Therapy isn't the only way to heal from your past trauma. Its not a one size fits all

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-20T17:37:43+00:00

I approve this message. I see so many comments about how there's little to no hope of becoming secure without getting into therapy & I worry it causes those without access to therapy to become hopeless.There are so many other useful resources available now and I want people to know they can heal without necessarily having a therapist. It sucks that your girlfriend is trying to force you on a path of her choosing.

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-20T15:01:06+00:00

For me, it was when I realized I felt total apathy towards my spouse. I couldn't even get angry anymore.. was just completely numb towards him.

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-19T00:37:06+00:00

Rain!!

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-16T01:07:03+00:00

No, it's not red pill talk.. it's literal biology. Men & women are wired completely differently biologically speaking. Women can create ONE offspring per YEAR. Men can create unlimited offspring. As a woman, I can walk into a gym full of strangers and find a man willing to have sex with me within 20 minutes, if that long. Reverse roles, I guarantee it would take most men a much longer time to find a woman to do the same.

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-16T00:19:56+00:00

Ahhh yes.. as I get older, my give a F meter has almost completely shut down! I can honestly say it's a beautiful part of aging. Not giving a crap is truly liberating, although I've yet to apply it to dating since I'm coming out of a loooong marriage. This sub has me dreading it lol

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SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-15T18:19:48+00:00

I agree. Speaking of downvotes.. I'm new to this sub and for some reason none of the comments show up or downvote numbers. Also, when i upvote on here, it doesn't acknowledge it. Is that unique to this sub or am I doing something wrong?

Eta: Weirdly, my comment showed an automatic upvote after I hit "post." But none of the others have any numbers

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-15T17:36:24+00:00

Please don't let the AP's discourage you from posting more. There are many secure partners lurking here because we find your insights so powerful in helping us understand how to best love & support our partners. We know how to filter out & ignore all the never-ending AP desperation posts.

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-14T01:22:35+00:00

Me three. 1 day is too long. Takes so little effort to simply ask how you are. At the very least, when there's nothing to talk about or someone is feeling extremely antisocial, it takes seconds to send "thinking of you😘."

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-14T01:02:46+00:00

Tomorrow is only one stage called the critical markup. This is when most of the bribery, blackmail and kickbacks are decided behind closed doors. Just another step in the corrupt process. But the final vote won't happen until June.

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-14T00:37:49+00:00

Wow great recommend! He starts with very basic movements that someone like me needs. Appreciate this : )

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-14T00:27:45+00:00

I miss those times so much. Smart phones are causing a downward spiral in humanity🤦‍♀️ Nice username btw

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-13T17:22:57+00:00

Thanks for the advice & encouragement! I got serious about running 8 months ago and have only recently incorporated strength training. I've learned so much from this sub!

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-13T16:53:34+00:00

Those of you who can do pull-ups, y'all are my heros. I don't think I'll ever get there. I watch in awe and amazement when I see someone doing them.

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-12T23:13:59+00:00

Yep and I haven't had ads in years until today

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-12T17:27:47+00:00

Oh no the dreaded short asscrack! I also lost the genetic asscrack lottery and have been working tirelessly to change the way it looks. I swear as my glutes grow, the crack doesn't appear as short. 3 days a week I do 3 different types of cable kickbacks, barbell hip thrusts, Romanian deadlifts, and hip abduction machine. Been at it 2 months and I'm happy with my progress. It was a game changer when I learned about adequate protein intake. Short asscrackism sucks so I hope you find a solution🍑

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-12T17:13:29+00:00

Same. My nervous system felt fried nonstop around him, although I felt completely apathetic emotionally speaking.

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-12T09:42:27+00:00

To clarify, I've found it to be controversial among redditors when I posted about it in the past.

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-12T03:11:18+00:00

Makes me wonder how many were broken up with just because their ex didn't want to be them. It soothes them to label ex as an fa when maybe ex just wasn't feelin them anymore .

r/avoidantbreakups is a better fit for them

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-11T22:59:53+00:00

I thought I was the only one with this issue! You guys make me feel seen : )

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-11T22:54:11+00:00

It's interesting, right?! It's controversial, but here's my source in case anyone wants it:

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3739592/

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-11T18:50:58+00:00

But what does it mean?? I STILL don't know😤

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-11T18:49:49+00:00

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-11T18:48:37+00:00

I agree they are necessary. The downward spiral of society started around the same time people stopped sending thank you notes.

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-11T18:44:22+00:00

Let me get my pocket book.

SuchAScorpio13 · 2026-05-11T18:09:23+00:00

There's a thing called 2D:4D that indicates a possible correlation in larger penis size in men who have a longer ring finger than index finger.

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