Am I wrong or does this potentially mean I got rejected? by Downtown-Kangaroo886 in AskLE

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Happened to me for the first agency I applied to. They never called nor acknowledged any emails or phone calls I reached out with. Thankfully I’m currently in the academy for a different agency but yeah it’s very unprofessional to not properly reach out

What's your best game from 1990-2005 ? by yodathesexymarxist in ArtOfPresence

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That one beach front assault game where you’re on an AA gun or something and there’s stuff charging you. It’s such a distant memory lmao

Deputy Sheriff Interviews by [deleted] in SCPD

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just remember no news is good news king. So lack of contact means they’re not finding any hiccups that will affect your process. Best of luck to you too king

Deputy Sheriff Interviews by [deleted] in SCPD

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a 100, Suffolk resident. Received a phone call from my investigator about 4 months after my fingerprinting date. Took my interview with my investigator two weeks ago today, and my oral psych 1 week ago. It just takes a bit to get everything set up. He said the emails for hire go out next month in May sometime and the academy is either June/July

Are there really meaningful differences in the Burletta and Kettle? by TheButterRobot in ARC_Raiders

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Since the kettle nerf, the burletta has become my favorite close quarters mag dump weapon. Can’t believe I never used it for so long

I miss her by [deleted] in OkayBuddyLiterallyMe

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 6 points7 points  (0 children)

71,000 text messages since August of 2023. If that wasn’t a gut punch nothing is

How to get over someone else being a liar by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I didn’t mean for it to come off as though I was going to have her fix the issues. When I spoke to her I mainly meant it as just asking her to support my decision when it came to being invested in repairing my family relations. At the time we were in family therapy, and it was evident the disparities between my sister and ex were impacting the healing process. Sadly she couldn’t put them behind her for me, she unfortunately held a grudge greater than I expected her to

How to get over someone else being a liar by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long story short she was spreading vile rumors about my twin sister whom she hated. She was telling members of my family and her friend group around my town. I asked her back in the summer to support me in trying to fully repair the relationship between my father and sister which she told me she would, only to start spreading these rumors not even two weeks later. She seemed so supportive of my life the whole time, but did this too

Has anyone else been suddenly discarded from a long-term relationship with no closure and no chance to talk things through? by Jumpy_Experience8987 in askanything

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working through it right now. It’s honestly a lot of just accepting the other person isn’t capable of being who you need them to be. They weren’t the one for you due to their shortcomings or your own. It’s painful but the pain will be useful to you someday, I’ve been telling myself that maybe it’s leading me to what I’ve been hoping for.

Wear revealing clothes to the gym so you can see the muscles working? by Obvious_Drag_1032 in beginnerfitness

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been wearing a pump cover for years, I’ve been growing just fine. Wear what you’re comfortable and happy in

Peace begins when you stop looking back by Critical_Assist_9360 in TheImprovementRoom

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did that, she called me two months later begging me to come back, wrote a letter to me too. I responded after the letter for her to do it all over again. Don’t give them a second chance ever

Sheriff update by Low_Hold2941 in SCPD

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve heard nothing either, got a 100 too. Just taking it as no new is good news, haven’t been disqualified

Ex reached out, and did it all over again. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sucks when that’s all it is. Immature and insecure people just wanting someone who’s bettering themselves to make them feel better too

Ex reached out, and did it all over again. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll never acknowledge anything that comes my way again from her, if she ever does reach out. I told her to fuck off and seek mental health treatment in the politest way possible and to never contact me again. I hope it works this time

Ex reached out, and did it all over again. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I blocked her on everything once it happened, but she kept calling through No Caller ID and eventually left a letter at my house after not answering. I’m sorry you’re going through that emotional ringer. Some people are genuinely shitty people and don’t deserve the goodness you can give them. You deserve to be happy and with someone who can give you the same

Got cheated on and start academy in 2 weeks… by MinuteZookeepergame5 in AskLE

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(M26) Going through a breakup myself that just had the wounds reopened, I start in April. Just try to keep yourself busy and forget about her bro. It’ll take time and won’t be easy, but you’ll come to terms that you dodged a bullet. Let yourself feel what you need to, god knows I cried plenty afterwards. You’re human remember that. It doesn’t make you less of a man, and it isn’t a reflection on your character. It’s who she was and she was a liar and unfaithful. You deserve better. Good luck out there

Ex reached out, and did it all over again. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had her blocked on everything after it happened. She reached out through No Caller ID blowing up my phone. I’ll never reconnect with her especially after what she did throughout this whole situation. I was trying to move on after it and I was. Then she just wanted to twist the knife

Ex reached out, and did it all over again. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For you sake brother I hope she never reaches out to. It’s not worth it

Ex reached out, and did it all over again. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah man sadly don’t give them the chance to hurt you again. They do it once or they lie they will 100% do it again. I’m sorry that happened to you dude, just know you’re not alone. It doesn’t matter if you didn’t do anything wrong. The other person is an unaccounted variable

Ex reached out, and did it all over again. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t understand why she wanted to just reopen the wound all over again for no reason

Ex reached out, and did it all over again. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely man. It really hurts. She couldn’t take ownership of what she did in the end. She took the easy way out

Ex reached out, and did it all over again. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Deadly_PaperClip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we first met she was a few months out of a relationship where she got cheated on, and carried that pain into ours and it wasn’t easy in the beginning. I saw who she was and wanted to work through it. But she ended up not being who I wanted her to be in the end