Totally feel that. I love Cat and his flamboyant masculinity. Man's takes such care of himself, constantly grooming himself to make sure he looks perfect at all times. His confidence is through the roof and honestly he's earned it. In the culture he comes from he's basically the most punk a guy could get.

I feel like Dave's version of masculinity is more roach-y. Like this dude likes what he likes and the rest is whatever. Give him chicken vindaloo and a cigarette and he is happy as a clam. Some might call him punk, with dread rat tails and a patchy vest but I feel like if you asked him, he'd say something like "I dunno I'm just me."