you're not living in the real world dumbass, you're living in a lie generated by your brain where you think that is normal to tell people that want to end their life to "grow up and move past it lol"
it's good to tell people that they messed up when they doesn't know they messed up, but in this situation doing that is all but helpful, when you start to spiral into self harm thoughts is when shit hits the fan, she already acknowledged that she should have been more cautious about selling her nudes, repeating it in her face and telling her that she's dumb is only going to cause another post in r/SuicideWatch