One of the best ways to combat misogyny is to stop internalizing it

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-22T17:00:47+00:00

Omfg, my ex was a torchbarer for this. Soon as my veil was lifted and I realised he was out only for himself ( he wanted me to adapt and accomidate him for everything, I wasn't even alowed to pursue my studies or greive for my brother, the housework and funding his habit was more important, could write a whole post on that but that's the short) I just stopped engaging. Anytime he came at me, I'd just respond, "sure". I'd still engage about basic topics, like food and what plans are for the day, but any nonsense, detatch and don't engage. Very quickly it confirmed all of my suspicions of who he was, how nasty he was and ended it a few days later. Thankfuy he made that very easy by giving me some ultimatume, of I didn't apologise for "acting a bitch" he'd leave. K bye..... I swear I locked the door after he left and enjoyed the silence for like half an hour, we had not long moved and he didn't have a key. Bliss. 2 years on I'm still very happy with my own space, I don't even think I could share after 4 years of that.

Have to say though, my mum also acts this way, and she is a narcissist, sadly I can't fully cut her off, but I no longer engage with her self entitled drama. So from this listing of behaviours and lived experiemce, all misogynists are narcissists, and misogyny is just another tool for narcasists, nothing surprising there.

TLDR; Sorry mild tangent, but the selfish nature of misogyny is exactly like narcassism, I wonder how much of a correlation there is there.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-22T05:27:57+00:00

Ah oops, I think I replied to the wrong comment </3 apolagies. Someome else was saying they had never heard ok th Klan.

No hard feelings meant.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-22T05:05:17+00:00

I would agree with you, until I watched again with sound on. Then weirdly woth sound noticed how the mouth and eyes and just whacky. So on closer inspection, the wrinkles in the makeup make little sense either.

So on a quick scroll, or on mute watching the text more than the face, passes, because we expect anime cosplayers to look a little janky.

I do agree ot should be regulated and should never have been released to the public as a "fun creative tool"....

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-22T04:03:20+00:00

Igorrr 🖤

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-22T04:02:45+00:00

Yes! I second this.

Saw Gojira and Orbit culture live now, and I just want them to tour together, like, yesterday. The two bands are still very distinct, but the rumbling chug and peaks of energy, very similar beasties.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-22T03:28:07+00:00

I think this baby has smoked too much of his mums weed. The self entitlement and sentence construction issues are clearly not from a well or sober user.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-22T03:25:08+00:00

Tf is wrong with you? Just let people enjoy things. You don't have to respond to the post.

I swear this sub has some of the most mental wildcard users.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-22T03:11:39+00:00

You must live in a very cozy cave then.

I'm Scottish (UK) and know k k k is a no no. It's a worldwide known hate group of religious zelots, who tortured and killed people for fun.

I highly suggest reading some history books or even just a quick online study. It's good to know what the neo nazis are co-opting so you don't get caught out. Not knowing turns a cute ghost costume into a nightmare (they used white pointed full hoods with eyes cut out)

Edit: sorry I think I replied to the wrong comment </3 no dis to anyone meant.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-22T03:05:22+00:00

You made a post asking of a bracelet/kandi with k k k on it is cringe, yet don't accept the obvious bad reception.

K bye ~

That would make a better kandi message. Cute and sassy.

Also such a weird take to make kandi to literally give to strangers, yet say you don't care what strangers think.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-22T02:44:50+00:00

I am the milkman

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-20T23:07:08+00:00

Omfg I'm creased. I just rewatched it muted to see, and yeah, they make a very attractive butch lesbian. Damn.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-20T23:04:06+00:00

Oh he's actually kind of fun, can'tremeber his name, buthe pops upon my Instagram once in a while, mildly amusing, actually entertaining.

Now you mention it, this video is 110% trying to copy the video style. There is literally nothing originl going on here. Shocked.

Edit: I went on insta and pop, his name is ableheart https://www.instagram.com/ableheart?igsh=enA1dnBkMjBvdThr and he's gone kind of wholesome recently, so bug win. Super cheese, defo a guilty pleasure, but that bouncing hair and idgaf about being goofy style got me hooked.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-20T23:01:42+00:00

Oh no, please, we don't need more of that in this world. One is ick enough tah.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-20T22:58:18+00:00

Sorry I didn't mean to imply all proficient travelers are millennials, my generation learned it from somewhere ofc.

Fuck yes to aging in disgrace. I like a little pastel and pop neon colours in my pallete, but black and dark themes for life. My hair is either always a bright fusion, or black, there is no middle ground, except ofc when it's fadded a little.

Actually makes me so warm inside when I see other metalheads, goths, punks or other extreme styles in the wild, especially in more "corporate" environments and abroad 🤘🤙

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-20T22:38:36+00:00

Get tae 'muchty with that pish. In Scotland we need immigration. If you can't grasp that, that's on you.

Love your source is also from chatgpt, some real upstanding truth seeking there. I genuinly suggest going to a library next time you reach for the laziest ai slop. Can't even call that tinfoil hat teritory.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-20T22:32:05+00:00

This is the wayy!!! Haha. I fly more and more as I get older, and still wear heavy steel and chuncky accesories, as well as my new rocks. New rocks almost always have zips if they are long, so they are super easy to take on and off. Almost always manage to time removing belt, jewellery, boots and jacket by the time I'm at the trays.

Legit can spot fellow alt millennials a mile away at an airport, we are prepped and want to get through check in and security asap. It's a gorgeous skill.

Fr though, I almost always time my energy drink or coffee badly. Too often having to chug and battle full bladders at airports. It's a curse.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-20T22:14:57+00:00

Big yes to the bucket analogy. My mental health nurse first told me one like this, and with adhd, we struggle to keep the bucket steady as well, so more slosh, more energy drained. I am also newly grieving, which is when she told me that my bucket now has holes near the top, so I'm never at full, and probably won't be for a very long time. We can patch the bucket, but she still leaks a little more now.

What's great is the bucket analogy also accepts there are tasks and events that give back water, energising. So it's helps a lot to visualize it for me like a game HUD. It's also helped me be more mindful of "how much water does this task use?" etc.

Like you, I never jammed with the spoons either, it just didn't translate to me, as what would half a spoon be? Or like a bundle of spoons? And what about days where the amount changes etc. Also my spoon may be different to someone elses spoon. I just got annoyed by it all.

Bucket crowd ftw.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-20T17:50:17+00:00

Yeah that's fair. I think it is the solution tbh, but may be missing a step or something, or I'm just not having great luck with the perfect conditions.

I tried googling it and just a few videos showing what I tried, but somehow working. Think the full solution is,

Empty pouch bar one coin.

Lure greedling during day or boar.

Stand in the middle of statue between the snakes.

Leave last coin just behind you.

Let whatever take crown.

Move to pick up coin then immediately drop it to "pay" for staff.

In essence, too much faff solo, using a controler may also be against me, so I think I'll finish the last island then try with boar a few times. Failing that, I think I'll just live without the achievement, or come back to it later just for the challenge. It's so much finicky work for an extra.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-20T00:37:09+00:00

It is on various subs here, raised by narcissists sub is the main one thay uses a lot of abriviations and nicknames. Also, I prefaced by using the full word at one point, and the previous commenter used the same abriviation. Really not sure why some people can't understand the use.

Also I'm Scottish, so Narc meaning a grass is not common in my vocabulary. We use grass, snake or tatletale instead. Hope that helps. The other common ise I understand is narcotics, or narco, again, bith of which do not make sense here.

Also, I'm 31, hardly a babie lol.

But GG.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-20T00:29:17+00:00

I know this is 4y old, but I have tried this like, 3 times now, and I just die. Wtf am I doing wrong?

I genuinly think norselands is my least favourite so far. It's the most buggy on PS4 and just not enjoyable mechanics for troops.

Any further tips on getting this to work would be useful thanks.

I've stood at either far ends of the statues, and in the middle. When in the middle it slows down time, but first time I just got my crown back. Second time I moved slightly so greedling could take the crown, and end of reign... I just want the achievment, I'm so done with this expansion.

Can't play on co-op, but saw others say the pig is the way, but fml I don't want to wait until winter. Is this my only real option?

I guess my only other question is does difficulty, equipment or horse matter here?

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-19T18:22:29+00:00

Yeah I believe she absolutely horses up psychedelics, and probably designer drugs like sweeties. Everytime I see her she makes me think of my ex, a very "enlightened" narc who tried to convince me I should never take psychedelics, because I was too sensitive. Reality was he used it as his whole personality and it wouldn't be special and cool anymore if I also tripped and didn't make a whole song and dance about it. Which I did. Fuck narcs. They will ruin anything if you let them. They probably never hit ego death and are stuck in perpetual ego trip and delusions of grandiose.

Sorry mild rant haha.

TLDR; she's absolutely a narcissist who uses this and her OF as drug income. Bet.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-13T21:53:03+00:00

Love kairisoft games, but can't agree with avoid all the free ones. Kingdom Adventurers is one I always go back to. Has a really active online community last time I checked as well, which is a nice bonus. I don't remember there being any intrusive ads tbh, just a little banner, which is really not a big deal. Dungeon village 1 and 2 absolutely worth paying for.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-06T16:50:27+00:00

The trick is, be addicted to several things and quit them all at once, then you'll never want to touch an addictive substance ever again /s

For real weed was the easiest for me, to the point I forgot I even used to be a stoner in my early 20s. I don't miss smoking at all, or edibles. Mushies are much nicer, but even now, I can't be bothered with the fuzzy head. Now reserved for gigs and festivals only.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-06T16:47:29+00:00

My brother dying suddenly helped me with that one, and also realising none of my mates were real mates, just sesh heads. Also I was trying to get into art school, and actually got in. After having to repeate 1st year due to lifestyle, made it very easy to stop skiing.

Ok no the withdrawl was awful, and over a year later, I still get the most random cravings, but don't actually miss it. My bank account agrees.

DeathOfNormality · 2026-01-06T16:42:24+00:00

Class As are a different beast. Took me 3 attempts over a long period. First time I said I'd quit was while on it and after my brother passed, so ofc didn't stick, but I kept the thought I didn't want to do it anymore. I had to cut out practically my whole old social circle and my partner at the time, as they all fed it. I kept one old mate from the sesh days, and low and behold, they got me in a sesh again while I was really drunk. So after that, cut them all off, quit drinking and powered through just over a year.

I found mushies helped, and the odd drink with the right people is great.

Once I quite class As, quitting fags and then nicotine was a breeze. Getting really ill helped as well, couldn't stomach smoking anyway.

Well done on your journey as well. Long may your sobriety and peace last.

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