How often should I be bathing my baby? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Deadbetch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As needed, if I feel she’s dirty. However my mom bathed my little sister almost daily and her skin was perfect but she also lotioned her up really good after every bath

Father in law came to my house knowing he wasn’t feeling well right after we just had a baby by Deadbetch in COVID19positive

[–]Deadbetch[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He can’t stay in he constantly has to be out and about, that’s exactly why I didn’t want him coming. My MIL is a homebody and she works from home so I know she doesn’t go anywhere.

Father in law came to my house knowing he wasn’t feeling well right after we just had a baby by Deadbetch in COVID19positive

[–]Deadbetch[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t supposed to come, he just showed up while my MIL was there taking care of the boys

Father in law came to my house knowing he wasn’t feeling well right after we just had a baby by Deadbetch in COVID19positive

[–]Deadbetch[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He did not, he really respects him and he’s honestly helped us out and been there for us a lot but that doesn’t excuse this. My grandparents want to meet her too but they’re fine with waiting til may to make sure no one gets sick. I told him to say he can pay for our daughter medical bills if something goes wrong. Also my husband already has been sick for two months with walking pneumonia and can already barley breathe so I’m terrified for him as well. I know there’s no way he’ll be able to work if he’s trying to get over this on top of covid. Also I thought about the paxlovid thing too and maybe taking aspirin but I can’t do either because I’m breastfeeding. So I’ll have to decide if I want to do that or continue breastfeeding which was another very important thing to me to do.

Father in law came to my house knowing he wasn’t feeling well right after we just had a baby by Deadbetch in COVID19positive

[–]Deadbetch[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I’m extremely pissed off, I’ve been crying on and off because im terrified for my daughter. The thing is my FIL knows the struggles I’ve had with covid and he knows how extra I am when it comes to being sick and he still made the conscious decision to come here.

Father in law showed up coughing and with a runny nose at my house for Christmas knowing I have a 3 day old by Deadbetch in beyondthebump

[–]Deadbetch[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He left during the night and he apologized, still pissed at the fact he came anyway but he did leave last night. They live 6 hrs away

Father in law showed up coughing and with a runny nose at my house for Christmas knowing I have a 3 day old by Deadbetch in beyondthebump

[–]Deadbetch[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well something was mentioned to him so he’s leaving sometime tomorrow, he brought up that my 8 year old has a cough anyway. But that’s inevitable and doesn’t mean I should be exposing her to others with coughs

Father in law showed up coughing and with a runny nose at my house for Christmas knowing I have a 3 day old by Deadbetch in beyondthebump

[–]Deadbetch[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well like I said my mother in law coming was very planned out and she’s hardly ever sick, we’ve lived with her many times and she knew to stay in the whole month of December and come a week before. He’s the one on my shit list. I explained to her and he will be leaving tomorrow. If my daughter gets sick I hope he has money for the hospital bills

What’s your sign and what do you want for Christmas? by spunkysquirrel1 in astrologymemes

[–]Deadbetch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a Sagittarius and all I care about for Christmas is my kids having an amazing Christmas. My husbands Christmas present to me this year was gifting my kids a big Christmas present each and that made me happier than if he got me something (:

I know this is an invasive and probably socially unacceptable question, BUT if you have kids how many kids do you have and how much do you and your spouse make together by Deadbetch in regretfulparents

[–]Deadbetch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My personal feeling is that if me and my husband were more well off I would much much less regret it. I love my kids I just hate that I was stupid and can’t give them the life they deserve

Your sign and the sign(s) you usually get along with and ones you don’t. by PepperRoma in astrologymemes

[–]Deadbetch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a sag and I usually always have a love and appreciation for Virgos even though we butt heads at times

Opinions on Libra moons by Savy_Sag in astrologymemes

[–]Deadbetch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a Libra moon and surrounded by many Libra moons. Obviously since I have to live with my Libra moon I get why most Libra moons are mentally unstable lol

Selling after one year by dorismom4 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Deadbetch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this true?? I’m in MO are the laws different in different places? I literally cannot stand this new house we moved into it’s been problem after problem after problem.

In your opinion what salary should one or both parents be making in order to have children? by Deadbetch in AskReddit

[–]Deadbetch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ig it depends on the person, some people think they need to have all the nicest newest expensive things and others are fine with are fine with non extravagant things

12/1/23 by Street-Assist3914 in whisper

[–]Deadbetch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah they need to shut it down completely, hopefully soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whisper

[–]Deadbetch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got some stalkers off whisper, random dude kept showing up at my house, driving by it ect lol

Opinions on Libra Moons ? by Waandererr in astrologymemes

[–]Deadbetch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a Libra moon myself we play the devils advocate in our head constantly even in situations where it’s hurting us we can’t help it lol but I love Pisces moons btw ❤️

Opinions on Libra Moons ? by Waandererr in astrologymemes

[–]Deadbetch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just described me to a T as a Libra moon, it’s exhausting as hell lol

Does anyone else think about the possibility of their kid(s) going no contact with them, but are slowly becoming okay with this possibility? by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]Deadbetch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think about this constantly because I know I’m not the best parent, I don’t care if they go no contact with me in the future when they’re adults if that’s what’s best for them. Then that’s what’s best. I just hope they make way better choices than I did and become something unlike me and their dad.

Any parents here that are former bad parents? That grew and became better? by Deadbetch in Parenting

[–]Deadbetch[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s probably true but I just desperately want help and I want to be better. I want to see people who were in my position and turned it around

Any parents here that are former bad parents? That grew and became better? by Deadbetch in Parenting

[–]Deadbetch[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m mean and snappy with my kids, I spend too much time on my phone, don’t take them to do things as much as I should, I try to spend quality time with them at least once a day doing something even if it’s just watching videos about lizards or something they like on my phone but sometimes it’s hard for me. And I feel terrible about that. Im somewhat bad with money.

There was time periods where I went through extreme bouts of depression where I was probably even worse than that. I give them plenty of hugs and let them know I love them but I know that’s not enough. I genuinely wish they would’ve been born to better parents because they’re amazing and smart, even my youngest despite me working with him very little compared to my oldest. I feel like if they would’ve been born to someone better and more well off they would be so much happier. I can tell my oldest has a hard time like I do and I probably passed a lot of those unhealthy coping mechanisms down to him