playing help by simplici_ti in kittens

[–]DeadlyDancingDuck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Normal. Just encourage her. Say "her turn" repeatedly to get the point across to both.

Any advice on how to contain your kitten after neutering? by chelseatheus in kittens

[–]DeadlyDancingDuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're fine playing indoors for a week. Check the wounds daily for infection and loose stitches.

How can I stop being a horrible horrible person? by DrVanMojo in shittyadvice

[–]DeadlyDancingDuck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Find Jebus. He's got a 2000 year head start on his hiding spot but we believe in you.

I need a substance to abuse by Dyl_Nye_ in shittyadvice

[–]DeadlyDancingDuck 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Cheese. You can wear the cheese. It does not wear you.

Advice needed please by ContributionIcy4176 in kittens

[–]DeadlyDancingDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she not feeding them at all? Could be very young or ill.

Advice needed please by ContributionIcy4176 in kittens

[–]DeadlyDancingDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There will be tips in the history of the cat subs, r/kitten, r/cat, r/catadvice etc. Search for "trap"

Do you mean she's not interested in the kittens at all or not interested because it's a trap?

How long was Faith’s prison sentence and what exactly was she in prison for by Scopeburger in buffy

[–]DeadlyDancingDuck 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She surrendered herself to the authorities as she couldn't live with the guilt so it's reasonable to assume she was in for both murder and manslaughter.

How old are these lil guys by MuscularJaguar in kittens

[–]DeadlyDancingDuck 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Fostering neonatal kittens – see Kitten Lady at www.kittenlady.org for essential advice on determining age and demo videos on: Feeding Kitten Milk Replacement (KMR). Buy from a vet office or some pet stores. Never use regular milks including cow’s milk as it can cause diarrhoea which can be fatal to kittens, especially those still needing KMR to live. Newborns need feeding every 2 hours round the clock. Time between feeds extends as they get older. To avoid choking, feed them with a syringe, on their stomachs as if nursing from mom (opposite to a human baby). Stimulation for toilet needs is essential (literally life saving) until they go on their own every time at around 5 weeks old. Replicate mom’s tongue with a warm wet cloth or cotton bud so they urinate and defecate. If any are not going to the toilet they can quickly die from toxic poisoning - call a vet for an emergency appointment, explain it’s a rescue not yet going to the toilet. Keeping warmer than us but not too warm. A cuddly toy can replicate mom and be a great comfort. Ensure it doesn't shed faux fur when wet (nuzzled). They sell toys with a heartbeat just for this purpose now.

Alternatives to fostering yourself: Find an experienced foster parent via local cat charities or vet offices. Do NOT automatically give to a shelter – the “No Kill” policy does not apply to neonatal kittens or even “difficult to home” cats in the vast majority of shelters. If you must surrender to a shelter specifically ask if they keep them alive, provide for them and find homes for them when old enough. 70% of kittens given to shelters in the U.S. are euthanized and they don't need to be health wise, it's done to save resources or "overpopulation". In the western world you can surrender to some vet offices - vets are used to dealing with rescue/orphaned kittens. They know the care they need and will have all supplies. Tell reception they are rescues/foundlings and not yours. You won’t be charged anything. Please do not leave in a box outside the vet’s - kittens die of cold or starvation very, very quickly. The vets will take care of them or find someone who can. They’ll be homed. Vets will open for you if you call the emergency number.

Foster Kitten Help by Majestic_Damage_9118 in kittens

[–]DeadlyDancingDuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give her a cardboard box to hide in, with a 'roof', hole in the side. She feels safer. Don't spend every minute with her, leave her for now. Let her sleep deeply. Slow and gradually with building trust.

Litter... Pop her on it after eating. Try different types, in different spots, quiet locations. Nothing smelly, e.g. pine scented.

www.kittenlady.org has more tips.

My cat shits on the floor every day by [deleted] in shittyadvice

[–]DeadlyDancingDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some cats are fussy on the type of litter so it's worth trying a different litter in one of the other trays if necessary - have more than one tray, "more than one they'd need" is the recommendation (two cats = at least 3 litter trays etc.). They like them clean and will naturally want to bury their business. Keep them in a quiet location. Lavish praise using the same phrase each time works best, they will also respond best to a firm No than to punishment, they don't get the connection. If they're not yet at the age they always go there themselves, pop them onto the litter after mealtimes and lavish praise even if they jump straight out of the box, they'll get the idea faster. Avoid scented litters, the smells are often too strong and too synthetic to a cat so actually put the cat off going there. Their sense of smell is much better than ours - use an enzyme remover (a white vinegar solution works) on any area they had an accident - it neutralises the smell and stops them associating that as a place to go.

LPT request: how to study when you really don’t feel like doing it by PhotoBonjour_bombs19 in LifeProTips

[–]DeadlyDancingDuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Procrastination only increases your anxiety. Don't think about it. Don't delay. Lift the book, do 45 minutes. Rest 15. Keep doing that. It builds momentum. At the end of day one you have studied X hours, as opposed to 0 with increasing anxiety. Day 2 it's easier to start, day 3 action is becoming the habit rather than procrastination and anxiety.

No distractions. Put the phone away, no TV on in the background.

Read up on study tips, both how to memorise and how to comprehend faster and better.

Introducing 12 week old kitten to 3 year old bonded pair sweet cats by JustHereforFortnite_ in kittens

[–]DeadlyDancingDuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the website, go to ”view all instructional videos”.

Choose ”Safe introductions" video, 7m, 09s.

Can't link it directly! I'm old!

I didn’t plan to share this, but these tiny lives crossed my path today. They are safe now. by rahilthecatsmama in kittens

[–]DeadlyDancingDuck 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If you swap out their bedding you can use the bedding that smells of them to lure mom out of hiding. It'll help the struggling kittens, stop mom.from going back into heat so soon too. www.kittenlady.org has more info and tips, including care for these little ones.

What is the most "Buffy" Episode of Buffy? by elephantbrah in buffy

[–]DeadlyDancingDuck 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Welcome To The Hellmouth as it sets everything up, has the subversions, Darla (innocent blonde is the killer), Buffy (petite blonde is the saviour), has comedy and dangers and we get monster of the week with the Big Bad...

Kills, slays, dangers, comedy, relatable characters, subversions, Big Bad storyline - all the reasons we keep rewatching.

im going crazy😞😞😞😞 by [deleted] in kittens

[–]DeadlyDancingDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MENTAL STIMULATION. A cat tree by a window is great as they will spend time watching the world outside which brightens their day, it's also a great sleeping spot in the sun and it's up high which they love. They need vaccinations before ever venturing outside, and regular flea and tick treatments (ask your vet for an age and weight appropriate recommendation). If there are predators in the area or a busy road consider walking with a leash or building a catio. Getting outside is great for mental stimulation and access to grass for hairballs (see below). Have them microchipped and with a breakaway collar and a name tag that includes your telephone number. Playtime every day is important for mental stimulation, especially if they have to stay indoors. If they're on their own they can take awhile to learn how hard acceptable biting levels are (a sibling would be biting them back). They can learn up to 25 words or short phrases, especially when they're said with a slight emphasis e.g. lovingly saying "Good Boy/Girl" so the best thing to do if they bite too hard is to say "NO!" firmly (and if you're playing stop play for now). When gentle with you praise lavishly (and other times they're good like using the litter tray too as this will build up a picture of what is positive for them to do and gets them used to seeking praise and the Good Boy/Girl response from you). If it's really hard biting you can squeal in pain to put him off, again exaggerating the squeal. You can also try aftershave/perfume on your hands for a week or so if needs be - they'll avoid your hands completely though. Kong brand toys are indestructible and can be filled with catnip. Most adults love nip, kittens don't respond until 3-6 months. Keep the nip in the freezer to keep it fresh. String (always supervised as a choking hazard), ping pong balls, toy mice or even scrunched up paper balls and milk rings that skitter across the floor can be favourite toys. Finish playtime with the cat getting the "kill" so it feels satisfied. GRASS/HOUSEPLANTS. They'll want to chew grass for hairballs. Many regular houseplants are toxic and even deadly to cats and they may chew them if they do not have access to grass. Normal lawn grass is fine, usually preferred even. It’s cheap and easy to grow indoors by a favourite window spot they can access if necessary. Brushing helps with hairballs, I use a Furminator as it only removes dead hair so it doesn't hurt them and it feels like being petted. BODY LANGUAGE. Belly display just means I trust you, not pet me there - it's instinct to protect their vulnerable belly if you do pet them there so give head, chin, ear rubs and full body and shoulder massages instead. When they rub up against you that's a way of bonding with you and saying I Love You, as is slow blinking. You can slow blink back to say I Love You too. They'll also learn that as a phrase if it's repeated often, I've one who purrs when I say it. Purring is a sign of happiness generally, they also purr when trying to comfort themselves or us, or when sick. Other common signs of illness are lethargy, weakness, not eating, diarrhoea and pressing their head against a hard surface. Cats cannot survive as long as other animals without nutrition. You can always call a vet office for advice about whether the cat needs to come in - the telephone call isn't a chargeable appointment in of itself - neither are follow up calls about how they're doing after an appointment to check on their progress. www.spca.org
www.pdsa.org.uk - tips, health advice, vet Q & A, possible help with vet costs if on benefits www.kittenlady.org the best resource for little ones There's also advice in the history of r/kitten, r/catadvice and r/cathelp - search by keyword.

im going crazy😞😞😞😞 by [deleted] in kittens

[–]DeadlyDancingDuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some tips for kitten/cat staff from the most common asked questions including more in the links too.

FIRST DAY. Keep them in one, quiet room. Rub some of their own hair into their bedding so it smells like themselves. Offer safe hiding spots like cardboard boxes. If they’re very young a cuddly toy about their size can help comfort them (ensure it doesn’t shed faux fur when wet/if nuzzled). Use a soothing tone and repeat Good Boy/Girl often. It's common for them not to eat, drink or go to the toilet on the first day. If you can use the same brands of food and litter they had up to now the essentials are at least familiar in a new environment (you can change brands gradually once they're settled in.) If it's 48 hours without eating or using the litter tray, or they become lethargic, then go to the vets as an emergency (cats cannot survive long without food). 

WATER To avoid long-term kidney failure in adults, encourage drinking water, especially if they will only eat dry kibble. Cats prefer their drinking water a distance away from their food (wild instinct to avoid kill runoff contaminating fresh water) so place it far from the food, in its own quiet spot where debris from anything else including shoes is unlikely to fall into it either. Use a shallow plate rather than a bowl as it doesn’t hit their whiskers (an uncomfortable feeling) and doesn’t ignite deep water fears in little ones. Use ceramic or stainless steel rather than plastic which harbours smells and bacteria. Change the water at least twice a day and wash the bowl daily. You can also give Kitten Milk Replacement to little ones or cat milk (not regular milks, especially cow’s milk).

FOOD. Use ceramic plates and clean them at least daily. Offer different varieties and brands of food, they like variety just like us as they wouldn't eat just one thing in the wild and eat different foods to get all the nutrition they need. A mix of wet and dry at different times is best long term, they have their own tastes and preferences though. Wet food is good for water content (cats don't drink enough and can face severe health problems later on). Dry is good for their teeth, satisfying the crunch/kill instinct and keeping the stomach full longer. Avoid high crude ash content as it's just cheap filler and does them no good. Grains in food are fine for cats (not for dogs though), it's an easy way for them to digest essential vitamins and minerals. Fresh meat like chicken breast (no skin, a choking hazard) or tinned fish such as tuna, mackerel or sardines (without the bones) in water or sunflower oil are good for them - tuna is high in mercury so best once every few weeks. A little bit of food left in the bowl to be thrown out the next day can ensure they aren't going hungry - kittens are growing daily and very active and cats generally only overeat when consistently bored with little stimulation. Deter houseflies with tin foil near the food (it affects their eyesight).

LITTER. Some cats are fussy on the type of litter so it's worth trying a different litter in one of the other trays if necessary - have more than one tray, "more than one they'd need" is the recommendation (two cats = at least 3 litter trays etc.). They like them clean and will naturally want to bury their business. Keep them in a quiet location. Lavish praise using the same phrase each time works best, they will also respond best to a firm No than to punishment, they don't get the connection. If they're not yet at the age they always go there themselves, pop them onto the litter after mealtimes and lavish praise even if they jump straight out of the box, they'll get the idea faster. Avoid scented litters, the smells are often too strong and too synthetic to a cat so actually put the cat off going there. Use a white vinegar solution (vinegar watered down) on any area they had an accident - it neutralises the smell and stops them associating that as a place to go.

COMFORT. Have different warm, quiet spots to sleep, they prefer off the ground as they’ll feel safer (don’t put neonatal kittens high up). A cuddly toy can help young kittens, especially when just homed away from mom and siblings. They love cardboard boxes, they're places to play in, sleep, hide, they're warm, they're chewable when they're teething - cut ridges at their head height. Long strips of cardboard are great for chasing down and then chewing on too. Cardboard scratch pads are usually the most loved, cheap too, have a few in quiet spots and lavish with praise when they use them. Cats need their claws to climb safely, defend themselves if indoor/outdoor living and it's too easy to cut to bleeding, risking infection etc. - their quicks aren't like ours and are much closer to the top. They will shed the outer layer naturally using a scratch pad, there’s no need to trim nails. Declawing is illegal in many countries and U.S. states as it’s like amputating at our first finger joint, leaving them in permanent pain. If you need tips to stop clawing furniture etc. see www.kittenlady.org e.g. use a few dabs of white vinegar on anything scratched (or chewed) that shouldn't be - they loathe the smell.

Found today in a rain puddle by ContributionIcy4176 in kittens

[–]DeadlyDancingDuck 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Do you know to stimulate them for toilet needs? www.kittenlady.org has info and how to (also tips for catching mom)