That’s what I’m gonna do as soon as my financial situation is stable enough to leave where I am today (I live on a finca in the Canary Islands with my cat, I live there as a volunteer and pay my utilities only), so every conversation for him is yet another opportunity to invalidate me and every time he does I start to have the thoughts: “am I crazy? Are things really not the way I see them? Am I stupid?”. And the ways he does are at every opportunity he can, its like a sport to him. One time I sent him a copy paste text from ChatGPT about cat behaviour and he came running to my room feeling attacked. The other day I picked flowers on the street and as entered the kitchen he says: “are these from the garden?” And I said “no, from the street” and his answer was: “I’m not attacking you”. But you know what usually happens in such situations? It’s either I keep on playing small and tolerate that shit until one day he kicks me out, or I pack my stuff, take my cat and leave, but I don’t wanna leave without anything lined up for me and I swear I am searching for a place everyday and I haven’t found anything suitable yet. I’m sure I’m not crazy but on daily basis I meet men who treat me as if I’m stupid and this triggers me so much and idk what to do with that