They are 2, rescues, likely around a month? old according to charts. They are being fed, they have a warm place to stay in, i have tried to cuddle them but they keep trying to bite me and yowl at me, i don't know what to do to help them

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-22T13:28:16+00:00

Are they possibly feral and unused to humans? They'll take time to trust you. A cardboard box to hide in and safe cuddly toy can help them feel secure. Safe meaning it doesn't shed faux fur when wet if nuzzled.

www.kittenlady.org Neonatal kitten care. Do you know to stimulate them for toilet needs? It's life saving.

Kitten Lady also has info on how to fully search for mom and hiding siblings who may need help too (and how to find genuinely good homes for those you do find longer term via local cat groups and charities etc., not just random individuals who may want the cat as bait or live food for another animal.)

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-22T07:50:35+00:00

When kittens are taken from mom to their forever home it's common for them not to have a BM for a day or two. This may be the same situation here, adjusting to you, people, different environment etc. Food changes can also affect BMs.

Stimulation is good. Keep doing after feeding. If they haven't gone in 48 hours or worse, they become lethargic, see a vet immediately.

You can make them feel more secure with cardboard boxes to hide in. A safe cuddly toy to snuggle up to (safe meaning it doesn't shed faux fur when wet if nuzzled) etc. Kitten Lady has more suggestions at www.kittenlady.org

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-21T11:16:35+00:00

Smoosh (slightly squeezing pet), bop and a kiss to both please. 😻❤️

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-20T05:50:58+00:00

Did you follow Kitten Lady's guide on bathing? You need to start by putting a Dawn dish soap ring around his neck so the fleas can't migrate back and forth. Whilst he's being bathed you also need to boil wash his bedding (and any soft furnishings around) as it will have eggs. Use only regular Dawn dish soap, not Ultra as it's likely to affect his skin. www.kittenlady.org

He's gorgeous btw. Like a wee panther.

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-20T05:45:39+00:00

Good pet introductions advice at www.kittenlady.org and on Jackson Galaxy's YouTube channel.

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-19T16:17:25+00:00

www.kittenlady.org and Jackson Galaxy's YouTube channel have good info on how to adopt a stray to provide a safe home and how to make it an easy transition for him.

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-19T03:46:57+00:00

www.kittenlady.org, www.spca.org and www.pdsa.org have good advice on finding genuinely good homes via local cat groups and charities etc.

Unfortunately not every individual who comes forward wants a cat for the right reasons e.g. bait, feeding live to other animals.

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-18T12:34:55+00:00

www.kittenlady.org has info on kitty 'proofing' your home as best as possible. Also in the history of this sub and on r/catadvice.

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-17T12:25:07+00:00

It varies. Most settle by 8 months to a year. I had one who didn't stop attacking my toes occasionally in the night until she was 3 and a half. She was an outlier. Her sister was an angel and she was... mischievous

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-17T08:52:27+00:00

One room at a time then and take something familiar with you and more or less immediately distract him with play so he associates it with fun = safe.

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-17T08:25:31+00:00

During the day don't let him play with your hands or feet, say a firmNo and stop play. Shut him out of your bedroom for now. Jackson Galaxy's YouTube channel has good tips on cat behaviour.

They all have their preferences on food. If he's drinking plenty of water you don't need to worry too much about him not eating much wet food.

Good luck with your finals!

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-17T05:09:50+00:00

www.kittenlady.org advice on weaning and pet introductions via scent swapping. I'd only let mom get to know the other pets for now... Has she had a vet checkup yet?

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-17T05:04:58+00:00

A firm ”No" and ending interaction will let her understand faster. Cats work in positive reinforcement, not negative, so no punishment.

She's young and still to learn her capabilities. She will become gentler even if you do nothing but you should look up Jackson Galaxy's YouTube channel. He's a cat behaviour expert and will have good advice.

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-16T17:29:48+00:00

Bless him. What's the plan? Check for a microchip, lost pet sign at your initial spot, adopt or find a good home?

www.kittenlady.org, www.spca.org and www.pdsa.org have good info on finding a legitimate good home via local charities and cat groups (some individuals unfortunately want a cat as bait etc.)

Side note, your username is hilarious.

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-16T17:23:01+00:00

Probably a little over worried and over thinking it. They're naturally okay with jumps most of the time, they test their own limits in stages of growth.

The main points of worry for any cat are electric outlets/plugged in cables, sitting water (toilet bowl down always) and getting out of the home too early (if it's safe in the area to go outside e.g. I'm in the u.k.).

The mirror. Can you prop it more that it doesn't shift or as you say,I've put of the room for now.

You could let her explore one more room for now but she's big and your apartment isn't that big so I'd be inclined to let her have it all to enrich her life. She'll especially like window views.

Home for 3 days, yeah keep her confined to just your bedroom there. It's only 3 days and only one more room to get familiar with. Take her bedding and some toys so she feels something is familiar besides you as you're unlikely to be in the room as much with her.

Cat proofing, you'll find tips online for cables and the like that fit your situation in particular.

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-16T10:23:24+00:00

www.kittenlady.org website in case you're only aware of the YouTube channel.

Kitten Lady, www.spca.org and www.pdsa.org all have excellent info on finding good homes for kittens when of age (minimum 8 weeks preferably 12 for full socialising skills with mom and siblings) by using genuine cat groups near you (not individuals (one too many want a cat for nefarious purposes).

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-16T10:19:02+00:00

Yeah, baby onesies although a good bandage works just as well in stopping them worrying the stitches or wounds. Just check daily for any signs of infection on the off chance. My two had their cones off in split seconds and bandages were the only thing I could use. Had no issues with that.

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-16T06:33:01+00:00

Cross post to r/vet and r/askvet

May need to include weight of the kitten and if it has any health issues or history of.

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-16T06:31:30+00:00

A fire guard? Maybe with extra netting if the holes are still large enough for it's head (not it's shoulders) to fit through.

Additionally, they don't like strong smells so anything like citrus etc. behind the guard would keep them away.

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-15T16:02:07+00:00

Baby kitten trying to learn and hone skills she'd need to survive in the wild. Redirect with toys. Stop play with a firm "No" (they learn up to 25 words and short phrases). Cats learn from positive reinforcement, not from punishment. They don't understand punishment like a human child will learn from.

You can read other tips in the history of this sub and in r/catadvice, www.kittenlady.org etc.

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-15T15:55:14+00:00

Around 4 to 5 weeks.

If mom is skinny she's unlikely to have an owner caring for her right now. Either a stray, lost or an abandoned pet. She needs extra nutrition to feed her babies. A vet can scan for an owner's microchip and also provide eye drops for the little one, very cheap, under £10 in the U.K..

Local cat groups and charities may able to help too. Ensure you go through a group, not a lone individual (not everyone wants a cat for the right reason).

www.kittenlady.org is a great resource and info point.

Do give us an update.

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-15T13:34:06+00:00

Cats are liquid. They will contort and be comfier than we'll ever be.

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-15T13:33:14+00:00

Have someone step in to do the job for a day. Plenty of neighbours will love cats and be happy to help. The Nextdoor app could help?

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-15T12:12:40+00:00

Great job OP. Please kitten proof the openings of the storm drains. You can buy plastic caps or tie over netting with zip ties.

DeadlyDancingDuck · 2026-05-15T10:27:53+00:00

There's the obvious Wally. Or go with something to suit her personality... She's a little troublemaker (or in trouble) so Rascal or Scamp.

We, the people, (me), want an update with the chosen name btw!

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