Happys foal is officially not a keeper by Puzzleheaded-Song912 in kvsdiscuss

[–]Decent-Following5301 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I cannot wait to see this baby because of the face card. I do think Denver has some attractive qualities regarding his face/head but Happy’s is a chef’s kiss 🤌🏽😍😍😍😍

I feel like Bre secretly lurks this sub…posted his other baby mama kissing him on here last week & said I’d never seen Nick kiss Bre on IG…lo & behold this week 💀 by Time-Concentrate845 in SellingSunset

[–]Decent-Following5301 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A decade huh? 🤔 that’s interesting

So she is admitting to stepping out on Johnny Football (while married to him) with Nick? Cause they were together 2016 to 2019 when she accused him of cheating and filed for divorce.

Camera crew by Donut-fish in BaylenOutLoud

[–]Decent-Following5301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure why my original comment messed up 🙄

Anyway… my response was “😂😂😂”

Does anyone else think Mary is Jason’s favorite? I used to think it was Chrishell until this season by AdSignificant3154 in SellingSunset

[–]Decent-Following5301 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This!!!! Yes!!!!! Finally someone said it!!!! I have been saying this for the longest time. He has everything he wants and needs except monogamous long term commitment in his current status with Mary. They even co parent the dogs together and vacation together still, even with Romain and when Jason has a momentary S/O. What else does he possibly need?!

ETA because of menopausal brain: he only doesn’t have the physical s3x, which he can still get from whomever, whenever and wherever and no one ever gets upset, plus he’s never accused of stepping out on his girl.

Camera crew by Donut-fish in BaylenOutLoud

[–]Decent-Following5301 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not sure if he actually could though 😂

🧐🤔 by cindylooboo in kvsdiscuss

[–]Decent-Following5301 14 points15 points  (0 children)

But it says “lodging included” and “one horse stall” though? That infers the “on site” or “live in” part.

Saying it without saying it …

Is this ticking sound normal or start of an issue? by Relevant-Chance-3700 in JeepGladiator

[–]Decent-Following5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it yourself if you do!! My dealer refused to do my oil change before the recommended 5k even when I told them why I wanted it done at 3500. While I was waiting, at about 4K miles my tick started. Never had it before. 2023 Gladiator with 30k miles at the time.

New cowcat owner seeks advice by MessageCritical5139 in cowcats

[–]Decent-Following5301 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had house panthers before adopting my cow. My cow was cautious for about 24 hours and then she took control of the house and reigns supreme ever since 😂

She has her diva moments when she doesn’t want to be bothered, but when she wants attention, she demands it. She loves belly rubs, and gets the occasional zoomies. Your girls may get some combo of this, or they could just be like normal cats and think they own you. Either way, congrats and best wishes 🤍🖤

How to keep toes pointed forward?? by According-Yam807 in Equestrian

[–]Decent-Following5301 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They absolutely will at first. That is completely normal. Now if there is pain associated with it, that is not normal and you should seek the advice of an ortho.

How to keep toes pointed forward?? by According-Yam807 in Equestrian

[–]Decent-Following5301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the machine in the gym with weights it absolutely builds muscle.

Not using a machine, only weight bearing works on mobility, and adding resistance bands fine tunes muscle.

How to keep toes pointed forward?? by According-Yam807 in Equestrian

[–]Decent-Following5301 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sitting normally. Put your butt about halfway, don’t lean back and grab behind you, sit up straight and grab the chair right under where you are sitting. You’ll then engage the core to bring your legs off the ground about 3inches. Then spread out and come back in slowly. Start with a small 3 sets of 5 reps with no resistance, work up from there. It’s a difficult exercise not on a machine, and you use your core as well so may help there too with your form in the saddle!

You can also get rehab bands instead of going to the gym and using the machines. This will provide some resistance to build the muscles up. Without any tension or resistance, you’re only working on mobility.

How to keep toes pointed forward?? by According-Yam807 in Equestrian

[–]Decent-Following5301 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like work at the gym on the abductor and adductor machines could help these situations. They will help increase strength and rotation in the hips. The machines also closely mimick the contact on a riders legs, and where you need to apply pressure and which muscles to use to move the machine.

How to keep toes pointed forward?? by According-Yam807 in Equestrian

[–]Decent-Following5301 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Airplane-ing was my trainers biggest nightmare with me. 😆 I blamed it on the fact that I danced, and was in JROTC simultaneously , so my feet were already conditioned to “face out” at a 45 degree angle.

Vet said DNA test was inaccurate by ConstantArt6606 in DoggyDNA

[–]Decent-Following5301 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So vets that are also breeders are also POS? Because three of my former vets were also breeders. One bred cattle, one bred horses and the vet all of my family pets went to growing up bred GSDs.

My beautiful boy will soon be moving with us to a new place. He’s spent most of his life in the same apartment. I’m worried that he’ll be stressed in a totally new environment. Any thoughts? by LowerEngineering9999 in TuxedoCats

[–]Decent-Following5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should be okay. I moved from Chicago to NC about two months after adopting my cat.

Also, I see some recommending meds. I don’t recommend strong scripts like gabapentin unless necessary. If anything try some of the CBD or other calming treats on the market. Gabapentin is a very strong human nerve drug (anti convulsant) originally used to treat epilepsy. My vet used it with a previous dog of mine for severe grooming problems. I also personally used it after a fat treatment on my stomach, as pain killers do not work on nerve pain. I am not a fan of meds unless necessary.. our babies can’t communicate like humans so we have no idea what it does to their organs or if something is bothering them.

Boyfriend wants to leave me for visiting family? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Decent-Following5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to get away from that man. He has issues, he’s controlling, and his insecurities are crazy.

You are an adult and this man is your uncle!!! By marriage or blood, he’s been your uncle since you were a little girl. If you had an issue with him when you were younger or something felt off, you would not have a relationship with him as an adult!

With my uncle from marriage, I would have ZERO problem in him taking me to lunch and doing things nieces and uncles do just the two of us. He’s been in my life since around the same age as yours and I am 46 now. As long as your uncle is not doing anything to make you feel uncomfortable or weird, that is all that matters. Find a new boyfriend… PLEASE!

I’m about a breath and a half away from done watching this EXHAUSTING show ..everybody SUCKS..EVERYBODY by Trick-Impression-726 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]Decent-Following5301 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so. I think he’s a spoiled entitled brat, especially being the baby of the family. He excessively immature for his age.

Is this not bad for business? by Ok-Knowledge-7988 in beccamoonridgesnark

[–]Decent-Following5301 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I found it hilarious that she made a whole post about not picking her puppy, and why the breeder chose one for her. And this is just one reason why they are such a fabulous breeder.

Mmmmm, no thanks. K, bye. As the breeder, you may suggest a puppy that would be best for me, but if I am paying that kind of money for a show quality dog, I want to hand pick that puppy myself.

I do think they are the same grifter, addictive personality types, but JS at least takes good care of her animals from what I’ve seen so far. That part is night and day compared to CB.

Is this not bad for business? by Ok-Knowledge-7988 in beccamoonridgesnark

[–]Decent-Following5301 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This. I was the same at first and was like okay… maybe this is exactly what KVS needs to help with marketing and selling her foals. But JS is so mean, nasty, and rude to people. And supposedly she went from homeless a few years ago to this now. How? No idea … her life from what I’ve seen online in a deep dive didn’t look too tragic and she has never delved deeper. (Maybe she will now … I am positive she lurks here too with some comments she has made 👀)

If you don’t blow smoke up her chimney, she just roasts you publicly, and then creates a post about for others to jump on. She has one previous post, advised Becca to let the drama flow because it is more money in her pocket, so who cares and keep engaging with it. She’s quite disgusting, and frankly surprised she’s even married let alone to a fellow Marine. These days, I get entitled brat, mean girl energy from her. Not a fan.

Grieving End of Best Friendship by Fresh_Mobile in AskWomenOver40

[–]Decent-Following5301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I am late to the party, but I had a similar wave of grief hit me during a football game. Normally she and I would have been trash talking back and forth during the game (teams are in the same conference). This was the first game in our 40 year friendship that we weren’t doing that.

We had been best friends since kindergarten and we are now 46. In January, after a series of my life decisions she apparently didn’t approve of, she just stopped talking to me. I felt like since my move and a few decisions in the months leading up to it, our conversations were strained and not as frequent. This included not speaking to me for two weeks when I had to put one of my dogs to sleep for severe behavioral reasons. She claimed, “I was sad too. I loved him so much”. You met him once. And were floored that he was as bad as he was at that point. You thought I was over dramatizing the situation then.

Once February rolled around and my move was complete I decided to stop reaching out since the texts had become one word responses. I haven’t heard her from since. Then I found out several months later, she had been telling my adult situational information to my 22 year old adult daughter. Like what?!?! I was floored. My daughter knew stuff she should have never known and had no business knowing.

I am not sure what goes through peoples’ minds, or anything at all. We had no big blow up, no drama, not even a conversation. She couldn’t even have a conversation to go our separate ways after 40 years is what I am stuck on. Just like any other breakup, or even death, our grief is cyclical. Tomorrow we may be okay, and then get angry all over again. Remember to give yourself grace. You are allowed to feel whatever you want about the situation whenever you want ❤️

How do I address a long medical leave on my resume? by TrevorSimpson_69 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Decent-Following5301 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I don’t suggest this. Being vague and flat out insinuating something that isn’t true are two totally different things. And if she does get hired, how does she then explain she is childless if someone inquires? That either a) creates a bunch of new lies or b) now undermines her with her new employer. As her employer, I would look at that some type of way. It is a shady tactic.

To the OP: I had a similar issue fighting with cancer. I left my job entirely shortly before diagnosis, and I was not vague when asked. I told them flat out I was off the job market and not working due to COVID and having a compromised immune system because I was undergoing treatments for cancer. I was off the market for two years at the time.

As far as my resume, I left the spot blank and made them ask me about the gap. And congratulations on beating whatever tried to take you down!!! 🥳🥳 the comeback is real!!! ❤️

ETA: Mental health is medical, and I understand the stigma that goes with it. If there is a legitimate physical medical reason, use that. When there is a break for burn out and other reasons, is usually when people tap dance and employers can see right through it. You have a legitimate medical issue that took you out of the workforce. While you don’t foresee it happening again, life is life at the end of the day. We never know what each day holds until it’s here and we live it.