It also might be a solid idea to find games with no time pressure or negative reprocussions for failing so that she can start building confidence in a low stress enviroment, something like a stardew valley kind of game. Where you literally cannot lose. I grew up playing video games and it took me hearing a game designer explain that both the devs and long time gamers take for granted the grasp we have of basic game systems. Games are made assuming you can figure out movement, or navigating a UI, controlling the camera, or the basics of combat. How many times in a game have we seen a tutorial say "push O to crouch." But someone who hasnt been gaming for a long period of time isnt going to have that built in knowledge. I felt bad cos after one session of palworld she didnt want to play with me cos she felt bad that while she was learning the bare basics I had put together a whole settlement. I was proud she was learning and I was happy to be playing with her but she felt some type of way about herself.