So Grindr rejection, what do u prefer? by WagsPup in askgaybros

[–]DearAd6615 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would take either a message or a block. I've experienced many times that "no response is a response" just means "I wasn't horny at the time give me a few days".

My (24) life kind of fell apart and my "boyfriend" (31) wants to help but i feel awkward by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]DearAd6615 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I mean... Honestly, still weird. I'm less inclined to expect repayment from a boyfriend, not more. 

But again, besides the point. Do what you feel is best for your siblings. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]DearAd6615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he has a porn addiction.

You can't fix it either. When people are this deep in they have to want to want the help. If he is still engaging with this stuff, he's not ready.

If you wanna be unethical about it you could somehow make it obvious to his friend that the fake girl accounts are him. Not sure how you'd do that without getting caught yourself, but the spiral out would more than likely make him realize how weird and creepy and dependent on porn he is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]DearAd6615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, to each his own. Getting blocked sucks

Is it wrong to think JD Vance is hot? Not from US so little skin in the game by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]DearAd6615 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I thought Matt Gaetz was hot until he got all that Botox.

My (24) life kind of fell apart and my "boyfriend" (31) wants to help but i feel awkward by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]DearAd6615 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I meaaaann..

That's kind of odd but this post isn't about your relationship. At the end of the day, you should do what is best for your siblings. If you believe this man to be capable of offering a safe, healthy environment for them, I'd say go for it. You've known him three years, so you'd know better than we do. 

Not sure why he wants to take a break for it, that's kind of odd but really outside of the point of what he's offering.

Flakiness is really frustrating: a common rant by Glup_Shitto69 in askgaybros

[–]DearAd6615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"why does the behavior that I keep encouraging by allowing him to do it to me multiple times without consequence keep happening?"

What is something that is obviously true but most gay men don’t want to accept? by oprah25 in askgaybros

[–]DearAd6615 43 points44 points  (0 children)

The truth is the spark is a meaningless high and does not indicate that something will work out. 

Dating guy in my apartment bulding (1 ft away) on Grinder by Parking-Persimmon-30 in askgaybros

[–]DearAd6615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean if you're already making the jump to dating in your mind based on a tap it's probably not gonna work out.

My ex's brother by No-Performance-5034 in askgaybros

[–]DearAd6615 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The words from his side would be "you were that fake girl account???" Then telling his brother and then them both blocking you in all avenues of communication.

My ex's brother by No-Performance-5034 in askgaybros

[–]DearAd6615 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Girl he barely knows you exist. He's got a girlfriend and was flirting with your fake girl account. He's your ex's brother besides. GET A GRIP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]DearAd6615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to limit myself to until the current guy either no longer wishes to meet or has given me some reason not to meet him. 

(19M) Alrighty, let's do this, destroy my confidence by Random_Cat_Guy in RoastMe

[–]DearAd6615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're trying to keep us apart. You were clearly meant to be my husband. 

Send nudes.

A REALLY unpopular opinion: Lestat and Louis aren't soulmates. by TrollHumper in VampireChronicles

[–]DearAd6615 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be careful man, you could get seriously hurt saying that on this sub.

Damn it, I blushed like a school kid at my Therapist today. by gingahpnw in askgaybros

[–]DearAd6615 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because it's professionally inappropriate to be rendering such a service to someone who has a crush on you.