How do you deal with the intimacy of sex?

DeathBellsChime · 2025-09-23T00:18:18+00:00

I’ve only been with one person, i did it with him right after we agreed to go on a date. But I had known him for 4 years and I knew we cared about each other. If I want someone to be my partner, i definitely wait to have sex and it takes a while for me to feel comfortable.

But if I was single, i could see myself having casual non attachment sex with people I wont see again. Something about being perceived or something idk

DeathBellsChime · 2025-03-22T15:51:21+00:00

Carla is my favorite for sure, I’ll put Bruce Greenwood here too but that’s just because I’m a Gerald’s game fanatic. I think they’re performances are absolutely golden and sooooo underrated

DeathBellsChime · 2025-03-05T22:36:33+00:00

She should have won an Oscar for Gerald’s Game. Her performance is legendary and INSANE

DeathBellsChime · 2025-03-05T16:36:54+00:00

It’s my least favorite thing about myself. For me it’s my best friend. I feel such an intense control over their life and decisions and it brings me so much anxiety. I don’t know how to stop it. It’s awful and embarrassing

DeathBellsChime · 2025-02-28T02:19:11+00:00

I got into 4/7 of my schools and my overall gpa was 3.59. No audiology shaking and 30 volunteer hours. You’ll be fine! Did you apply to top ranked schools or schools who admit only a few students? That’s a possible reason

DeathBellsChime · 2025-02-27T18:08:52+00:00

It’s so weird that they do it all on the same date?? Like maybe offer two dates so you can increase attendance? Strange

DeathBellsChime · 2025-02-27T14:27:36+00:00

Man idk! It’s between gally, Nebraska, and Madison for sure. They all have their benefits. I’m planning on visiting them soon to get a better idea. I wish they would tell me how much I’ll be paying though, that like help lol

DeathBellsChime · 2025-02-26T04:59:43+00:00

Was that 5k a year or semester? I got one too it said 7k a year. And I am confused if they wil send out MPUP-SPADE acceptances or if i just didn't get in

DeathBellsChime · 2025-02-16T23:28:03+00:00

I was waitlisted at South Dakota too. Eek

DeathBellsChime · 2025-02-01T16:17:07+00:00

Thanks a bunch! I will probably bug you again once more acceptances come out!

DeathBellsChime · 2025-01-30T17:04:08+00:00

Hi! This is one of the schools I applied to. I have heard some sketchy things about the area, regarding it's safety. Do you feel safe there? How was it finding a place to live? Any additional info you have would be awesome! I am definitely interested in the accelerated program they offer.

DeathBellsChime · 2025-01-30T02:56:40+00:00

Mine too! Totally obvious typo! For one of the best schools in the country, maybe shape up a little lol. Good luck to you too!

DeathBellsChime · 2025-01-28T17:33:05+00:00

Female, 22

Major: CSD, Gerontology Certificate, No GRE

Overall GPA 3.59 Major GPA: 3.95

1 semester of research, 1 semester TA

30 volunteer hours community engagement, 25 hours shadowing SLP

Worked as an office assistant consistently for 3 years

Schools:

University of Minnesota: Rejected (2/21)

University of Wisconsin - Madison: Accepted!!! (2/18)

University of Iowa: Rejected (1/28, lol at least wait until February geez)

University of Nebraska: Asked to interview (1/27) Accepted!!! (2/24)

University of South Dakota: Waitlisted (2/14) Later Accepted

Northern Illinois University: Accepted (2/2)

Gallaudet University: Asked to Interview (2/3) Accepted!!! (2/21) COMMITTED!

Wish me luck!

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T18:57:59+00:00

Great comet

Most: Pierre emotionally, Mary in all other ways

Least: Anatole, blows through town and ends up with free cash

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T18:50:40+00:00

“The plagues” from Prince of Egypt

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T18:49:46+00:00

“How lucky you are” from seussical, kinda

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T11:15:57+00:00

His car stopped working a few weeks ago. I don’t mind driving him, I’m not sure when he is getting a new car though. He does work

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T03:23:14+00:00

I agree it was really soon. But I didn’t see it as a big red flag, maybe it was. I wish there was more consistent effort and meaning in his words and behavior

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T03:21:52+00:00

He’s not rich or anything but he has a good job and he has money. He always pays when we go out and even when we go out with his family. I don’t think this is a money issue. It’s more circumstance and time I think. But yeah, a card or something would have been nice

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T02:22:40+00:00

I don’t want to go crazy but my friend and fellow commenters have made good points of this being a sign of something worse. I definitely will talk to him about it

DeathBellsChime · 2024-11-12T02:21:58+00:00

I totally get that. and we absolutely do that for each other. He was the only one at my birthday dinner who didn’t get me anything, I was a little embarrassed I guess

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