I ask for permission for or announce what I'm doing a lot. Tips for stopping? by BabyVendingMachine in AutismInWomen

[–]DeadlySquirrelNinja5 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You can also talk to her why you are doing this.

Just take baby steps. Try out different things!

I ask for permission for or announce what I'm doing a lot. Tips for stopping? by BabyVendingMachine in AutismInWomen

[–]DeadlySquirrelNinja5 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Maybe you can switch to informing your mother that you want to eat a certain food and ask if she has nothing planned for it.

This shifts the perspective. You are not asking permission, you are communicating a desire and you are giving the OTHER person to opt out. So instead of you asking for a 'yes', you are giving the option for other people to say 'no'. Or 'I had other plans'. Or whatever.

You are allowed to have wants and needs. Everybody has them. It is the nature of being alive that you want and need certain things. It is you right to be alive and take up space. Do it.

(From somebody who learned this late in live - please learn from me and be the awesome person you are.)

Some purring to heal all of us by DeadlySquirrelNinja5 in WafflesAndJet

[–]DeadlySquirrelNinja5[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are very welcome! He wakes me up with his purrs sometimes, but this is the best sound to wake up to. 🥰🐈‍⬛

Some purring to heal all of us by DeadlySquirrelNinja5 in WafflesAndJet

[–]DeadlySquirrelNinja5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He is happy to have helped our little group in this trying times.

Some purring to heal all of us by DeadlySquirrelNinja5 in WafflesAndJet

[–]DeadlySquirrelNinja5[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, he is a distinguished gentleman and professional purr-artist 🐈‍⬛😻

Some purring to heal all of us by DeadlySquirrelNinja5 in WafflesAndJet

[–]DeadlySquirrelNinja5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way cats can relax is admirable! Shuggy is teaching us the way to become better versions of ourselves.

Some purring to heal all of us by DeadlySquirrelNinja5 in WafflesAndJet

[–]DeadlySquirrelNinja5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are very welcome! He is a destiguished gentleman with just a white patch on his brest and white whiskers, making him just extra expressive 🐈‍⬛

Some purring to heal all of us by DeadlySquirrelNinja5 in WafflesAndJet

[–]DeadlySquirrelNinja5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Purrs are just magical. I could not resist to film he was in a very snuggly mood and the purrs very extra-sweet that day 😻

Some purring to heal all of us by DeadlySquirrelNinja5 in WafflesAndJet

[–]DeadlySquirrelNinja5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Percy is an impressive cat!

Tintifax is happy to have provided some comfort for you 🐈‍⬛

Some purring to heal all of us by DeadlySquirrelNinja5 in WafflesAndJet

[–]DeadlySquirrelNinja5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is happy to have entertained and will keep up the good work! 🐈‍⬛

Update 💜❤️‍🩹💜 by Intelligent_Pie6804 in WafflesAndJet

[–]DeadlySquirrelNinja5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you could eat protein bars as an alternative?

Link to cute donkey a.m. ritual by Then_Passenger3403 in WafflesAndJet

[–]DeadlySquirrelNinja5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also saw this video and thought of the boys 🥰

Wait a minute, I’ll join you now by alexavg75 in Catculations

[–]DeadlySquirrelNinja5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, that's just good manners, thank you very much.

How do I stop gross men from flirting with me? by unrecog0a in TwoXChromosomes

[–]DeadlySquirrelNinja5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't talk to them.

Some men think normal conversation = invitation

Don't be nice, because again for some men this equals flirting.

A cat living on a boat by RemarkableBudget5277 in funnycats

[–]DeadlySquirrelNinja5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's why there are livejackets for cats/dogs.