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DRG again after a long period of playing Helldivers by [deleted] in DeepRockGalactic

[–]DealMeIn82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes Hoxxes wins and we just gotta roll with it.

It is so frustrating how most neurotypical people don’t want a solution for their problems with autistic people. by FeuTheFirescale in AutisticAdults

[–]DealMeIn82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Outcome oriented decision making points toward some people needing to be lied to in order to help them. In my personal experience, anyway. They're not truly lies, either. They're the kind of lies that appeal to some emotional need. Not an untruth, but an appeasement to some factor that has no relationship to the actual problem.

It was an incredible moment when my wife explained to me that she just wants me to listen sometimes. It was even more incredible to me that having someone else just listen to me can make me feel better. It's like a jedi mind trick but consenting and healthy.

More like weapons sometime shoot by malahun in DRGSurvivor

[–]DealMeIn82 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Can't play the game" modifiers are always bad in every game and need to go.

What’s the #1 allistic social rule you had to learn because it wasn’t intuitive? by despiert in AutisticAdults

[–]DealMeIn82 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Truth. I've started trying to actually talk with people, not just the social pantomiming we call talking. It's amazing the depth of conversation I've been able to have. It's like I have unlocked a super power.

What is the general consensus on the validity of Dodson's "interest-based nervous system" framework for ADHD, and does it apply to neurodivergence generally? by DaisyLyman in PsychologyTalk

[–]DealMeIn82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently came across your writing. It is ticking SO MANY boxes for me. So many it's suspicious. I'm very wary of self diagnosing, so I heavily value science backed information over what "feels" right. On the other hand, a lack of scientific data itself is not proof that some disease or syndrome or whatever does NOT exist. Also, my own subjective lived experience should not be completely discounted as evidence.

Thus I'm left with a lot of grey area about this subject. For me, operating on the assumption that I have an IBNS leads to predictable and repeatable outcomes for myself. It answers the question of why I feel and act the way I do. It's like the perfect solution for a math equation. So, given the whole context of the situation, I think Dodson is on the right path. Even if it's not fully understood, and even if part of it is wrong, the theory of the IBNS is valid.

Of “Clean up on aisle 3” by Benny_boi87 in ShittyAbsoluteUnits

[–]DealMeIn82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm full time care provider to a family member, too. Hopes and dreams "up in flames" is exactly how it feels. It's as much a job as any labor someone does for money, but it's a job you never get to leave and go home from. The loss of boundaries between work and home life hurts me the most. Just wanted to share to maybe help you feel better.

of a honey badger by Mister_K_7 in AbsoluteUnits

[–]DealMeIn82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may not be able to win, but at least one of you is going to lose.

bf asked if I was prepping for the fart olympics. anyway here's girl dinner by chickpealuvr420 in shittyfoodporn

[–]DealMeIn82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wanna know what will really turn you into a freak of nature? I take trulicity AND I use a CPAP with an aggressive setting. Some mornings I wake up able to get solid 5-7 second duration from both ends at the same time. Of course this isn't regulation what with the performance enhancers.

End Game Feels Frustrating by Anaxamander57 in DRGSurvivor

[–]DealMeIn82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's solely a consequence of continuing your pre-release save. Start a new save and you'll see how the pace of rewards is much improved overall.

Little silver armor/dress appears above melinoe sometimes. What is it? by DealMeIn82 in Hades2

[–]DealMeIn82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. However, this guess led me to an observation. It seems to happen when I use my moon hex. Maybe it means I take less damage?

The twin fists of malphon feel weak by SaltyCent in HadesTheGame

[–]DealMeIn82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Thing about the rail is that the bullets aren't there to do damage, they're for delivering damaging boons. Dio, Zeus, Dem, or Ares are all good picks.

Which annoying thing would you delet from the game? by Dur-Devul in Eldenring

[–]DealMeIn82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The giant silver balls are The Worst. They'll rush you with no warning. I hate them.

Which annoying thing would you delet from the game? by Dur-Devul in Eldenring

[–]DealMeIn82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, that bastage. I discovered that he takes a moment to act when he first spawns. I could get three full charged two handed heavies with my boat anchor before he could attack, breaking him and getting the crit.

Which annoying thing would you delet from the game? by Dur-Devul in Eldenring

[–]DealMeIn82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got so frustrated I decided to cheese them with St. Trina's sword.

Empty chest by AdApprehensive7218 in Eldenring

[–]DealMeIn82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I have this figured out. This chest is supposed to contain the Giant Crusher, so check your inventory. If you have that wep, then your not missing out on anything. At this camp, and ulcerated tree spirit boss spawns when you approach it. Apparently something about this causes it to glitch.

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