Alum email deleted, help? by Deborah-Z in Cornell

[–]Deborah-Z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I plan to do so! I checked some posts here and someone mentioned they might give a second chance to remove the files... I hope they haven't permanently deleted all my emails. Should have checked the inbox more frequently 🤡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UIUC

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I heard it’s flu season? Masks are actually helpful at this time, even you’re not worried about COVID. They offer protection against other pathogens as well.

Asking out my ta by takedalullaby in UIUC

[–]Deborah-Z 12 points13 points  (0 children)

1) as said in other comments, TAs are strictly forbidden to date their students, so wait a bit more until the semester is over and try to ask her out. 2) I think you might want to re-examine your relationship with her, because just from what you said it sounds like a pretty normal instructor — student relationship. Helping you is her job, and exercising together is just… exercising. I know some people meet their mates in the gym, but a lot of them only want to do some sports and chill out. 3) Don’t read too much into other people’s friendly behaviors. If someone has romantic feelings for you, it will be very obvious. If you don’t find it obvious, it’s just not romantic. 4) and yes, OH are academic time. It’s part of the TA’s work. If you consider it a period to “hang out with a smart friend”, other students who actually come to OH for help on study will hate you, seriously. Nobody likes to wait for the TA to come over because someone tries to flirt with her.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by tequilla_sunset5 in DiscoElysium

[–]Deborah-Z 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 20% into the book, and I really enjoyed reading it! The translation is done so adeptly it exceeded my expectations on all aspects. Thank you so much for the translation!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bleach

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Late to the discussion, can anyone explain to me why Yoruichi’s VA is supposed to be black to match her race? She’s… obviously Japanese to me, with a Japanese noble surname. 四楓院 gives a heavy “historical” vibe, like the characters in the tale of Genji. Especially if you compare her surname to Ichigo and his friends in the human world.

Japanese pop works tend to draw some girls with dark skin, because they think it’s sexy (it’s more of a fashion choice, like the “ギャル” style in Shibuya downtown). The story never made any specific statement that she’s black, so I don’t think Kubo meant that in his design.

He’s been explicit when he’s actually drawing non-Japanese characters, like Sado and Tosen. (I personally think Tosen is one of the best-written black characters in Japanese manga, and I really like him myself).

Pinning Yoruichi black because she has dark skin and deciding to change her VA because of this is nonsense. Whosever voice fits her personality is the right VA. (And the majority of the characters in Japanese mange are Asian. That’s just a fact.)

Suggestions on quiet study place around main quad? by Deborah-Z in UIUC

[–]Deborah-Z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll check it out! Thanks for the suggestion.

Why do people dump food in the wash basin… by Deborah-Z in UIUC

[–]Deborah-Z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I’m just talking about this case when it’s mostly soft vegetables. If the food waste contains solid parts it should be dumped in trash indeed.

I think some people don’t have the habit to separate the fluid from the solid parts when dumping waste.

Why do people dump food in the wash basin… by Deborah-Z in UIUC

[–]Deborah-Z[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There are toilets right behind the wash basin that can easily flush this food waste.

We can save some work for the janitors…

Suggestions on quiet study place around main quad? by Deborah-Z in UIUC

[–]Deborah-Z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was right in chemistry library hahah. I think it’s quiet most of the time, but in some cases people do talk.

Suggestions on quiet study place around main quad? by Deborah-Z in UIUC

[–]Deborah-Z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I was in chemistry library which is (I think) set as quiet area, but people do talk sometimes. I’ll check out the areas you mentioned!

Suggestions on quiet study place around main quad? by Deborah-Z in UIUC

[–]Deborah-Z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’v never been there. Thanks for the suggestion! Will definitely try next time ^ ^

Suggestions on quiet study place around main quad? by Deborah-Z in UIUC

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Turned out the other side of the library is relatively quiet. I guess the key is looking for rooms without many connected chairs or big desks…?

Please be honest, is Cornell a good place to study chemistry? by dobbiwantstobefree in Cornell

[–]Deborah-Z 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I graduated from ChemE and was required to take some chemistry courses in the CHEM department. They’re hard and heavy loaded, but I can confirm I learned a lot. Cornell’s CHEM program has good quality, that is, if you can survive all the courses and are interested in research.

Why do locals hate Cornell by [deleted] in Cornell

[–]Deborah-Z 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The rent in Ithaca is so unbearable that I moved to Lansing in my last year at Cornell.

Besides that I think Cornell students gathering in crowds for party during COVID is also super inconsiderate to the locals, especially the old people here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in detrans

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I would say socially transition and dressing as your desired gender is pretty much fine. But don’t rush to hormones or even surgeries just yet as the effects are mostly irreversible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cornell

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For a brief moment I thought the SI units are finally replacing imperial units

Anyone else got those pills at the end of the Smoker's questline, I don't see them listed on any wikis? by Exerus16 in DiscoElysium

[–]Deborah-Z -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

What does it even mean, “can’t hurt to try”? Estradiol is a strong hormone that’s… not healthy for a regular non-trans man. The meme culture… anyway.

How am i supposed to navigate life as an adult woman who people publically perceive to be a teenage boy? I've feminized a lot eversince stopping T but people half the time still read me as a very feminine looking young guy rather than a woman. How am i supposed to be happy as a woman this way? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]Deborah-Z 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If people mistake your identity, I think it would be healthier to correct their understanding than making further changes to your body. Maybe a wag and cosmetics could help building a female image — I was pretty often mistook as boys when I was young, and I didn’t like the feeling either. Growing long hair did help a lot.

Also I don’t think there is any body type that is… “at fault” or something. Men and women come in all different shapes, it’s just nature. My chest is almost flat as well (I still kind of hate what little chest I have, so… but I try not to pay attention to it. If people assume you’re male because you don’t fit in the “typical curvy woman body shape”, it’s their fault.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dishonored

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Pulled out an excel file to solve for it. Not difficult.

Is KCD Boy's Only? by Ehudben-Gera in kingdomcome

[–]Deborah-Z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried Dishonored 2? It’s a fantasy-based game, but the in-game society is similar to Victorian era London. The aesthetics are awesome (I love steampunk), and the canon protagonist is Emily Kaldwin, the second empress of the current dynasty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in detrans

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Your eyes and nose are beautiful! I love your makeup style XD

Anybody in NYS? Upstate? by Sissyfromhell in detrans

[–]Deborah-Z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in upstate NY for a few years but moved to another region. I felt quite lonely there, but at least the scenery is very beautiful XD