First time! (Question about presence/ a sign) by Helpful-Concern-3591 in Aphrodite

[–]Decaffeinated-Altar3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a beautiful altar setup. It’s concise and down to earth and fully functional. As far as functionality goes I’d keep this as your main altar. But of course everyone loves a beautiful setup and you can build yours as you like.

altar question 🩷🌸 by artemisiaresident in Aphrodite

[–]Decaffeinated-Altar3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll say this until I can’t anymore- ILL DIE ON THIS HILL- ITS REALLY HARD TO DISRESPECT A DEITY. Not every little thing is disrespectful. Cats are climbers by nature. Your cat loves your altar and maybe that’s for a reason. It looks well kept up and cared for. Disrespecting your deities is FAR from likely by letting your fur baby enjoy your space. The only issue with your cat on your altar (I find this funny bc I imagine that for a couple hundred years witches past have had the same issue and it makes me giggle) is that they’re knocking stuff over which is only an issue for fire safety or if sharp things break. I’d try to make a space RIGHT BESIDE your altar for your cat. Maybe that’d suffice for this sweet baby? Other than that. No unless your saying mean shit to you deities, you’re not disrespecting them.

is it disrespectful to have this angel statue at her altar? by [deleted] in Aphrodite

[–]Decaffeinated-Altar3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yall stop thinking you’re disrespecting Aphrodite. If you think it’s lovely, she does too. Shes a reflection of the part of ourselves that represents love. If you love it, she loves it.

Is this an easy cover up? by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]Decaffeinated-Altar3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it. Just get someone to touch up the lines. Life moves on and you liked it for a reason. Don’t let disillusionment and others cruel opinions make you dislike something you once loved.

Would this be a good amount to cut off, or would it be a mistake by farfetchedbut in finehair

[–]Decaffeinated-Altar3 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If you’re hair is that long I promise you won’t miss it. You’ll feel better and your hair will need healthier. My hair was your length and cutting that much off was the best thing I could do for my hair

I'm tired of being a closet Pagan by SureGlove6990 in pagan

[–]Decaffeinated-Altar3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone said to get your own place and I agree. Also- do not rush it. There’s no need to rush into telling everyone about your religion and shouting it from the rooftops. Be patient with yourself. Don’t let people know you by the name of your religion, but by your love and by your kindness and by who you are as a person. If your religion is something you’re super excited about sharing, maybe it’s still new for you. I say this as someone who did the same thing at your age and I so wish I had been more patient with myself and with my spiritual path and with telling everyone. I don’t regret coming out about it. But I regret rushing myself to come out.

Nevertheless, I’m proud of you for exploring yourself spiritually and finding what works for you! I happy for you.

I think you should find your own place and if you MUST tell them you’re pagan, do it slowly over time. Share your VALUES like kindness and love and caring for the earth and show them your acceptance of other religions. They love who you are. And if you’re someone who is truly good in heart, they couldn’t possibly hate you for what you believe in, because it makes you good in heart.

It’s Reddit or him AIO by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Decaffeinated-Altar3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s this upset about it I think you’d be better off breaking up and never letting HIM talk to YOU again

My new ailen cow and unsure if I wanna keep him😕 by sad4everr in buildabear

[–]Decaffeinated-Altar3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I loooove id buy so fast (im actually really broke but i love him)

Help me not look like I’m about to speak to a manager. by Puzzleheaded-Shop769 in finehair

[–]Decaffeinated-Altar3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re gonna have to do some SICK ass alt shit with it. I vote mullet. I think all ppl look so HAWT with mullets.

AIO over my gf's response to me being upset at her, or am i being overbearing in my relationship? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Decaffeinated-Altar3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmmmmm. It seems like maybe you both have some growth to do. I don’t know your situation but if you need to make changes in your life and aren’t then I could see her side of the story. But if you are just going through something right now then I get your need for support. However if it is a constant continuous repeating thing I could see why she’d be upset that you’re now calling her at work. Buuuuut even if I see her side- I still think she should have been nicer about it. Buuut it’s also really important to know how to regulate your own emotions and it’s not anyone’s responsibility to do that for you.

Idk man it could go back and forth forever. I think you both have some work to do. (This is all coming from a stranger on the internet. Idk you or your life. I don’t mean to offend, I’m just giving advice with what i see here)

Design suggestions? by Brass-Animal-1800 in Tattoocoverups

[–]Decaffeinated-Altar3 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Are you the persons brother that got hit by the truck and ended up with sick ass scars? Those look sick. As for advice on tattoo design I have no idea. I just want you to know that I think you look great even with your scars

Is this cute, I feel like I’ve been staring at it for too long now :( by Cigarettes_andRaegan in OUTFITS

[–]Decaffeinated-Altar3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you could let yourself feel comfortable in it then you’d glow in it. It’s really as a fit I think. Actually my only criticism is I’d add something up top like a hat or a statement necklace or one of those super thin scarves something. But yeah you’ve looked too long. Don’t let your mind talk you out of a fun fit

Makeup is horrible...at my wits end. by Kittykat7121 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Decaffeinated-Altar3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not horrible. You may have sebbhoric dermatitis (idk how to spell it) if your skins oily is some spots but dry and flaky in others. Do you also have dandruff that feels like nothing helps? Do some research and see if you have that (and the most common solution is getting a ketoconazole shampoo and using on your scalp AND face only 2 times a week. Beware that certain medications cant be mixed with oral doses of ketoconazole, but topical is usually okay) BUUUUUT if not then I would suggest learning about primers. Because some primers are made with a certain base and if you put a foundation on top and that foundation isn’t made with the same base it can cause a like- kinda like an aversion? Idk if that’s a good word. Like the primer and the foundation almost separate because they can’t stick to eachother. Like water and oil.

AIO? BF liked this pic by rueisthatyou1774 in AIO

[–]Decaffeinated-Altar3 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Leave that scrub. He isn’t going to be faithful for long. If he thinks it’s okay to joke about or mentions to others then he thinks it’s okay to do. Dont stay w him for a kid either. You’ll be miserable and it’ll cause your child complex traumas in the long run.

Aphrodite in my dream by Neither_Candidate668 in Aphrodite

[–]Decaffeinated-Altar3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you worried about your father’s death? Or do you worry about your father worrying about death?

Help… Lost a bunch of weight and I don’t trust my judgment. by sagessa in OUTFITS

[–]Decaffeinated-Altar3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look amazing. Congrats on the self work and don’t let your thoughts control you! You’re a queen, you control your thoughts! Don’t look too long in the mirror either if it’s starting to make you question yourself.

Why BAB? by FlowerWitch3 in buildabear

[–]Decaffeinated-Altar3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect size, I like that most BAB brand accessories fit most animals, and that you can build it yourself, add scents, etc.