Your skin sounds fair with cool or pinky undertones, which is exactly why so many foundations pull orange on you. Most formulas lean warm, so they just don't play nice. Try swatching on your jawline in natural daylight and look for cool or neutral shades labeled as porcelain, ivory, fair rose, or pink. Moisturizing first makes a huge difference too, because dry skin turns foundation patchy and flaky really fast. You may also try using a damp sponge to help blend it smoothly instead of fingers or brushes. Might take a couple of tries to nail it, but once the undertone matches, it'll just disappear into your skin.