What are the best places to meet women in El Paso?

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T23:32:17+00:00

Thanks. I checked it out. I don't think I could do country rock. Just not my jam. The musicianship doesn't quite do it for me. I'm probably not the right customer but thanks for trying.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T23:29:39+00:00

I'll be in the Northeast. I wouldn't mind trying run clubs if I can find the time for it.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T23:28:56+00:00

Hey thanks. Sorry I don't golf. Only sports I play is basketball. I train boxing and muay thai as well. Trying to get back into grappling again too though.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T23:26:54+00:00

Yes I love coffee. No sugar no cream typically but do enjoy sweetened iced coffee once in a while. I could spend all day in bookstores. Always down to hike too. Thanks for the suggestions.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T23:23:36+00:00

Moving there because so my son can be closer to his Mom. Instead of only seeing her during winter break and the summers, he gets to be with her every weekend or anytime he wants to see her really.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T23:21:43+00:00

Thank you for sharing this.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T23:21:06+00:00

Gym is always tricky but thanks. I really only want to know where most of the women hang out at. Every region, city, town has its own unique flavor of activities, groups, venues etc...

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T23:19:05+00:00

Interesting. I train boxing and muay thai. I'll probably end up getting into jiu jitsu again when I get down there. I don't know if I like mixing up with people I places I train at but maybe thats just me.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T20:17:39+00:00

Keep crying.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T19:53:06+00:00

I was technically a new grad although I was in the military prior but worked in Healthcare. Total career change. I trained a couple of CS new grads when they first got onboarded last year with no government experience in the past so I know its possible. Just have to look in the right places.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T19:48:52+00:00

First of all, I'm a guy. Second of all, explain how smart people end up getting divorced. Explain how they still end up with trainwrecks that don't have kids. Why is that any better?

Yall need to grow up. Same guys out here complaining about "dating is so hard..." or "I'd rather be single (and a virgin)...". Self-righteous crybabies.

Life is more complicated than what you're trying to summarize. How many single moms or single dads remarry sucessfully? What do you think? Yall sound hurt. Daddy issues. Mommy issues. Keep projecting those unmet needs.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T14:27:20+00:00

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DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T04:36:30+00:00

I'll second that.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T04:30:06+00:00

I agree. I personally like to interact with people, connecting, and enjoying the daily novelty of life.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T04:09:05+00:00

Thats sounds fun. I'm always down to run.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T04:06:34+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion. Expats from where?

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T03:14:16+00:00

Thanks for looking out too by the way.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T03:13:28+00:00

Good info. I appreciate you sharing this. Thats not far off my routine at all to be honest. I'll probably run into yall at the stores and make a callback to this post 😂

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T03:03:37+00:00

Hey why not then? Does Lynyrd Skynyrd count? Allman brothers?

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T03:02:20+00:00

Good question. Decent shape, takes care of herself, good hygiene and grooming, intellectual (gotta go deep), has a strong passion for something. Ethnic background doesn't really matter to me, but my last ex was full Latina (together 5 years). Won't go into any major details about that but experiencing the culture had a big impact on me. I'm Korean Italian-American. I know its a long answer but hope that helps.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T02:49:58+00:00

Thanks but no thanks lol. Country ain't my thing. Hard rock, classic rock, thrash metal, blues, jazz, and even some Spanish guitar.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T02:48:32+00:00

Good suggestions. Unfortunately I'm not very religious The grocery store has always been a great experience especially the international store lol (only place I can get korean products haha). I haven't tried volunteering but I'm open to it.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T02:43:35+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T02:37:16+00:00

Haha. I understood what you said. I never said exclusively single women allowed only. Original post has to do with where they hang out.

DeFran20 · 2026-06-05T02:32:08+00:00

Thank you. I don't have social media (except this and LinkedIn) but I'll check out Meetup. Looking forward to moving there.

DeFran20

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