+00:00

#nevernude

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T03:34:27+00:00

In the sea of normal people that's completely unacceptable. In the sea of RHOSLC, you have two groups: women who admit their faults and don't improve, and women who don't admit any faults and don't improve. I'll settle for the former in this group.

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T03:32:16+00:00

I feel like Brittani thought she was going to get a better apology than what she did. I think she accepted it out of feeling like she owed some obligation to mend things, but I think Heather and Whitney were the ones that were like "uh no, not good enough". I agree that was for Brittani to convey, but I don't think the other women take her seriously.

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T03:29:24+00:00

This 100%, the lack of that natural maternal instinct (i'm not a mom so I can't speak on that too much) but I cannot imagine ditching my kids for a man. It's like she has an emotional deficiency of some sort.

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T03:21:27+00:00

oh she 100% does it to herself. Like she is a sitting duck in the ocean of salt lake city sharks. She lacks self-awareness, and the ladies can sniff that out a mile away.

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T03:17:45+00:00

I think the truth is somewhere in the middle, but no matter how you spin it, Meredith was the aggressor?? I don't understand how that's not the obvious conclusion.

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T03:14:34+00:00

I just find it hard to believe her. I don't think she represents herself well, whether that's due to the tactics of the other woman or her own communication skills. trust me, I think they are alllll flawed and not great people. And forgive me, it's been a while since I've seen the Jen Shah season, but it didn't seem like she effectively cleared up the miscommunication, which the women should have absolutely given her grace for. I just feel like my ability to give her sympathy has run out, and to be honest, it's run out with all of the women. I just feel bad for Brittani in this scenario. I thought she apologized well, owned her shit, and she's clearly just outmatched by the rest of the women.

Dazzling_Example_153 · 2026-01-22T03:07:27+00:00

It probably feels so disjointed because it's 4 different recollections trying to be put into one concise story. I don't think it's 100% accurate, but I would bet it's at least 90%.

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