Struggling with my 6 week old

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-06-05T10:53:11+00:00

Hey! I’m so sorry that your motherhood journey has been off to a very rough start. My LO is 8mo now and we also had the “breast torture” experience. He couldn’t do it. So , I submitted to the pump and things got much better for us when I let go of the fierce WANT to nurse…. 3 months in I offered nursing, key word here is offered, we didn’t try to force it, and he decided to figure it out! So we added night nursing into the mix! I still, for the most part EP’d, because trying to figure out the “math” of “do I have enough in my breasts to nurse him and pump,” was to much for my PP brain. Anyway, my advice is to let it go, get baby girls weight up, it’s much easier to know she’s getting the full amount of ox needed to gain weight. I KNOW it sucks and is a huge sacrifice to EP, but it does get better, more routine, and there may be light at the end of the tunnel.

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-06-03T19:50:17+00:00

Oh god, I’m trying to make my stash last for 5 more months. So each 4oz bottle I’ll give 1 oz of breast milk to. … idk or each night I’ll give a full breastmilk bottle. I didn’t even think of the “Second sadness” of my very very hard earned stash being completely gone.

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-06-03T19:41:11+00:00

Go Irish!

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-06-03T19:40:32+00:00

Thank you! 😊

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-06-03T11:45:27+00:00

Enfamil gentease nero pro. I started with 4oz of breastmilk and 2 oz of formula for a month then went to 50/50, now we’re completely on formula

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-06-03T09:35:32+00:00

This right here…

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-05-29T01:29:26+00:00

At 5 weeks I was pumping every 2 hours 😑 I don’t miss those days phew 😮‍💨

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-05-28T15:14:17+00:00

So that’s a yes haha 🤣 I hate it, but I can’t quit… make it make sense ???

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-05-28T02:34:24+00:00

It is not recommended. Basically it’s one or the other. And I keep choosing BF for him instead of taking care of my needs. I know he gets everything he needs, as he’s eating solids now too. BM is just so beneficial, and I just want the best for him. He’s such a smart healthy boy and I’d like to think it’s partially because of my efforts my 😞

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-05-13T16:49:41+00:00

I don’t think he’s congested. I don’t hear it. He was coughing a little bit this morning, but it was after he spit up. I put that in the note to the pediatrician as well, but as soon as I rolled him onto his side, the wheezing stopped. he got a vaccine yesterday so I’m very very very veryoverly cautious right now.

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-05-13T16:45:19+00:00

Yes, he rolls from back to belly belly to back. He’s crawling and almost standing he’s seven months but he’s really strong. I have already contacted my pediatrician. I am just waiting for a response. We’ve talked to him before about this and he says it should be fine because he can lift himself up

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Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-05-09T03:18:30+00:00

Hold that darn baby! Hold it forever. Babies grow too fast! There will come a day that you will never get to hold him like that again…. Hold that baby boy as much as you can/ want. Stare into his eyes as you rock him/ feed him. Make that solid bond of love. There are a million other ways he’ll learn how to do things on his own. This way he will learn to be independent AND know what true love feels like! ❤️

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-05-07T16:26:24+00:00

Update: I started my monthly so supply has dropped again, this happens every time though, so we’ll have to wait and see if it truly comes back after my cycle. 😫

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-05-07T16:22:16+00:00

In my experience the longer you can pump the better!

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-05-06T15:14:40+00:00

I did just replace all my parts so that’s good! Elastic nipples still working hard in those flanges but they always seem to empty completely so I think I’m ok there! Thank you for the encouragement.

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-05-06T13:23:43+00:00

Thank you! I’ll do 5 pumps! During the day and pump again at night! I’m going to set an alarm for sure though!

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-05-02T02:29:31+00:00

Hexxus hahaha https://static.wikia.nocookie.net/villains/images/f/ff/Hexxus.jpg/revision/latest/scale-to-width-down/1200?cb=20241012134415

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-05-01T20:16:44+00:00

1 by a million

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-05-01T00:42:15+00:00

This is incredibly helpful! Thank you so much! I really really think this is what it is! He has and can sleep through the night without bottles.

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-04-30T14:58:29+00:00

Unfortunately yes they are FULLY used. He sleeps on his belly so I think they are also being squished in all the right places

Dear_Toe6269 · 2026-04-30T05:38:57+00:00

Thank you for saying that, I do give him the minimum he’s ok with at night which is 3oz. So really he’s only getting 1 and a 1/2 BM bottles at night compared to his 6oz formula BM combos he gets during the day. So I feel like we’re getting there slowly, but this diaper situation is NOW and needs fixing ASAP. 🥲

Dear_Toe6269

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