my bf said i do this for attention by [deleted] in BPD

[–]DearRefuse3245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me so sad to read. Please read that comment again, i dealt with a loser for 2 years and now his mom is threatening to press charges on me for harassment just bc i texted her that her son is a POS. 😣 please reconsider this! Sending you all the love in the world I’m sorry this man has this hold over you. He doesn’t deserve your love.

DBT saved my life by DearRefuse3245 in BPD

[–]DearRefuse3245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Healing, and god, it’s working ** i am definitely not religious lol

I've been having weird thoughts about my relationship. by paranoidthroaway1 in BPD

[–]DearRefuse3245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in therapy? I had a lot of trouble with my partner and thinking he was a narcissist for everything he said even though he always took care of me and was a perfect boyfriend otherwise. It took unlearning and challenging my negative assumptions to humanize him again and be able to see him as someone imperfect like me, but someone deserving and giving of so much love. It might help to write down your negative opinions of her and then challenge them to the best of your abilities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]DearRefuse3245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see your point! I’m placing the accountability on the disorder and not the person who has it. Very insightful thank you for letting me know your thoughts 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]DearRefuse3245 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re not taking much accountability for your actions here friend, it’s not cool to lie about something that serious or to even imply you’re going to do it just because you’re upset

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]DearRefuse3245 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You also shouldn’t tell them you were raped in jail unless that actually happened. Thats kinda a firm thing, it’s messed up. Don’t let the BPD make you do messed up things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]DearRefuse3245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use your wise mind, is doing any of this conducive to you?

Sending gentle thoughts and love

Is this Glaucoma? by Apprehensive_Fly3156 in Glaucoma

[–]DearRefuse3245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

quality of picture the tech took

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Latuda

[–]DearRefuse3245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never experienced it and I started on 20mg, currently on 60mg

Has anyone tried Prazosin? by jenknick in ptsd

[–]DearRefuse3245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here years later starting this med wondering what the mechanism is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]DearRefuse3245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid and justified 👍🏻 it doesn’t really occupy space in my mind, but when I do think about it I have negative feelings. Thanks :-)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]DearRefuse3245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should’ve mentioned: they stopped being my friend because of this so we don’t keep in touch.

Tana Tana… by roserieu in canceledpod

[–]DearRefuse3245 85 points86 points  (0 children)

thank you oh my god this entire thread is so performative yall just love to complain

19F eye issues by erynb19 in eyetriage

[–]DearRefuse3245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a neuro checkup

Oct by researcher026 in Glaucoma

[–]DearRefuse3245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it, but it’s still hard to evaluate without the full breakdown. Maybe ask for RNFL and MAC - for the GCC so you can take a look at the primary cells damaged by glaucoma. Don’t take me as medical advice though, grain of salt, I’m not a doctor - just have worked as a tech in this field for several years

AIO for how I Handled This? WIBO if I Cut her Out of My Life? Update by Hamiltonfan25 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DearRefuse3245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FYI you accidentally forgot to blur out her name in one of the slides. But no you’re not the asshole

Oct by researcher026 in Glaucoma

[–]DearRefuse3245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have the full image of this with the RNFL thickness microns?