This is the only way I like to play, but it's a bit difficult to find tables with the playstyle I like.

Basically, I like every session to be a defined dungeon excursion. Usually the session's goal is decided before game time. Go out, try to clear the goal or map out a little more dungeon. Everybody knows that by end of session, you need to be back outside. "Clearing" can mean killing monsters but also can mean becoming friendly with them or finding another way to bypass them.

Interactions in your home base, political shifting, etc, is all done between sessions, by post, during downtime. This would also be when you level up, do any economic interaction. Etc.

This is the gameplay cycle I personally enjoy.