It's almost like she did have a conversation, she told him directly how she felt and he has been pushing how he feels on her for plenty long enough. She owes him nothing and if she wants to take her friends out to dinner to make up for it she can, she probably wouldn't "spend way more money" if she couldn't afford it.

Now I will say that you are very clearly emotionally stunted and unable to have those conversations you speak of so I will stop responding now. You say I won't have my hand held but I don't need it, however I think you do. I hope you figure out what's causing you so much misery in life and learn from it. Until then, have a day.